This is what he told me: “I want marriage but in the future not now , I really can’t have a love relantionship with anyone right at this moment because I’m a caretaker for my mom , I really came on here because I’m a bored man and want to talk to people and get to know people , that’s really my story . If that bothers you I understand you can block me and move on if you feel ?” I don’t necessarily wanna date him. I was speaking to him through an app. He seemed under the impression that I wanted something serious, because I asked him if he ever wanted to get married because he’s 34. Submitted February 16, 2020 at 11:59PM This is what he told me:“I want marriage but in the future not now , I really can’t have a love relantionship with anyone right at this moment because I’m a caretaker for my mom , I really came on here because I’m a bored man and want to talk to people and get to know people , that’s really my story . If that bothers you I understand you can block me and move o...

I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION TO ANYONE WHO WANTS THIS TO GO ON ANY REDDIT READING YOUTUBE CHANNELS LKE RSLASH OR GIOFILMS. I really like this girl in my grade, and I want to ask her out. But there are two problems. Im nervous (obviously, ill explain more) And my parents don’t know that I’ve had crushes on anyone at school. It will be uncomfortable explaining who I like and it will be a big surprise to them. I need help telling them what is going on. This is going to sound stupid but hear me out. When I was in preschool, there were girls in my class that would chase me and threaten to “kiss me.” I hated that, and eventually switched schools because of it. It scarred me from dating or having crushes on anyone. I feel that I am more nervous than a lot of other people because of it. If anyone can help me, that would be great. I will answer any questions Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:09AM I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION TO ANYONE WHO WANTS THIS TO GO ON ANY REDDIT READING YOUTUBE CHAN...

If you are still a virgin or single then don’t worry, sex isn’t for everyone just because others are doing it doesn’t mean you should be doing it as well Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:13AM If you are still a virgin or single then don’t worry, sex isn’t for everyone just because others are doing it doesn’t mean you should be doing it as well

I'm a woman on my 30s getting back to dating. 1rst. I learned that women need to date like a man, go out with couple of guys at the same time BUT 2nd I Need to learn how to actually land a relationship, after being with the same guy for such a long time. Now that I'm doing this online dating thing, and went to the first date with this guy on his 40s, and realized he could have potential. Now what??? datingfordummies Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:14AM I'm a woman on my 30s getting back to dating. 1rst. I learned that women need to date like a man, go out with couple of guys at the same time BUT 2nd I Need to learn how to actually land a relationship, after being with the same guy for such a long time.Now that I'm doing this online dating thing, and went to the first date with this guy on his 40s, and realized he could have potential. Now what???datingfordummies

I know I sound desperate when I type this but I just don’t get how I am meant to be alone. I’m 25, have a bachelors, own a condo and have a decent job. I don’t think I look overweight & I try to take care or my appearance. So why can’t I find a man? I’ve tried the apps on and off for years. I always attract what I don’t want. And what I do want: doesn’t like me back, only wants casual or is a total jerk. I’m told I’m nice so what gives? I have no friends either. I’m pretty easy going and feel like I have been able to accomplish what I want out of life, for the exception of a social life and good boyfriend. I am very distrusting of people in general, due to my bad experiences. I don’t think I’m overly picky and have every right to standards. I see people bigger and uglier or average looking, capable of finding a partner that I find appealing. I was fatter and didn’t get attention, I’m smaller now and still alone. I don’t message guys too often on the app, when I do make the first m...

So I (24m) met a girl (23f) while I was on a gig (I play trombone with a band) on 2/7. Normally I'm super nervous to approach women I find attractive so I was going about my business and packing up my horn for the night when she came up to me and started basically telling me her life story - from the sorority she was a part of in college to her life plans to how obsessed she is with planning stuff in her calendar. I liked how forward she was and she was also super funny and I was impressed with how organized and generally put together she was. Oh and she was so freakin' cute too. We hit it off pretty good and exchanged numbers but here's where the thinking too hard starts: I left for a trip to spain two days after we met. I gave her the ol' "hey if you wanna keep up with all my travelling adventures add me on snapchat" and she did. We managed to keep a streak going all while I was on vacation so it wasn't like we never spoke the whole time, it was just no...

