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Can’t stop thinking about him..

I started talking to a guy on Bumble just over a week ago and last week Thursday, we went on our first date. We’ve been in contact basically every day since we matched and are planning to see each other again for a museum and dinner date in a couple of days. I know it’s so so early but I cannot stop thinking about him. We’ve both expressed how we find each other attractive and how we both clearly like each other a lot. But I’m scared because I know I have gotten attached wayyy too quickly. I’m sick of counting down the days until I feel my feelings will be justified, you know? After our date, the plan is to go over to his and watch a movie. It will likely end up with me sleeping over (something we’ve discussed) but I do NOT plan to have sex with him. Would it be a good idea to discuss what our plans are moving forward this date or should I just let it be? I feel like there’s this weird tension hanging in the air which we have both noticed but none of us want to acknowledge. Any adv...

Asking him to spend NYE together?

We've been on 4 dates and have been long distance 'dating' for a while now. He has told me that he will be back for NYE but hasn't mentioned plans yet. I'd like to spend NYE with him but don't want to come across as too much since New Year's can seem like a big deal to some people while early dating. Can anyone give me some tips on how to casually ask him to spend NYE with me without coming across too strong? Submitted December 28, 2022 at 01:15AM We've been on 4 dates and have been long distance 'dating' for a while now. He has told me that he will be back for NYE but hasn't mentioned plans yet.I'd like to spend NYE with him but don't want to come across as too much since New Year's can seem like a big deal to some people while early dating.Can anyone give me some tips on how to casually ask him to spend NYE with me without coming across too strong?

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I (20M) have been talking to a girl (23F) for 2 months and don't know how to ask to go farther.

Like the title says we have been talking everyday for 2 months and it's going well. Neither of us really want to be in a relationship right now but she had mentioned that she could potentially want a fwb. I want to ask for nudes first and try to take it there but I don't want to ruin what we have right now. I really do enjoy talking to her and would consider dating her but I don't really want a full relationship right now and neither does she. Would politely asking if she would ever send nudes ruin what we have going? Submitted December 28, 2022 at 12:15AM Like the title says we have been talking everyday for 2 months and it's going well. Neither of us really want to be in a relationship right now but she had mentioned that she could potentially want a fwb. I want to ask for nudes first and try to take it there but I don't want to ruin what we have right now. I really do enjoy talking to her and would consider dating her but I don't really want a full rel...