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/u/photoedfade on I wish I could swap bodies with a sexual person, just to know if for sure if I am asexual and what’s it feels like to want sex.

ughhh this is hurting my head. alwell, i guess i am just gonna think about it. as long as people aren't using "straight culture" and "gay culture" as an insult i am fine. April 10, 2019 at 04:57AM

/u/Tyrant_T-rex on Took a selfie earlier and felt cute. Might delete later.

Lmao even better! April 10, 2019 at 04:48AM

/u/EggChels on Not sure how to put this. Can I not be asexual?

Good luck figuring things out, and I hope you feel better, however you end up identifying. And sometimes, writing things down really can do a lot of good. It let's you get your thoughts on paper and see just what it is that you're struggling with, which can sometimes make things clearer. April 10, 2019 at 04:40AM

/u/JSLardizabal on Took a selfie earlier and felt cute. Might delete later.

(Not Sexy For Allos :P) April 10, 2019 at 04:37AM

/u/JSLardizabal on I wish I could swap bodies with a sexual person, just to know if for sure if I am asexual and what’s it feels like to want sex.

Are you always thinking of sex? If there's ever a minute where sex doesn't cross your mind, then you're probably ace. :) We cannot turn it off. It subsides depending on our circumstances and time of day, but it's always there. I can't look at a woman, any woman, without instinctively judging her suitability or lack thereof as a sexual partner. We spend our teen years learning to hide this from others. I've heard stories of aces being surprised that every person around them was horny as fuck but just hiding it because they never had the sexual attraction thing going for them, while everyone assumed that they were hiding it, too. I describe myself as mild heterosexual/strong heteroromantic. I can't ever see myself having sex with someone I don't love, but I can see myself loving someone without the sex. I would still prefer to have both, though. :D Anyway, the greatest struggle you people face is that 99% of humans are the complete opposite when it c

/u/JekPorkins-AcePilot on Want ace friends

I'm on www.asexuality.org Same username April 10, 2019 at 04:36AM

Oh well, maybe in another life?

I'm a freshman, he's a senior. He sees me as a little sister I think, as just a close friend who was there for him when his first girlfriend of two years broke up with him (and pretty much every night afterwards). We talked a lot. We even hung out at a cafe for two hours just talking, and when I told my friends they said it was boring, it doesn't sound like something I would do... But I feel so comfortable with him, it didn't feel as boring as it sounds. Last night I went to sleep thinking about what it would be like if we were laying on a bench and he was just holding me. No intention of sex, just two tired and comfortable people. I woke up with an empty feeling realising he'd never feel the same. ​ I haven't been speaking to him a lot lately, mainly because we don't have a lot to talk about, but also because (as selfish as it sounds,) I don't feel special to him. He talks to my friend the same way he does to me, which is why I won't ever tell

Let me out

Those two years with you and our friends was the best time of my life. The times we hung out just being stupid, the times we'd talk about our futures, the times we took the train home together.I loved you hard and I didn't get to tell you. You vanished like a ghost. No goodbye, no texts, no update. Nothing has ever hurt me as not seeing you one last time. I didn't know at the time, that the best day of my life at the festival would be the last day I would see you. Thing is its been 4 years since you left and nobody can compare to you and I don't know what to do with myself. I should have let you go ages ago but everytime I picture my freedom there you are standing guard to my liberation. Submitted April 08, 2019 at 08:15AM Those two years with you and our friends was the best time of my life. The times we hung out just being stupid, the times we'd talk about our futures, the times we took the train home together.I loved you hard and I didn't get to tell y

I'm scared of how intense my feelings for this person is.

Literally my first time feeling this intense emotions for someone. He confessed to me a few weeks back and believe it or not I have been interested in him for about 2 years already? It's just that he was never the type to bat an eye on me. Lol. (Or so I thought). Anyway, I'm scared of this emotion. What if it backfires on me? What if he wasn't serious? What if this is just too good to be true? Submitted April 08, 2019 at 11:47AM Literally my first time feeling this intense emotions for someone.He confessed to me a few weeks back and believe it or not I have been interested in him for about 2 years already? It's just that he was never the type to bat an eye on me. Lol. (Or so I thought).Anyway, I'm scared of this emotion. What if it backfires on me? What if he wasn't serious? What if this is just too good to be true?

