Thank you so much! November 04, 2020 at 12:06AM

Love the tat! November 03, 2020 at 11:57PM

I see this video as an absolute win, so, POG November 03, 2020 at 11:56PM

I’m picturing the office meme with Pam Beasley “they’re the same picture”, one picture is something sexual and one picture is cake/garlic bread November 03, 2020 at 11:55PM

Amazing concept I like it November 03, 2020 at 11:52PM

Dude! That's awesome! November 03, 2020 at 11:51PM

Yea, I'm not on the ace-spec, I'm just here for the memes. November 03, 2020 at 11:46PM

On the other side of the coin, it's really hurtful that even in ace spaces I sometimes can't express my disgust for sex without being hit by 'not all aces are sex repulsed, shut up'. November 03, 2020 at 11:46PM

This is where I question whether I'm an ace or not. Like I can fool around with a girl for an hour an be hard the entire time but not finish. Then id have to watch some porn to finish myself off. The only part of porn that works for me is penetration, same with sex. I'm not really turned (but i can get and stay hard to it) on by sex or porn except for penetration. November 03, 2020 at 11:46PM

I am Jewish scorpio asexual , try again to say I can't imagine November 03, 2020 at 11:43PM

As a very sex repulsed ace, ace safe spaces is literally the only place I can discuss it and joke about it without being belittled, whereas sex positive aces, while 100% valid and 100% still ace, have a bit more in common with allos. I'm pretty sure that's a big part of it. November 03, 2020 at 11:42PM

I don't have any certainty to offer. I think a lot of what you described is consistent with being ace, and it would absolutely be valid for you to identify as ace. If later down the road you realize you aren't ace, that's cool too; we all need room to figure ourselves out. I hope things go well for you. November 03, 2020 at 11:39PM

Love it! November 03, 2020 at 11:39PM

You should respect it, because it could be true, I certainly knew I wouldn't enjoy dating or anything like that when I was 9, but there is of course the chance it's wrong. As much as I hate the too young argument, as it only harms young asexuals, I feel it may actually be applicable here. Either way, support your child through whatever they believe their sexuality is, it can do them no harm to identify as asexual. November 03, 2020 at 11:38PM

Good bot November 03, 2020 at 11:38PM

Yay! Thank you November 03, 2020 at 11:36PM

Just like feeling like I would go on a date with anybody at any time because I just really want the fun and attention of going on a date. Which feels similar to what someone would be like if they were regular horny, but there's nothing sexual there In a tamer sense, I also really want a relationship in general. I'm jealous of the people on here that are just happy single. Whenever I get the desire to go someplace and do something like the weather being nice or there being something cool to go check out I wish I had someone to go with me November 03, 2020 at 11:36PM

My posts probably are pretty hard to read though, they are quite dense and I didn't put in a huge amount of effort to be clear. I must say it's very true that I appreciate you responding. You have the spirit to do so and I am learning some of what I came for. I suppose it may help to say: Yes, I think I'm just a damaged person who is very comfortable with it." I mostly came to see if there were any others here who have come to the same realization... But I also came to see how others I have things in common with would react to this. Sorry for the lateness of this response, I'm in class November 03, 2020 at 11:36PM

So as someone who was largely disappointed by the original WD and didn't even go anywhere near the series after, how is Legion? Ace stuff aside November 03, 2020 at 11:35PM

In case you where not aware. You can have a sex drive and still be ace. Ace apple’s to sexual attraction. I myself don’t feel the need for sex. But every now and again it’s healthy to rub one out. The biggest benefit is it helps to lower the chances of prostate cancer. A community like this is fairly open about the topic since that is the biggest connection between all of us. As such sex and masturbation can be a common topic to discuss. So if someone makes a nnn meme (which alone should of warned you about the type of comments you might of seen) and someone else shares that they in fact, have lost (good for them btw) why get so angry. I understand that you may not be a fan of it, and that it’s something you might not want to do yourself. But out right attacking everyone over it is a little extreme on your part. The other part is that this is a public forum and no rule is set to prevent people from talking about said topic. So there is nothing wrong with it within the community. In

POG? November 03, 2020 at 11:34PM

Sex-repulsed aro-ace here. Everyone who is sex-favourable and sex-neutral should feel welcome here. This isn't the "we don't have sex" or "sex is gross" sub. And a sub about sexuality is NOT the place for people to be antagonising people for having or not having sex, and especially not the place to be demonising people for it (creating memes saying sex = stds is really not cool). Seriously, this is an lgbt sub, people who are anti-sex can nope right out of here. November 03, 2020 at 11:34PM

Mainly would love to cuddle and have a person(girl since im heteroromantic) who I have an extremely close connection with. Someone who we enjoy each other’s presents (as in existent’s) and are comfortable with each other. A really strong bond where we can make eachother smile and enjoy life together. November 03, 2020 at 11:32PM