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/u/Amaevise on asexual icon

Exactly, which is exactly how the stereotypical hobo is drawn. The fact that normal people also look like that is irrelevant, I'm talking about his design and the perception it gives. June 24, 2021 at 12:26AM

/u/Amaevise on asexual icon

It's great that he actually does have this depth, I just think this character design should match it June 24, 2021 at 12:24AM

/u/Amaevise on asexual icon

No, I don't watch TV. I didn't even know he didn't have his shit together to begin with, I was just judging it based on his looks as most people do June 24, 2021 at 12:23AM

/u/princess_lissie_ on Boyfriend still wants a lot of sex after I came out

Scarleteen has a want/will/won't list on their website that can be filled out digitally or printed off and written in! June 24, 2021 at 12:22AM

/u/SereneFairSky on 8 types of love

Which one is romantic love? June 24, 2021 at 12:18AM

/u/crackedeyethrow on it came! :)

yeeee June 24, 2021 at 12:18AM

/u/Teen_in_the_closet on Is it okay to call myself Biromantic Asexual?

Of course you can. I myself am 14F and biroace. If the labels biromantic asexual feel right to you, you can use them. And if things change, that’s ok. You don’t have to put yourself in a box. Labels don’t have to be permanent, they’re useful tools to describe our feelings. June 24, 2021 at 12:14AM

How to become comfortable with being eaten out?

My boyfriend wants to eat me out, which is something I wouldn't mind, but I'm uncomfortable with how close his face will be to my vagina and the view he will see. Genitals aren't pretty, I think And I'm not sure what to do with my pubic hair. I only trim (basically cutting the hair as short as possible using scissors and a comb). I think if I shaved my vagina it would look better, but I don't know how to do that and I'm scared of giving myself a razor burn, ingrown hair or something worse. Should I just try to shave myself and see what it happens (if so, can you recommend any good tutorials for complete beginners?)? And how many days in advance should I do that? For the record, I haven't come near his penis yet, so I can't put myself in his shoes. Submitted June 23, 2021 at 11:31PM My boyfriend wants to eat me out, which is something I wouldn't mind, butI'm uncomfortable with how close his face will be to my vagina and the view he will ...

Does masturbating affect sex?

I’m curious. If you’re a guy and you masturbate maybe once or twice a day does it affect your sex and sperm count? I’ve tried not masturbating for a day or two and it’s incredibly hard… My girlfriend thinks it’s weird to plan sex.. It just kinda happens every now and then. I cut off porn completely and that’s made a HUGE difference. But also I’m worried if I don’t masturbate at all for let’s say a month or two and then get laid I might be too excited and cum too fast? Maybe I’m overthinking things but I feel like it’s better to masturbate then not masturbate? Submitted June 23, 2021 at 11:43PM I’m curious. If you’re a guy and you masturbate maybe once or twice a day does it affect your sex and sperm count?I’ve tried not masturbating for a day or two and it’s incredibly hard… My girlfriend thinks it’s weird to plan sex..It just kinda happens every now and then. I cut off porn completely and that’s made a HUGE difference.But also I’m worried if I don’t masturbate at all for le...

I need some advice…

So I’m in a happy long term relationship….but I have a friend who I lust after. He has a crush on me so the feeling is mutual. We’ve been flirting heavy and now I’m more interested. I’m heavily attracted to him. He’s much taller (and weighs way more) than my boyfriend. I just KNOW he has a nice, thick long dick. And he told me it curves. Way better than my boyfriends. I want to try someone new. Should I ignore my desires? Or should I try to convince my boyfriend to let me sleep with this guy once? Submitted June 23, 2021 at 11:46PM So I’m in a happy long term relationship….but I have a friend who I lust after. He has a crush on me so the feeling is mutual. We’ve been flirting heavy and now I’m more interested. I’m heavily attracted to him. He’s much taller (and weighs way more) than my boyfriend. I just KNOW he has a nice, thick long dick. And he told me it curves. Way better than my boyfriends. I want to try someone new. Should I ignore my desires? Or should I try to convince m...

Favorite kinds of foreplay for men?

