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Should I text him afterwards?

I’m a girl (19) that went out with a guy (21) last night to a movie date. I was really awkward and nervous, like more so than usual because he was honestly more attractive than I was expecting lol. But I think it went ok considering that, throughout the movie he touched my leg a couple of times and our arms were touching pretty much the whole time throughout so I thought that was good thing? After the movie we sat in a coffee shop and talked for a bit, maybe about an hour before he said he had to get home. I think the conversation went well, although he kind made me feel like a loser at one point when I said I don’t go out much at night (a lot of this is bc I can’t legally drink). The goodbye part was kinda awkward, he didn’t kiss me or anything but we hugged. It’s been a little over 24 hours and he hasn’t texted me or anything yet, is this a bad sign? Should I text him and possibly apologize for being awkward and shy? I’m fun once I get to know people/get comfortable but it’s hard f...

Have you ever felt like nobody is interesting enough for you to do something about it? How did you overcome this?

It is very hard for me to be interested in other people. I see beautiful women all the time, but nothing makes want to go talk to them. If I were to force myself to get to know them, I feel like it would be pointless, like she's just another pretty girl like every other one. Is it a matter of priorities? I feel like this is hindering my dating life as I never feel the desire to get to know someone better Submitted March 09, 2020 at 12:24AM It is very hard for me to be interested in other people.I see beautiful women all the time, but nothing makes want to go talk to them. If I were to force myself to get to know them, I feel like it would be pointless, like she's just another pretty girl like every other one.Is it a matter of priorities?I feel like this is hindering my dating life as I never feel the desire to get to know someone better

Ladies, how hard do you like to be pounded?

I’ve been told that harness, roughness and fastness are different things. Can you shed some light on this? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:01PM I’ve been told that harness, roughness and fastness are different things. Can you shed some light on this?

HELP NEEDED: advice on secure sexting

What is some advice you have about being secure about sharing communication/pics/videos when sexting? Which apps, face or no face, sound or no sound? Ideally remove the risk of revenge porn. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:06PM What is some advice you have about being secure about sharing communication/pics/videos when sexting? Which apps, face or no face, sound or no sound?Ideally remove the risk of revenge porn.

Should I get a frenuloplasty after torn frenulum ?

Hey, First of all, I don't think my frenulum is too short, my sex life has always been great. 3 weeks ago I have torn my frenulum while masturbating. Lot of blood but a really small wound. It has now healed. But the healed skin is less elastic. It's a small white fibrous/sclerosus scar. When I have my maximum erection, I feel like it can be torn again because it's not enough elastic. Will it get more elastic with time ? Should I stretch it ? Does frenuloplasty really cut some sensitivities and can affect erection ? I read lots of testimonies about it. I have an appointment to the urologist in 10 days Thanks Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:17PM Hey,First of all, I don't think my frenulum is too short, my sex life has always been great. 3 weeks ago I have torn my frenulum while masturbating. Lot of blood but a really small wound. It has now healed. But the healed skin is less elastic. It's a small white fibrous/sclerosus scar. When I have my maximum erection...

I love to growl during sex! Ladies, how would you react to this?

Would this be a turn-on for you or would you just think it was funny/odd? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:19PM Would this be a turn-on for you or would you just think it was funny/odd?

Men of Reddit, do you experience full body orgasms?

So, I was talking to my fiancee, who says she experiences full body orgasms. While orgasms for me are good, I dont feel it throughout my body. After doing some online searching, from anecdotal evidence it seems like the men who say they experience full body orgasms havent been circumcised. I feel like I have this preconceived notion since the most sensitive bits of the dick are cut off in circumcision, that we have to try way harder to experience toe curling orgasms. So men of reddit, do you experience full body or super intense orgams, or just in your dick, and are you cut or uncut? Because I feel like I'm just blaming it on being cut and it has me depressed that I might not experience an orgasm or sex as nature intended it. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:19PM So, I was talking to my fiancee, who says she experiences full body orgasms. While orgasms for me are good, I dont feel it throughout my body. After doing some online searching, from anecdotal evidence it seems like ...

Tw: consent/violence. He (30) strangled me (27f) on the first day without consent. I need help processing this.

We met on Bumble. He seemed very interesting and we agreed to meet for drinks. Hit it off well and we went out back and kissed a bit. While we were talking he made a joke about being aggressive but seemed not serious. While we were kissing he suddenly started biting my lip and neck which I didnt mind but thought was a little pushy. Then suddenly his hands were around my neck and he was choking me. I asked him where it came from and he said "I dont know I've never really done that and didnt know if I would like it or not until I saw how into you were" But I dont remember being into it? Is this a thing that happens? I feel like such a moron for being offended because shit like this constantly happens to me in terms of men assuming I want sex or sexual activity and just climbing on me without a word... but something about the fact that I literally didnt know this person and they could have killed me??? Really freaks me out. Can y'all just talk this one out with me? I...