Lonely

It sucks being alone... I don’t want to go through this journey of life by myself but it’s hard to think that there is someone out there who could want someone as plain and inferior as myself. I’ve been in love before and those memories are the only reconnection to love that I’ve had for such a long time. So this is where it gets annoying because I have a girl I’ve known for about 5+ years who claims she’s in love with me but whenever I try to work things out with her she always reminds me why I can’t be with her. We have history and that history consists of her lying and sneaking around, but when you catch her in a lie she won’t admit it or take responsibility unless she knows 100% you know. THEN she’ll act like she’s stupid and didn’t know what she was doing or what happened and it’s crazy because she’s smart enough to know exactly what’s she’s saying and doing but always wants to tel me she doesn’t think when she says things. I can say I don’t want to hang out and she will still p

I couldn’t be any more sure that I have found the true love of my life.

To the person who is always catching my eye, whether it may be that crazy cool Spider-Man mask of yours, or that punk rocker Nikki Sixx wannabe wig you can’t seem to take off nowadays, or just that cute bright smile of yours that I love the hell out of. Thank you for being you. Love, 2113 💗 Submitted April 09, 2019 at 05:21AM To the person who is always catching my eye, whether it may be that crazy cool Spider-Man mask of yours, or that punk rocker Nikki Sixx wannabe wig you can’t seem to take off nowadays, or just that cute bright smile of yours that I love the hell out of. Thank you for being you.Love, 2113 💗

First kiss on the band bus

In honor of my one year anniversary coming up with my boyfriend, (eek!) I'm gonna share one of my favorite moments. It was October of 2018, me and my boyfriend had been dating for 7 months at this point. we were slowly getting more comfortable with eachother as the months passed and it this point, I felt like I was ready. Of course, I wasn't going to force this beautiful moment and I just waited for the time to come. But I knew that when that time came, id be ready. We're both in band. We've been in it since 5th grade He plays the saxophone, I play the French horn. We spent every Friday, occasionally Thursdays for those Thursday night games, and almost every weekend at competitions together. plus the long 4 days a week practices. Sore arms, legs and lips were all worth it if i meant i could see him. The excitement and just the whole vibe of competitions and football games were so beyond me, I truly love the feeling. But nothing is better than the late night bus ride

32/gay/m

Is it wrong to wish for a love that doesn’t leave? Is it stupid to hope, even into your thirties, even in 2019, that there’s a lover for me that makes my heart race and makes me feel complete? Loneliness aches, echoing through me. Am I doomed to face the void alone? Am I immature for feeling like my youth fades and the cynicism grows like cancer? Is my despair at the lack of love in my life pathetic? I don’t mean to be dramatic but how can I not feel lost... Submitted April 09, 2019 at 06:17AM Is it wrong to wish for a love that doesn’t leave? Is it stupid to hope, even into your thirties, even in 2019, that there’s a lover for me that makes my heart race and makes me feel complete? Loneliness aches, echoing through me. Am I doomed to face the void alone? Am I immature for feeling like my youth fades and the cynicism grows like cancer? Is my despair at the lack of love in my life pathetic? I don’t mean to be dramatic but how can I not feel lost...

What's the craziest thing you've done for love?

No text found Submitted April 09, 2019 at 07:06AM No text found

A beautiful moment.

In September this year, it'll be 8 years with my wonderful boyfriend. We've been through everything together. We've been poor, messed up, you name it. Through it all we've been there for each other. And healthy. We learned how to talk, how to work with each other, we grew up together. He stuck with me through a mild infidelity. (A kiss) and I sought therapy. He was understandably hurt, but constantly told me how proud he was of me for seeking the help I needed. We are about to go on a mini vacation, and today he asked me to help him pick out a ring for me after we get back. I'm so unbelievably happy :) :) Submitted April 09, 2019 at 07:27AM In September this year, it'll be 8 years with my wonderful boyfriend. We've been through everything together. We've been poor, messed up, you name it. Through it all we've been there for each other. And healthy. We learned how to talk, how to work with each other, we grew up together.He stuck with me thro

It’s late and I’m feeling mushy about my boyfriend and excited about our upcoming two year anniversary (the 25th!) so I wrote something to pour my heart out.

