Hey I just wanted to know when the spotting/ bleeding stopped because I’m on my 6th month of spotting and now it’s getting heavier but I still had like periods in between spotting. I’m just so confused if the spotting should be stopping soon and I know everyone body is different but I just wanted know when you guys spotting or bleeding stopped because it is getting very annoying at this point. Submitted June 01, 2021 at 12:22AM Hey I just wanted to know when the spotting/ bleeding stopped because I’m on my 6th month of spotting and now it’s getting heavier but I still had like periods in between spotting. I’m just so confused if the spotting should be stopping soon and I know everyone body is different but I just wanted know when you guys spotting or bleeding stopped because it is getting very annoying at this point.

Hii I'm a 19-year-old gay dude, who has trouble finishing the job when I'm with other people. I have never finished when hooking up with other guys, except for 1 time but I had to try super hard to finish. I have even had trouble finishing when jacking off to other guys through vidcall. I can usually get off pretty easily when jacking off on my own so I was maybe wondering if this is death grip syndrome? or maybe I'm getting too nervous around other people. There are times where I even struggle to stay hard when hooking up. It takes a bit of effort to get it hard again and It also goes away easily A few things I have been trying to fix it Jack off with a looser grip Jack off with no porn Not masturbating for a few days I think abstaining from masturbation helped the most I don't get too disappointed when I dont finish. I'm already pretty satisfied with touching and rubbing up against another guy, but I would really like to cum when I'm with someone else

Nice June 01, 2021 at 12:04AM

I think it's because straights get mad that they might find someone attractive that doesn't want to have sex with them. June 01, 2021 at 12:03AM

Thank you so much! I'm sorry you had to go through that but I'm glad to hear it's better now. I'll try to keep an open mind and hope she comes around. Though I'm not quite sure how to do that without outing myself and after today I don't really think I want to tell her for right now. June 01, 2021 at 12:01AM

Target has a pride shirt that has asexual representation. The shirt is gray and has the words "pride 360" in block letters with different pride flags filling them in. May 31, 2021 at 11:58PM

The fancy one word answer to Hanya's questions is Amatonormativity . I found it a surprisingly helpful concept I'd never heard of until people on this subreddit pointed it out to me. May 31, 2021 at 11:58PM

That's Aegosexual! I'm in that category too. May 31, 2021 at 11:55PM

It's not a specifically Christian thing. Hitler and Stalin were atheists. Osama Bin Ladin and Tamerlane were Muslim. Ghengis Kahn was Tengri. Alexander the Great was Hellenistic. Robespierre had his own religion. Not to mention the entirety of the Roman Empire. May 31, 2021 at 11:46PM

So had you been diagnosed with OCD before this? Were/are you getting professional help for it? Have you brought up these new changes and been able to discuss them? The mental/physical connection is immense. Sounds like something has triggered you and your mental health has caused these changes. Sounds like you should try and address whatever the root issue is here. May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

you too! May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

Ik her logic is so weird. Pretty much in her eyes being gay is fine because you're still experiencing sexual and romantic feelings. But being asexual is weird because a person should biologically experience both sexual and romantic attraction. So if you only experience one over the other or less of one, there's something wrong with you. It makes no sense but that's her thought process ig May 31, 2021 at 11:43PM

So sorry you had to go through that! Really hope the situation with your parents improves in the future, and remember you have the support of a whole community here. Personally, the first time I came out to my parents, they didn’t say anything against it but were still pretty dismissive, as if it wasn’t something of importance, and still thinking I would change my mind in the future. It took me a few separate talks, some years apart, to slowly keep clarifying the concept to them, explaining what being aroace really meant, and also to open up about how their initial reaction had hurt me. It was a slow process but they did change their attitude. They started asking me questions and saying they wanted to learn more about aromanticism and asexuality so that I could could feel free to share my experiences with them. So yeah, don’t loose hope. Aphobia tends to come from a place of ignorance and it is possible to slowly introduce the concept to them and have them change their minds. That s

Happy pride mate May 31, 2021 at 11:42PM

I'd say at the very least make sure they understand that it's not just them that you dont have sexual feelings for. I made sure my partner understood that I love him, but i dont feel any sexual attraction at all, to him or anyone else. And be ready to understand that they may need time to process what you are saying. Try not to make a big deal out of the sexual advances being awful. Definitely explain that it wasn't for you and that you may be sex-repulsed, but try to make sure they understand that it wasn't them that was the problem. Sorry I can't help more, I'm still working a lot of this out as well, and good luck.😊 May 31, 2021 at 11:32PM

That doesn't even make sense lmao. Ask her why she thinks being gay is fine but being ace is abnormal, when "biologically" they're not exactly the best for reproduction. May 31, 2021 at 11:18PM

I dont think so... there are probably reasons to explain whats going on May 31, 2021 at 11:16PM

As long as my cross country state one can, sure why not? May 31, 2021 at 11:16PM

No she supports gay people. Its just asexuals who are the weird ones to her apparently May 31, 2021 at 11:15PM

If it's about biology, so does she think gay people have the minds of children too? May 31, 2021 at 11:13PM

I feel your pain. I am pretty confused too. I am trying to make it through life by reminding myself that as long as I have a vague idea of who I am, I don't need to go down rabbit holes of defining myself to the T. Attraction is complex and confusing enough even without having to continuously second-guess the "type" of attraction. Personally, I tell myself that I just have to be open and experience things as they come. Trying to put myself in little boxes will only take away from the experiences. :) May 31, 2021 at 11:11PM

When people tell me this I just say, "I like to make jokes about sex because to me, sex is a joke" May 31, 2021 at 11:08PM

I’d prefer you refrain from referring to it as a “Christian” thing. Xenophobia is, unfortunately, a “humanity” thing. May 31, 2021 at 11:07PM