Has anybody ordered from satisfyer (us) before?

I want to order from their website but they don’t give shipping costs or tax. It ships fedex but I don’t want to end up paying a crazy rate. Does anyone know how much it is? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:20PM I want to order from their website but they don’t give shipping costs or tax. It ships fedex but I don’t want to end up paying a crazy rate. Does anyone know how much it is?

Red upper mouth STD?

I have red area at upper mouth do you think it is STD or burst capillaries? http://imgur.com/gallery/blOYxoR Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:24PM I have red area at upper mouth do you think it is STD or burst capillaries?https://ift.tt/38vF2QZ

Why do some guys think they can't ask for blowjobs?

I keep seeing this topic on this sub. A lot of people will comment that when men complain about not getting blowjobs, no one supports them. And that they're not allowed to ask for blowjobs at all... But in real life, I've talked to girls who told me their bfs pretty much demanded blowjobs and even refused to go down in return. But most guys aren't like that. Most will just simply ask for blowjobs and will also go down in return. I've never talked to a guy about sex who didn't ask for blowjobs...why do some guys think they can't ask?? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:25PM I keep seeing this topic on this sub. A lot of people will comment that when men complain about not getting blowjobs, no one supports them. And that they're not allowed to ask for blowjobs at all...But in real life, I've talked to girls who told me their bfs pretty much demanded blowjobs and even refused to go down in return. But most guys aren't like that. Most will just simp...

I’m interested in pegging

Hi I’m a 22y/o male and I’ve always wanted to try pegging but I’m also scared. Is there any advice or tips I should know first. And lastly is it even worth trying? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:30PM Hi I’m a 22y/o male and I’ve always wanted to try pegging but I’m also scared. Is there any advice or tips I should know first. And lastly is it even worth trying?

Airbubble when putting on condom?

Hi, so I'm a virgin guy (18) and I've bought some condoms some time ago to "try on" and see whether regular is my size. First I put them on inside out, but got it down with the second one. I noticed that after I put it on, the semen collection tray (i think thats the name that's written on the box, you know the tip) is filled with air. I was wondering whether that's supposed to happen or not, if not How do I put it on so that it doesn't happen and could it pop or be damaged during sex? (Also bonus question is a condom completely ineffective or less effective when put on inside out?) Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:31PM Hi, so I'm a virgin guy (18) and I've bought some condoms some time ago to "try on" and see whether regular is my size.First I put them on inside out, but got it down with the second one. I noticed that after I put it on, the semen collection tray (i think thats the name that's written on the box, you know the ...

Came at the EXACT time as my bf

This was maybe last week? (We have a lot of sex so sometimes it blends together.) Anyways we're going at it and I start feeling the buildup of a massive orgasm and then hear him start breathing a lot heavier, and indicating he's about to come so I'm pretty sure he's going to come without me. And then like a damn freight train I start coming HARD at the exact time he does. Something about us being so aligned and in sync made it last longer and be way more intense. Afterwards I wouldn't shut up about it, because I sincerely thought that was just a myth heard on the internet. But after that, I assure you it was anything but. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:38PM This was maybe last week? (We have a lot of sex so sometimes it blends together.) Anyways we're going at it and I start feeling the buildup of a massive orgasm and then hear him start breathing a lot heavier, and indicating he's about to come so I'm pretty sure he's going to come without m...

Desire, expression, guilt, gentleness, and a story

I'm not sure why I'm sharing this, maybe I just want to tell someone. In early highschool I was in a super religious/conservative home. I believed what I was taught about sex, that it was bad an sinful, that masturbating was bad, porn was bad ect. But like a horny highschooler I still eventually watched porn. I liked it (surprise). Though I kept my self righteousness and thought I was better than all those people out there having sex. I went to college, same story. Then I had some stuff happen in my life and I had to work from home for several years due to illness. I didn't get out much. I was still a virgin in my early 20's and I couldn't go out to meet women. I started making friends online. I started opening up what I thought was ok. Eventually I decided I wanted to explore, I wanted to be able to openly talk with people about sex, desires, ect. without all the guilt and shame. Where I would be encouraged, rather than guilted, for enjoying things like masturba...

Am I a prude for expressing no interest in anal?