(Unrelated sorta but I don’t know whether to tag this as to my love or gushing because it’s both but 🤷🏼‍♀️) !Looong post¡ tldr: still astonished that I’m actually with someone I hid my crush on for years. ——————————————————————— When I met you in 2015 it was by complete chance, all I did was walk out my front door for some air and rare socializing (my nickname was hermit, after all) and there you stood, wearing your red shoes (or shirt? I can never remember) and there I was wearing my favorite red hoodie.. and there was a family friend who immediately cracked a joke about how we’re meant to be because we have matching clothes. I swear I could have died then and there from embarrassment, I mean cmon, I just met you and that’s the first thing she could say? I didn’t even know your name yet! Ugh. We introduced ourselves, albeit awkwardly, and I complimented your color choice of the day. I was smitten. You were so cute, among the crowd of people you stood out, and best of all you did

Do you ever just meet someone and everything is so amazing and you treat each other so good.... you just can’t help but think something bad is going to happen?

Like HOW is it possible I found something so pure and so full of light and so fun?? How did I find someone who treats me with the utmost respect and unconditional love and I do all that I can to return that? I feel like it’s too good to be true.. it just... Seems.... fishy..... Submitted April 09, 2019 at 12:45PM Like HOW is it possible I found something so pure and so full of light and so fun?? How did I find someone who treats me with the utmost respect and unconditional love and I do all that I can to return that?I feel like it’s too good to be true..it just...Seems.... fishy.....

empty

i’ll be laughing with my friends, watching a movie, eating my favorite food, or even just trying to study, and then you pop into my mind. there was never really a way to get me to stop blushing at the sound of your name, or to get you off my mind no matter how hard I would try. i wish there was a way to go back, a way to wake up and still be able to hold you in my arms, a way to be able to call you and just be able to hear you laugh. but there isn’t, and i sit here as silent as I possibly can be because i understand it’s not in our hands anymore. but i can’t help but miss the warmth of your cold hands and the smile that reaches your eyes when you’d look at me. i can’t help but have my heart broken over and over again every time i catch a glimpse of you in the distance. i can’t help staying up later than I should and have my hand linger over your name on my phone. i can’t help but regret making you feel the way I did. i can’t help but feel like this is all my fault. i feel so dista

It's not that i miss him. I just miss the idea being with him, being in a relationship and being so wanted by someone.

No text found Submitted April 09, 2019 at 02:44PM No text found

This is the same guy that called me a "selfish cunt" because I didn't want him cuddling my girlfriend

http://bit.ly/2InYJAI Submitted April 10, 2019 at 01:24AM http://bit.ly/2InYJAI

Yea, calling someone 'sexy' is just simply being nice and not hitting on someone out of nowhere at all

http://bit.ly/2GdJSr3 Submitted April 10, 2019 at 02:05AM http://bit.ly/2GdJSr3

If the Nigerian prince got offended?

http://bit.ly/2IoOpZ8 Submitted April 10, 2019 at 02:17AM http://bit.ly/2IoOpZ8

lovely encounter my girlfriend had, they played a few games about a month back before this

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amirite or amirite

http://bit.ly/2IoOewW Submitted April 10, 2019 at 02:50AM http://bit.ly/2IoOewW

My estranged father posted this status a few months back. A fun note, my mother, who is the person in the accident he's talking about, is not dead. Nor was she in an accident.

http://bit.ly/2GdJBo1 Submitted April 10, 2019 at 02:51AM http://bit.ly/2GdJBo1

Honestly at this point I feel like there’s a syllabus that they follow.

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Thanos, OG nice guy

http://bit.ly/2GdJpoN Submitted April 10, 2019 at 03:37AM http://bit.ly/2GdJpoN

Found on a Steve Wilkos video where a clearly abusive man was found to be guilty of abusing his special needs son. Someone was outraged about this in the comments, when I spotted this reply.

http://bit.ly/2IoNUye Submitted April 10, 2019 at 03:57AM http://bit.ly/2IoNUye

follow up to my nice guy nominee of the year award post ShE dElEteDdd MessAgeS headasses

http://bit.ly/2GdJgBL Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:08AM http://bit.ly/2GdJgBL

my friend got this message from our other friend’s ex and he got mad when the other friend confronted him about it

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🙄 I’m super stuck up

http://bit.ly/2GcUG8M Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:46AM http://bit.ly/2GcUG8M

full wavy hair and a cute butt :3

http://bit.ly/2IledFy Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:15AM http://bit.ly/2IledFy

for reference, i'm the one who understands boundaries and doesn't try to exact control over other people on the internet!!

