I try to have a bit of back and forth with girls the first few messages and then ask them out, but recently all of them have just ghosted me or unmatched when I do. But I see people on reddit saying they want to meet asap and not be penpals etc, so I'm confused what is happening. I'm using the apps in the UK btw if there's a cultural difference or something compared to US apps Submitted July 27, 2023 at 12:16AM I try to have a bit of back and forth with girls the first few messages and then ask them out, but recently all of them have just ghosted me or unmatched when I do. But I see people on reddit saying they want to meet asap and not be penpals etc, so I'm confused what is happening.I'm using the apps in the UK btw if there's a cultural difference or something compared to US apps