I am severely turned off by the idea of anal, I'm not in a relationship right now but it makes me anxious to tell someone that I dont want it. I'm a virgin and I just never want to do it just makes me really uncomfortable. But apparently its abusive for me to deny him something that I don't want to do ever.. how do I explain to a guy I'm not interested and to stop bringing it up because it makes me uncomfortable.. like I just dont want to... I'm female Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:39PM I am severely turned off by the idea of anal, I'm not in a relationship right now but it makes me anxious to tell someone that I dont want it. I'm a virgin and I just never want to do it just makes me really uncomfortable. But apparently its abusive for me to deny him something that I don't want to do ever.. how do I explain to a guy I'm not interested and to stop bringing it up because it makes me uncomfortable.. like I just dont want to... I'm female

Orgasms don’t feel good like they should (19F)

Basically, I can’t orgasm properly. Based on my understanding of what a female orgasm is, it’s the contraction of the vagina together with an (intense) pleasurable feeling. I can get my vagina to contract (and after that I’m often no longer turned on), but the feeling is nowhere near what an orgasm seems to feel like for most people. Sometimes there is a somewhat pleasurable feeling, whereas other times it basically feels like nothing or is even kind of a letdown. It feels better during masturbation though. I rarely have this vagina contracting during sex or oral sex, but can get myself to contract through clitoral pressure during masturbation. Based on what I’ve read online and from talking to my gynecologist, a woman’s inability to orgasm usually means she needs to experiment with herself more or be more relaxed during sex. However, I would say I very much enjoy sex and masturbation, feel very comfortable with my partners, and have experience with oral sex and vibrators. I’m happy w...

What is your favorite position and why?

It’s a question I’m always curious about. What’s your favorite position and why? I’m always wondering about trying new ones so give me some ideas. Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:44PM It’s a question I’m always curious about. What’s your favorite position and why? I’m always wondering about trying new ones so give me some ideas.

Straight woman, only able to orgasm from fantasizing about lesbian sex or from male perspective

I'm usually only able to orgasm alone, while fantasizing about lesbian sex or by fantasizing about straight sex, but from the man's perspective. I've orgasmed several times by thinking about sex with a man from my perspective, but only if it something deviating from standard sex, like an older man, public sex, or more than one man. I've only had four partners, but over the course of ten years I've never had an orgasm during intercourse, only alone (30 now) I find it odd that I almost always fantasize about women, but I've never felt sexual attraction to a woman in real life; I only feel attraction, romantic and sexual, for men. The thought of being with a woman when I'm not already aroused, is vaguely gross to me and I don't feel any urge to explore it. I'm sure I could be bisexual if I met the right woman, but I feel like almost everyone is bisexual in this vague way. I feel like it has something to do with getting off from the mental stimulus o...

Guys who like anal, do you think your girlfriend is gross if she has to pass gas after?

My bf loves anal and I like it too so we do it a lot, like several times a week. Last night he was especially vigorous and it was amazing but afterwards I couldn't help myself from passing gas for the rest of the night. I kept apologizing to him everytime but I can't really help it, air always manages to get up there when we do it and if I don't let it out after I get really bad cramps. I'm worried he thinks it's gross but we haven't had a chance to talk about it and I'm driving myself crazy worrying. So I guess I wanna know if other people think it's gross for a girl to fart in front of you after you guys do anal? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:49PM My bf loves anal and I like it too so we do it a lot, like several times a week. Last night he was especially vigorous and it was amazing but afterwards I couldn't help myself from passing gas for the rest of the night. I kept apologizing to him everytime but I can't really help it, air always...

How do you edge, for a male?

Idk it always seems that I go to far. Also how would you describe the sensation/is it worth it? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:50PM Idk it always seems that I go to far. Also how would you describe the sensation/is it worth it?

My heart condition is all I can think about when I have sex

I'm 27 and I was diagnosed with a congenital heart condition about a month ago. It's not life threatening yet, but it's going to require surgery at some point before it becomes a risk factor. My doctor told me it was a good thing I wasn't an athlete, doing a lot of strenuous activity could've used up my heart a lot faster than most people. It's 100% psychological because, as far as I know, it hasn't really impacted my life so far, but when I have sex with my girlfriend, I feel my heart rate go up and as soon as I can feel it, it's all I can focus on. Just feeling my heart beating faster and harder than usual is kind of scary and it makes it really difficult to enjoy the moment and be myself. Any advice? Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:52PM I'm 27 and I was diagnosed with a congenital heart condition about a month ago. It's not life threatening yet, but it's going to require surgery at some point before it becomes a risk factor. My doc...

From my uni's confessions page. I can't tell if they're being serious or not

https://ift.tt/2Q0iwZX Submitted March 08, 2020 at 11:57PM https://ift.tt/2Q0iwZX