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Nice guy needs some samples 👅👅👅💦💦💦

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why don’t girls like me?

http://bit.ly/2GbFcSq Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:32AM http://bit.ly/2GbFcSq

Arron needs to calm down

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It’s up 2 u

http://bit.ly/2GbF3OS Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:27AM http://bit.ly/2GbF3OS

A WAR IS COMING

http://bit.ly/2Iv8Unh Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:33AM http://bit.ly/2Iv8Unh

Finally found my own r/niceguys on Tinder!

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My gf wants a threesome

My gf wants a threesome and I'm unsure about how I feel about it. On one hand she has always wanted a threesome and I have a best friend who is willing. On the other hand I don't want another guy to fuck my gf. The third person in this would be my best friend. He is good looking and I trust him. I worry that if I did this my GF would want it more and more. Regular sex wouldn't be enough. Does anyone have any experience with this? Any tips on doing a threesome? Thank you in advance Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:03AM My gf wants a threesome and I'm unsure about how I feel about it.On one hand she has always wanted a threesome and I have a best friend who is willing.On the other hand I don't want another guy to fuck my gf.The third person in this would be my best friend. He is good looking and I trust him.I worry that if I did this my GF would want it more and more. Regular sex wouldn't be enough.Does anyone have any experience with this? Any tips on

How to use a prosthetic for penetrative sex?

Hey all, So recently my sex life has been great! My GF and I have been trying new things and it’s been awesome. One thing I really wanna try is penetrative sex. I’m ftm, and lacking the biological equipment to do that. So, I have a prosthetic (basically a realistic looking/feeling dildo) but I haven’t used it before. How should I talk to my partner about this? Any other tips? Thanks! Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:11AM Hey all, So recently my sex life has been great! My GF and I have been trying new things and it’s been awesome. One thing I really wanna try is penetrative sex. I’m ftm, and lacking the biological equipment to do that. So, I have a prosthetic (basically a realistic looking/feeling dildo) but I haven’t used it before.How should I talk to my partner about this?Any other tips?Thanks!

How Can I Make It Easier For Myself To Cum

i, a 19 year old guy, have only had 2 sexual partners. i had sex with my previous partner around a dozen or so times, but i only came twice. and she was my first! i was really attracted to her really liked fucking her but it just took so long to get to that point for me, that i’d usually just go till i got tired and made her cum a couple times. i’ve now had sex with my current girlfriend twice, didn’t cum either time. same situation. i honestly think she’s the best girl i’ve ever met AND she’s hot as fuck. but i just fuck her until she cums a couple times and i get tired. sometimes i think there’s something wrong with me, but i mostly just love fucking the shit out of my girlfriend and making her cum. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:13AM i, a 19 year old guy, have only had 2 sexual partners. i had sex with my previous partner around a dozen or so times, but i only came twice. and she was my first! i was really attracted to her really liked fucking her but it just took so long to

Gagging during sex for seemingly no reason? Help!!!!

Weird question. I don’t even know if this is the correct place to post this so redirect me if I’m wrong. The past few times I’ve (25f) been having piv sex with my bf (25), I start uncontrollably gagging out of nowhere to the point that I almost throw up and we stop immediately. It’s gross and a major mood killer. It seems as though the deeper he goes, that can be a trigger, but not always. I haven’t had a change of anything (meds, work, stress, diet, etc.) I cant find any info online because I type in the words “gag” and “sex” and all my options are porn. Lol. It also happens when I get really hungry, I start dry heaving. Or if I chew gum. Any ideas on what this could be? It mostly happens during sex, but happens in the other cases I listed as well. Any ideas? Thanks! Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:20AM Weird question. I don’t even know if this is the correct place to post this so redirect me if I’m wrong. The past few times I’ve (25f) been having piv sex with my bf (25), I sta

Boyfriend likes me to swallow but I really don’t like it and it’s causing an argument

I really really hate swallowing and it has always been something I dreaded, but I always try to because I know my boyfriend likes it. However, there were several times where I had a hard time keeping a straight face because I am so focused on trying not to gag. There was even once I gagged and spit everything out instead. & because of this my boyfriend said I hurt his feelings. He said that all the other girls enjoyed swallowing his cum except me which hurts his feelings. I understand where he’s coming from. But him saying that other girls enjoyed swallowing his cum upsets me too. I don’t get what to do in this situation because I tried my best and it’s not enough? How do I deal with this convo and how do I deal with swallowing cum? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:29AM I really really hate swallowing and it has always been something I dreaded, but I always try to because I know my boyfriend likes it.However, there were several times where I had a hard time keeping a straig

So, has anyone tried a sex swing for different positions? We ordered one out of curiosity for some adventurous times...