I seem to have an issue with trying to make things work with every girl I date. For example during dates I will feel like I’m not actually attracted to this person and question what I’m doing during the date then afterwards I’m still eager to try it again. After so many dates it’s not working out and I’m probably not giving the other person what they want either and it goes stale and I end up really hurt or disappointed even though I probably caused it. Any ideas why or what this is about? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:21AM I seem to have an issue with trying to make things work with every girl I date. For example during dates I will feel like I’m not actually attracted to this person and question what I’m doing during the date then afterwards I’m still eager to try it again. After so many dates it’s not working out and I’m probably not giving the other person what they want either and it goes stale and I end up really hurt or disappointed even though I probably caused it.A...

. Hi! Another guy asking for advice here, normal stuff. Where do i begin? So, i'm 19M, turning 20 in a few months from now, and the thing is, i've never been in a relationshipp or even kissed a girl before . Now, some people think and even told to me that my situation is kind of a pathetic one, but actually, i'm quite proud of it! Why? because i spent all those years growing as the man i always wanted to be: healthy, gentle, hitting the gym now and then and getting into a well known college here in my country, blah blah. When i was a freshman in my college i met this girl from a different career, let's call her N (19F) N is a cute and quite charming girl. So N and i became classmates and it wasn't long until she entered my group of friends (we're like 4 boys and 3 girls). We talk a few times since then (like 2 times per week), but i know so little about her, onlu that she LOVES cats, and that she suffers from insecurity problems because of her ex. There were a...

. So I follow this girl on ig. My friend introduced me to her once and honestly since then I haven’t seen her. I like her posts and she does the same to mine. We haven’t had that much online conversations. I would prefer to do it in person. How should I ask her to go out but not necessarily make it seem as a date? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:28AM . So I follow this girl on ig. My friend introduced me to her once and honestly since then I haven’t seen her. I like her posts and she does the same to mine. We haven’t had that much online conversations. I would prefer to do it in person. How should I ask her to go out but not necessarily make it seem as a date?

This guy was in the class with me last year. I already knew him but very little and we weren't friends or anything. I got a random crush on him and I tried to flirt with him etc, he was a bit responsive and acted stupid af He was a flirty guy in general and I noticed it but liked him though because he was handsome and I was curious about him. Anyway once we were walking to a random school event and we asked out of nowhere for a selfie with him. It wasn't a special event and he didn't ask anyone else. I tried to ask why but he ignored me. We didn't talk much during the time we were in class aside from random school stuff. By flirting I mean eye contact, he told me to call him by his first name instead of his last name like anyone else, called me honey once, sent heart emojis, made sexual jokes, once he joked about dating and made sure he always said hi etc I am pretty sure he wasn't into me in general though. I realized he talked me about in third person while I...

Looking for some advice on my "relationship" with a girl [17] I [17M] know from work. We started as friends and she would ask for advice on what to say to other boys who were pursuing her, but during this time I met her mom, stepdad, dad and brother and went to her house twice (mostly just talking on her bed, and by on her bed I mean me awkwardly sitting on her bed while she wrapped herself in blankets). For the past week or two, we've been going out and just doing whatever almost every other night, even on weeknights. And three days prior to Valentine's day, she started texting me every morning, starting a convo, and we would text all day until we would meet up. The day before Valentine's, I started the convo and we talked until we had work (our shifts started at the same time). She saved me some fries from Maccas and waited for me in the parking lot so she could give them to me and we could walk in together. Initially, my plan was to talk with her the entire sh...

Hey, since i dont read a lot of the posts here, i decided to make one offering my advice. Ive been in serios and casual relationships, so i would say i know enough to give some advice. Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:31AM Hey, since i dont read a lot of the posts here, i decided to make one offering my advice. Ive been in serios and casual relationships, so i would say i know enough to give some advice.

So lately I have seen girls have their phone numbers listed on their Instagram profiles and I am wondering, is that an invitation to text them? What is probability of this working out in a guy’s favor? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:32AM So lately I have seen girls have their phone numbers listed on their Instagram profiles and I am wondering, is that an invitation to text them? What is probability of this working out in a guy’s favor?

Due to my current living situation I’m mostly limited to dating apps and I only seem to match with people who are more interested in being entertained than doing interesting self improvement stuff, I’m aware that there are many girls who have self propelled amazing lives as I’m friends with some but I can’t seem to find any to romantically connect with (I’d try to meet through friends but I’m gonna be somewhat isolated from my friends for about another year) I’m 21m and I try hard to make my life interesting and am tired of being a life tour guide to people who never ask me to go do anything in their personal worlds Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:32AM Due to my current living situation I’m mostly limited to dating apps and I only seem to match with people who are more interested in being entertained than doing interesting self improvement stuff, I’m aware that there are many girls who have self propelled amazing lives as I’m friends with some but I can’t seem to find any to r...