Yesterday I (26F) hooked up with someone (28M) but we were both really tired.. we were falling asleep but he told me it felt really good when I rubbed him (although I wish he was rubbing me too but we were both rly tired).. so I rubbed the back of his neck and down his lower back and his arms and chest and I love morning sex so I woke him up by rubbing my hands down his hips and thighs and gently rubbing under the lining of his boxers (not touching the penis though) and I spent 15 mins rubbing his thighs and around his dick before I touched his actual clothed dick.. so as a women I know that would turn me on a lot having that done to me.. just wondering if as a guy y’all think that’s a good tool for foreplay and if you have any other favorites TLDR: what’s ur favorite type of foreplay? Submitted June 23, 2021 at 11:54PM Yesterday I (26F) hooked up with someone (28M) but we were both really tired.. we were falling asleep but he told me it felt really good when I rubbed him (alth...

how do I speak up about my wants?

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 months ago. He made it super special, with rose petals on bed and everything . But the sex itself was horrible. It was very painful and I turned away trying not to cry. He didn’t do it gently or make sure I was comfortable, he “just went for it “ (his exact words). one thing that bothers me is he told me that he’s always been selfish in bed and he’s not educated about how to please women. Sex has been painful for a long time, we had to start foreplay. now we have amazing sex! Also he does make sure I come after we do it, but he complains it takes half an hour so he gives up and tells me to finish. He also scrolls thru instagram while doing it??? how do I voice my needs and wants in a way that doesn’t blame? Lots of times I’ve mentioned things I want, and he tries but not hard enough. I give him hjs and bjs so he always get pleasure. should I stop being so giving ?? I don’t want to be selfish either Submitted June 23, 2021 at 11:58PM I lost...

How common / uncommon is it to get into a relationship with someone who's also enjoys bringing another person the room?

Bi curious guy here, I really want to experience a threesome and possible share my wife with people. Just on the sole purpose of mixing things up, I am weird like that but luckily not a creep who just wants to sleep with other people. How rare is it to get into a relationship like that, and does anybody have any advice on what to do and where to look? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:03AM Bi curious guy here, I really want to experience a threesome and possible share my wife with people. Just on the sole purpose of mixing things up, I am weird like that but luckily not a creep who just wants to sleep with other people.How rare is it to get into a relationship like that, and does anybody have any advice on what to do and where to look?

What can I put in my ass

I want to try to put stuff in my ass I have tried a few times with my fingers but I need something bigger and larger I want a dildo or a strap on for my girlfriend but I can’t buy one is there anything around my house I could use? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:04AM I want to try to put stuff in my ass I have tried a few times with my fingers but I need something bigger and larger I want a dildo or a strap on for my girlfriend but I can’t buy one is there anything around my house I could use?

What's the most unusual masturbation session you've ever had?

Out of all the times you've masturbated which one was the most unusual? Did you try a different technique then normal or did you use a weird object or lube to get you off? I once humped a washing machine during it's final spin while having my cock inside a latex glove filled with lotion, weird but fun. Also ordered a Squiggle Pen online as i've heard those make for unusual but fun ways to masturbate no matter which gender you are. Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:06AM Out of all the times you've masturbated which one was the most unusual? Did you try a different technique then normal or did you use a weird object or lube to get you off?I once humped a washing machine during it's final spin while having my cock inside a latex glove filled with lotion, weird but fun. Also ordered a Squiggle Pen online as i've heard those make for unusual but fun ways to masturbate no matter which gender you are.

Could I get pregnant from this?

so I’ve never had sex before. My boyfriend and I haven’t done it yet and we both plan to use a condom when it does go down. Well today was the day I decided I wanted to do it, but the condom wouldn’t go on properly so we decided that maybe today just wasn’t the right day. So instead, I just kind of jumped on him and his shaft touched my labia and clitoris area. I got scared and jumped off because I didn’t know if there was a precum on his area. to be clear, he did not insert his penis in me. I ended up just wiping everything off my vagina and rinsed it. I am extremely paranoid. I don’t know what to do, I’m freaking out and he thinks I’m just overreacting. i’m honestly scared to even touch my vagina right now. Like, my actual vaginal opening. it’s pretty far from my labia and clit area. Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:07AM so I’ve never had sex before. My boyfriend and I haven’t done it yet and we both plan to use a condom when it does go down. Well today was the day I decided I wa...

Is it ok to pay for sex?