No text found Submitted April 10, 2019 at 04:30AM No text found

My (25M) SO (26F) takes a long time to get off during sex and I've started losing interest in it altogether as a result.

I feel shitty for thinking this way, but I can't help it. It can take her upwards of 45-60 min. depending on the session with frequent moments of getting close and then losing it. We've tried many things; I've suggested tactfully that she could masturbate more to better direct me as to what she likes and for her to be more communicative of what she wants me to do, but neither of those have made much of a difference. We've incorporated different sex toys which seem to only have a noticeable effect the first 1-2 uses. We've made my orgasm the focus first and then attempt to take care of her afterwards or vice versa, but to no avail. My gf definitely has anxiety and I'm sure this is a major aspect of why she struggles to reach orgasm. But that's a much more complicated issue to address. I assure her that its okay if she is unable to finish and don't pressure her whatsoever, but she still gets in her head. And TBH, I'm lying to her when I say it's n

Can anyone recommend a decent sex machine that does not cost $1k?

I am currently looking for a good, affordable sex machine for pleasure. I would appreciate all good and serious recommendations and any advise. I have been looking at a couple from Hismith or Fort Tron or what it’s called. I just don’t trust certain websites to order anything from there directly. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:07AM I am currently looking for a good, affordable sex machine for pleasure. I would appreciate all good and serious recommendations and any advise. I have been looking at a couple from Hismith or Fort Tron or what it’s called. I just don’t trust certain websites to order anything from there directly.

Is anal during a rape roleplay safe?

I'm planning on doing a roleplay tomorrow night. My bf wants to do anal during the process but I'm not sure. Anal is pretty painful normally and really difficult to coordinate - I feel like it'll be a lot more difficult if it's rushed during a roleplay. Does anyone have experience with this? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:20AM I'm planning on doing a roleplay tomorrow night. My bf wants to do anal during the process but I'm not sure. Anal is pretty painful normally and really difficult to coordinate - I feel like it'll be a lot more difficult if it's rushed during a roleplay. Does anyone have experience with this?

Yeast infection free condoms

So my girlfriend has been having a lot of problems with yeast infection for the past few months. We think it’s the spermicide in Trojans or something that is badly affecting her, and she doesn’t really have problems when we have raw sex, but we found a brand of condoms that looks really good called Sustain Natural. On their website they advertise “NITROSAMINE FREE - These chemicals of concern are found in most condoms, and we don't think they have any business being in your vagina.” I haven’t tested them yet, that’s why I’m posting here wondering if this will work. Thanks! Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:31AM So my girlfriend has been having a lot of problems with yeast infection for the past few months. We think it’s the spermicide in Trojans or something that is badly affecting her, and she doesn’t really have problems when we have raw sex, but we found a brand of condoms that looks really good called Sustain Natural. On their website they advertise“NITROSAMINE FREE - The

Boyfriend wants to go raw but I’m not mentally prepared?

I’m on mobile and this is a throw away account so sorry for any mistakes or typos it’s like 1 am. So my boyfriend and I of five months decided that after a accident condom slip off that maybe I should go on birth control. Considering he’s had more partners than I ever will. I told him to get tested and I would go on birth control so that we wouldn’t have to panic so much about a condom breaking or slipping off again. He’s a man that has worn a condom his whole life & been through a large sum of women and I was a virgin when I met him. After being on birth control for about 2 months my boyfriend finally got the time to go get tested (aka finally found a free clinic because lol health insurance? In this economy?) I went with him and he proudly gave me his negative results on a little card to keep. I was proud of him for doing such a stupid little thing to ease my worries but then another feeling of dread hit my stomach. Would this mean we’d have sex without a condom now? I’m terrif

[29M] Thinking about sex makes me anxious, but I don't understand why

If I'm messaging somebody online that I think I might have a shot with, I get this constant flood of anxiety tying up my stomach, mixed up with the horniness. I don't know what I'm worried about, but I get the physiological response. Going on a date, it's worse. If I end up actually having sex, though? Nowhere near as bad. I try to explain this to people I know and they tell me I just need to "go on more dates" and get used to it, and I'm so fucking tired of it. I've been on the couch for two and a half hours doing nothing but trading messages with somebody I don't even really like all that much but might -- might! -- want to hook up with me. Maybe. And I feel like I've run a marathon. I can barely think about anything else. It's like I'm a different person when I'm horny, and I *hate* it. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:35AM If I'm messaging somebody online that I think I might have a shot with, I get this constant flood

What do I do when my boyfriend is putting on a condom.