I'm (21M) head over heels with a friend of mine (22F), a few mutual friends can tell that I'm really crushing on her. We know each other pretty well and are very comfortable around one another. We've hung out one-on-one quite a few times, if someone saw us they'd probably think they were dates. I've made my mind up to ask her out. I feel like it would be a bit silly to ask her on a date at this point. Usually going on dates is for getting to know the other person, but we already know each other and have gone on a few dates in all but name already. A friend told me to just tell her how I feel - that I like her, I've begun to develop feelings for her and respectfully ask if she'd be interested in a relationship. Which approach do you think works best? People who've been asked out by a friend before, which approach did they use and how did you feel about it? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:36AM I'm (21M) head over heels with a friend of mine ...

So I have a question for you guys. My boyfriend told me he doesn’t think he’s capable of love and has never felt love before that wasn’t platonic. We have been dating for almost a year, and our relationship works really well. I enjoy being with him a lot and he enriches my life. Although I really think I do love him sometimes, it’s almost like - yes... I do love him because I love who he is. But I just learned about the sexuality “aromantic” and it made me think. Maybe I have never loved anyone before. The first time I “liked” a guy, I was in the eighth grade and everyone made fun of me because of people were starting to have sex at that point. (I’m 22 years old now) i even experimented with other women, thinking I was gay, because I didn’t feel “romantic” feelings towards men, but then I found out I didn’t towards women either. I like the idea of romance and sometimes I desire it but I don’t desire it as often as I feel a normal person does. I don’t want to spend all my time with any...

I went out with a very nice woman a few days ago. We had a great date, it was flirty but we also had a lot in common so conversation flowed pretty well. We're both 30, have good jobs, etc. She ended up telling me she didn't feel a spark. She was actually quite honest with me, she said that she thought I was handsome and interesting and a catch, but there wasn't the x factor that she was looking for. She also mentioned she was wary of someone who had never had a long term relationship before. Personally, I've just been doing lots of other things that I prioritized up until this point and have only pursued dating seriously in the last few years, so there isn't really much I could do about that. Is this common for people to have a strong consideration for either feeling chemistry/deciding to pursue a relationship? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:29AM I went out with a very nice woman a few days ago. We had a great date, it was flirty but we also had a lot i...

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Regardless of gender if you ask someone out, you should probably drive right? Or at least suggest meeting halfway? Please no comments about how you’d never date someone that far away. That isn’t my question Tl;dr would you drive to someone if you were the one who asked them out Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:02AM Regardless of gender if you ask someone out, you should probably drive right? Or at least suggest meeting halfway?Please no comments about how you’d never date someone that far away. That isn’t my questionTl;dr would you drive to someone if you were the one who asked them out

This is a throwaway just for personal safety. So I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He lives kind of far from me so we haven’t hung out that much. He messaged me to ask if I wanted to hang out and be his Valentine on Friday. We went out to a nice restaurant, he drove me home and it was really nice. He also got me a gift. Also keep in mind he did like 6 hours of driving just to set this up. I messaged him to yesterday to say I had a good time, no response. I look on the dating app we met and he either deleted me or deleted his profile. I don’t really get why someone would go so out of their way on Valentine’s Day just to ignore me. Maybe something happened on our date, I just don’t get it. Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:05AM This is a throwaway just for personal safety.So I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months. He lives kind of far from me so we haven’t hung out that much. He messaged me to ask if I wanted to hang out and be his Valentine on Friday.We ...

I’ve been dating a great guy (28) for over a year. I’m (21) and neither of us had been in a serious relationship before. Right around the one year mark (around dec. 2019) I found condoms in his car. We don’t use them so I asked him why they were in his car! He told me that they were his almost 60 year old dad's. After pressing him he admitted that was a lie and he just couldn't remember remember when or why he had them. This happened well over a month ago now but my mind keeps going back to it. Am I being a clown? Submitted February 17, 2020 at 12:09AM I’ve been dating a great guy (28) for over a year. I’m (21) and neither of us had been in a serious relationship before.Right around the one year mark (around dec. 2019) I found condoms in his car. We don’t use them so I asked him why they were in his car! He told me that they were his almost 60 year old dad's.After pressing him he admitted that was a lie and he just couldn't remember remember when or why he had...