I just think I need to explain why I’m asking this... I’m 26 years old but unfortunately I look 14-16. I’ve never had a girlfriend or any sort of fwb. I’ve just had sex once ( when I was 20 ) and have never even touched a girl ever since. I’m lonely, needing some sex, but specially, a female touch, a day spent with some intimacy with someone. Despite all of this, I feel “ guilty “ / ashamed for doing it. And specially, I feel insanely nervous has I’m halfway through my 20’s and I have got no idea of what I am doing sexually. This is just frustrating... Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:11AM I just think I need to explain why I’m asking this... I’m 26 years old but unfortunately I look 14-16. I’ve never had a girlfriend or any sort of fwb. I’ve just had sex once ( when I was 20 ) and have never even touched a girl ever since. I’m lonely, needing some sex, but specially, a female touch, a day spent with some intimacy with someone. Despite all of this, I feel “ guilty “ / ashamed for ...

Male enhancement Pills/ Rhino Pills. I need your help pls.

M (20) so I’ve been having this problem for a while & because of this I haven’t been able to lose my v card. I can’t seem to get hard when it comes to finally getting to business. It’s embarrassing & frustrating, especially after many opportunities of it almost happening. I was thinking I could get it over with today & just take a Rhino Pill & lose it & maybe after that I won’t be having the same problem anymore. Thoughts ? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:12AM M (20) so I’ve been having this problem for a while & because of this I haven’t been able to lose my v card. I can’t seem to get hard when it comes to finally getting to business. It’s embarrassing & frustrating, especially after many opportunities of it almost happening. I was thinking I could get it over with today & just take a Rhino Pill & lose it & maybe after that I won’t be having the same problem anymore. Thoughts ?

My (22F) Boyfriend (28M) is into voyeurism and degradation, and I am a bit conflicted since I am not exactly a fan of either.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit less than a year and have been not engaged in any sexual activities until very recently, which involves a lot of oral sex, fondling and a lot of phone sex since we live in different cities. Lately, he's been more open about his fantasies and fetishes which I really appreciate. The thing is that lately he has shown a lot of interest in watching me have sex with someone else as well as he has asked me various times to degrade him while we masturbate together or are in a sex call. He tells me about his fantasies and mentions me engaging sexually with more than one person, sometimes he includes himself in the fantasy,and he would asknme whether I would let anyone cum inside me, which he has stated sometimes that it is kind of hot to think about that. The thing is that I don't mind indulging into his fantasies, some of them sound fun, but I would genuinely not let anyone other guy ejaculated inside me or engage sexually with me witho...

Not as turned on by my girlfriend anymore

Hi there, For about a year now I have been in a relationship with my previous childhood girlfriend. From the start, it felt amazing being around her. On top of that, she has definitely opened up a new dimension in the world of sex for me. She even thought about having a FFM threesome with me a few months back (unfortunately she has refrained from this as she would not want to share me with anyone else). However, for a while now, things have started to feel a bit stale. Our fairytale relationship has become less fairytale-like. I feel like as if I'm not as attracted to her as I used to be. This really frustrates me... it is so nice to have her in my life! She is an amazing girl and makes me feel so loved. I really don't know what to do.. should I tell her that I am not as attracted to her as I used to be? That would break her heart Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:14AM Hi there,For about a year now I have been in a relationship with my previous childhood girlfriend. From th...

How does sex feel for someone with a vagina

How does it feel to be fucked in the pussy? Im still a virgin and wonder if girls tell what it feels to have piv? How good does it feel? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:15AM How does it feel to be fucked in the pussy? Im still a virgin and wonder if girls tell what it feels to have piv? How good does it feel?

How do you get better at Sex?

I've only ever had sex with my current BF. We dont have sex often but I think it's cause I'm mediocre. He turns me down often when I try to initiate it. Is there anything I can do or practice in order to make it better for him or the both of us? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:19AM I've only ever had sex with my current BF. We dont have sex often but I think it's cause I'm mediocre. He turns me down often when I try to initiate it. Is there anything I can do or practice in order to make it better for him or the both of us?

How do I (18M) politely decline hookup (27F) for something more?

Last night I hooked up with this girl at the bar. I was feeling too lonely and might have kissed her too much. After we were done she asked me to stay over and cuddle,so I did. I don't have much experience in hookup culture and people say general rule is no kissing and I felt like she's getting too attached to me. This morning she asked when can I see her again I didn't know what to say so I told her at the bar same time on Saturday and left hurriedly before she could ask for my number. How do I tell her that I'm not looking for anything serious rn, without hurting her or making her feel like I took advantage of her emotions?? Submitted June 24, 2021 at 12:20AM Last night I hooked up with this girl at the bar. I was feeling too lonely and might have kissed her too much. After we were done she asked me to stay over and cuddle,so I did.I don't have much experience in hookup culture and people say general rule is no kissing and I felt like she's getting to...