We've all been there. Hot, heavy passion, face full of blood, he's been fingering me for a while, I'm super wet and ready to fuck. There's moaning, breathing, dirty talk. Then silence... Alongside the sounds of plastic wrappings and a man kneeling over me with a focussed face on. Such a mood killer. Sometimes I go drink a glass of water, just to avoid the awkwardness. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:52AM We've all been there. Hot, heavy passion, face full of blood, he's been fingering me for a while, I'm super wet and ready to fuck. There's moaning, breathing, dirty talk.Then silence... Alongside the sounds of plastic wrappings and a man kneeling over me with a focussed face on.Such a mood killer.Sometimes I go drink a glass of water, just to avoid the awkwardness.

Need tips on how to make sex less painful

I am F(30) and I'm dating M(31). We've been together almost two months now and I was a virgin when we first started dating. About a month into our relationship we tried to have sex. It didn't work. He couldn't get it inside and when he tried it hurt unbelievably bad. Afterwards I bled and was very sore. We figured it was a combination of me bring a virgin and him being of a decent girth and seven inches. We tried three more times over the next several weeks with the same results. Lube didn't help at all. My doctor examined me and said I have a very narrow pelvic opening and that was the source of the problem. She didn't really offer any solution other than using dilators to help stretch myself. Well my boyfriend and I tried again and though it hurt, he got it in. The following weekend was another failure. We succeeded again recently, last weekend. It hurt almost the whole time though. He hates hurting me and I'm worried this will affect our relationship. I

Tough situation. Daughter was sexually assaulted and it’s affecting my husband and I sexually.

My stepdaughter was sexually assaulted at age 5. We recently only found out about this she is now 15. Her mother decided not to report it to the police and cover it up because it was one of her boyfriends sons. We got her in therapy once she told us and asked for help. The problem is my husband and I don’t have a very active sex life. Maybe 1-3x/month average. This situation however has totally tanked us and we haven’t had sex in over a month. He says everytime he thinks about it he pictures his little girl giving a blow job to this other kid (who was a teenager at the time) I’m honestly heartbroken about the whole thing especially as an assault survivor myself but I’m worried that the further sexual alienation will hurt our marriage. Has anyone else experienced something similar ? How do you move past it? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 05:57AM My stepdaughter was sexually assaulted at age 5. We recently only found out about this she is now 15. Her mother decided not to report

Reasons for not being able to cum?

Today my bf had a really hard time cumming, but usually it's really easy for him and he has to hold back so he lasts longer. Eventually he did, but from jerking off. I feel pretty bad, like it was my fault in some way that didn't make him cum, which is probably bogus. He kept saying that sometimes it's just harder to finish. Just wondering, what reasons are there for why it's harder for guys to come sometimes? What can be done to help? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:02AM Today my bf had a really hard time cumming, but usually it's really easy for him and he has to hold back so he lasts longer. Eventually he did, but from jerking off. I feel pretty bad, like it was my fault in some way that didn't make him cum, which is probably bogus. He kept saying that sometimes it's just harder to finish. Just wondering, what reasons are there for why it's harder for guys to come sometimes? What can be done to help?

rimming a man

This guy I’m really into really wants me to give him rim job and wants me to put my fingers in his ass but I’ve never done it before or received it and I’m soooooo unsettled by the thought of doing it but want to try. Any tips or advice for a first timer who is scared? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:13AM This guy I’m really into really wants me to give him rim job and wants me to put my fingers in his ass but I’ve never done it before or received it and I’m soooooo unsettled by the thought of doing it but want to try. Any tips or advice for a first timer who is scared?

When is the ideal time for a man to cum during sex?

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Guys, how can a girl convince you that youre a good size without sounding placating?

My FWB has mentioned here n there (he doesnt make it a big thing, more passing comments) that he thinks his dick is small. And ive told him straight up, if he were any bigger i wouldnt be with him. But i dont think he really gets it? Like he thinks that im just trying to make him feel better rather than actually saying what i think. And honestly, only time i lied to make him feel better was when he over seasoned the chicken and i said it was fine haha. How would you rather girls tell you your dick is fine or big enough, without us sounding like we're just placating you? Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:24AM My FWB has mentioned here n there (he doesnt make it a big thing, more passing comments) that he thinks his dick is small. And ive told him straight up, if he were any bigger i wouldnt be with him. But i dont think he really gets it? Like he thinks that im just trying to make him feel better rather than actually saying what i think.And honestly, only time i lied to make h

My dick basically doesn’t work after 3 year relationship in which I lost my virginity [22M]

Title says it all. I’ve met a new girl a few months after said long term relationship ended and, out of 5 sexual encounters with her, I’ve not been able to get hard more than once. I’m super attracted to her, but it’s like my body doesn’t want to cooperate with what I’m feeling. I fantasize about fucking her so much during the day, but when we finally get to meet up, I can’t even get hard, no matter how much I’ve masturbated beforehand. Tips? Advice? Perspective? I’m really discouraged about moving on currently. Submitted April 10, 2019 at 06:41AM Title says it all. I’ve met a new girl a few months after said long term relationship ended and, out of 5 sexual encounters with her, I’ve not been able to get hard more than once. I’m super attracted to her, but it’s like my body doesn’t want to cooperate with what I’m feeling. I fantasize about fucking her so much during the day, but when we finally get to meet up, I can’t even get hard, no matter how much I’ve masturbated beforehan

Love 💕

Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything you want Submitted April 09, 2019 at 02:49PM Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything you want

Someone you once found attractive can look so ugly after they’ve hurt you

Not physically, but just their personality becomes so, so ugly. You kept telling yourself that they’re not like the others who’ve hurt you and they’re better than that, convincing yourself that what little they give you is equal to the lot that you give them. You were just lying to yourself as much as they were to you. They took advantage of you, USED you, because it was easy. Not that you’re an easy person, but you were easy for them because you genuinely cared about them. They say they care about you to let you down gently, but once you hit the ground you realize they didn’t really care at all. If they did, it wouldn’t have gotten this far. It’s sad you got hurt, but it’s even sadder that you really had faith in them, that maybe they weren’t like this. You just really wanted them, but they don’t love you. They didn’t even like you. So manipulative, so hurtful, so sad, so... ugly. You deserve so much better. Submitted April 09, 2019 at 03:07PM Not physically, but just thei

Got my visa mail today my love.

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How do you know someone likes you?

I’m good friends with this guy and he’s so nice and amazing all around. However I feel like sometimes he flirts with me but how do I know if he’s into me? I don’t want to ask because I don’t want anything to be awkward between us and maybe it’s all in my head and he’s just such a nice person . How do you know? Submitted April 09, 2019 at 04:45PM I’m good friends with this guy and he’s so nice and amazing all around. However I feel like sometimes he flirts with me but how do I know if he’s into me? I don’t want to ask because I don’t want anything to be awkward between us and maybe it’s all in my head and he’s just such a nice person . How do you know?

He held me for hours

I was having a terrible anxiety attack, I was immobilized and I could barely talk. He saw I wasn't okay, came over to the bed and just grabbed and held me, for hours. Only saying, 'I'm here if you need to talk about it, I'm here as long as you need' and he was, no words can express how much that means to me. Later in the same day I was driving and had another anxiety attack and he came and picked me up. Made me feel safe and took care of me. It made me feel truly loved. He browses reddit, so if he see's this, just know no words can express how appreciative I am of you. I love you. Submitted April 09, 2019 at 05:16PM I was having a terrible anxiety attack, I was immobilized and I could barely talk. He saw I wasn't okay, came over to the bed and just grabbed and held me, for hours. Only saying, 'I'm here if you need to talk about it, I'm here as long as you need' and he was, no words can express how much that means to me. Later in the s

I've realized....

....I'm always going to love you....with all I am. That will never change. But I'm angry...you could have still chosen me when she left. But you didn't. You refused to help me understand what your plan was....all I wanted was to understand why. I think after all we have been through, I at least deserve that. Not through text, but in person. I know you can get away and you know my schedule....if you love me as much as you say yo uh do, then you should be able to tell me everything and help me understand your decisions. I've been open and honest with you....about some of the hardest times and decisions I've made. I feel like you sucked me back into you and then left me swirling in you, in your love, your everything....and then broke my heart all over again..... All I want is to understand.... Submitted April 09, 2019 at 06:26PM ....I'm always going to love you....with all I am. That will never change.But I'm angry...you could have still chosen me whe

Does unconditional Love exist?

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Devastated

My boyfriend and i was doing just fine, even more than fine. He was the perfect gentleman, and he really worked hard to win me over - i didnt suspect something was going on. Until he out of the blue stole a lot ( and i mean a lot!) og my painkillers i need because of an injury.. then he went a-wall, blocked me and never talked to me again. He left me devastated, confused, sad and angry. Now a month has gone, and i cant even express for him that what he did is not ok by a long shot. It broke my heart, but i’ll be fine eventually. I just wish he could have the balls to show some regret. But i dont think he care. Submitted April 09, 2019 at 07:12PM My boyfriend and i was doing just fine, even more than fine. He was the perfect gentleman, and he really worked hard to win me over - i didnt suspect something was going on. Until he out of the blue stole a lot ( and i mean a lot!) og my painkillers i need because of an injury.. then he went a-wall, blocked me and never talked to me agai

i need someone

when i say i've never experienced love, i mean that all of the love i feel is from family and friends, but never with a certain someone. i have felt things in the past, but they were all one-sided. i've had my first love and i know that because i felt all kinds of feelings for that person. i couldn't let go and that was my first heart break as well. literally no one has gone for me, or even had a crush on me as far as i know. i feel lonely and tired, like there's no one i can share myself with. no one to share my stories with, to be honest with or even to just stay silent with. i want someone, but it seems like life never gives me that person. Submitted April 09, 2019 at 07:30PM when i say i've never experienced love, i mean that all of the love i feel is from family and friends, but never with a certain someone. i have felt things in the past, but they were all one-sided. i've had my first love and i know that because i felt all kinds of feelings for t

Beings Among Us

The earth. A true catastrophe. Once ruled by gods. How do we know? Can we trust the history books? Who named these gods? If Zeus is their leader and he is the main creator, who created him? So many secrets. Are there more? What makes them a god? Where are they now? There are more. Not many, perhaps only one. I met her. The idea of God, or a God rather, is that they are ordinary beings with extraordinary traits. A human operates like a machine. Food nourishes the body through a digestive breakdown process. Our nerves send signals to our brain, and our brain computes these into feelings, ideas, reactions. If it is cold outside, our skin cells rise from the chill. If it is hot, they release sweat. When a human is nervous, the brain and body can create these feelings regardless of the temperature of it‘s environment. The level of intensity depends on the durability of the host. If a firearm is pointed at you, most people would be stricken frozen and not be able to think straight. A sele

What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

I was seeing a guy a few weeks ago and he was telling me about his past. He lived with his girlfriend a few months before we met and they parted ways because he realized that he loved her very dearly, but wasn’t in love with her. I have been thinking hard about this since then and I do realize that relationships can get monotonous after a while. However what is it that is different about these two thing? How would I know when I’m in love? Submitted April 09, 2019 at 07:59PM I was seeing a guy a few weeks ago and he was telling me about his past. He lived with his girlfriend a few months before we met and they parted ways because he realized that he loved her very dearly, but wasn’t in love with her.I have been thinking hard about this since then and I do realize that relationships can get monotonous after a while.However what is it that is different about these two thing? How would I know when I’m in love?

Mind Vs Heart

"I'm a strong headed woman, so what he left, I can be alone and happy" *Sees a shooting star * "I wish he comes back and everything be perfect" Submitted April 09, 2019 at 09:09PM "I'm a strong headed woman, so what he left, I can be alone and happy"*Sees a shooting star *"I wish he comes back and everything be perfect"

Have you ever fallen hard for someone in a second and have it effect you for years after?

I'll start. As a shy girl in high school, I had never dated or slept around, but I met someone at a highschool dance. There was a moment after we danced where he held my hand briefly and gave me a kiss on the forehead. Afterwards, he never spoke to me again, but that was my first real infatuation. Ten years later now, I still have dreams of what we could have been. I live my day to day life and dont look at his posts or text, and it often strikes me as silly and shallow, but the feelings still run deep. Anyone have similar experiences so I know I'm not crazy? Submitted April 09, 2019 at 10:24PM I'll start. As a shy girl in high school, I had never dated or slept around, but I met someone at a highschool dance. There was a moment after we danced where he held my hand briefly and gave me a kiss on the forehead. Afterwards, he never spoke to me again, but that was my first real infatuation. Ten years later now, I still have dreams of what we could have been. I live my d