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You like someone very much, but she/he has Hpv. She/he confessed that. Would you risk it and have sex with her/him?

You like someone very much, but she/he has Hpv. She/he confessed that. Would you risk it and have sex with her/him? Submitted June 21, 2019 at 12:25AM You like someone very much, but she/he has Hpv. She/he confessed that. Would you risk it and have sex with her/him?

/u/chanaleh on Does anyone else here want to have sex just to see what it’s like?

I've been getting more curious about it lately. I doubt it will be some life altering thing, but if the opportunity ever presented itself I might consider it. Maybe. It's on the list, but the 'if I die without doing this, meh' part, somewhere between riding in a train with compartments and eating a Scotch egg. June 21, 2019 at 12:24AM

/u/LittleEssay on Could asexuality be genetic?

Anecdotally, my brother considers himself demisexual, I'm about as ace as they come, and my other brother has never talked about it but I have my suspicions that he would fall on the ace spectrum as well. We were raised in a very open-minded, non-religious, sex-positive family, too, so...who knows! June 21, 2019 at 12:23AM

/u/LittleEssay on Bothered by people assuming my sexuality

I can relate to this. I usually pretend to fit in just by not engaging in those types of conversations, so I'm sort of considered "normal" by virtue of never saying anything to the contrary. My coworkers are constantly talking about the dates they go on, the apps they use, etc. and I've always just kept silent. For awhile, it worked. But now they've started trying to include me actively. "I know this guy I could set you up with!" and "Well, what's your type? Like name some celebrities you find attractive!" and I just sort of panic because, like, no one? I can name people I find aesthetically beautiful, sure, and I could answer based on what I've heard other people talk about ( oh, so-and-so is so hot, omg) but I felt so...weirded out about it, and a little dishonest, even though I'm not a dishonest person. What I dislike the most about it is that people assume I'm like them, and that I want/need/crave sex like an allosexual...

"You are adorable"

I've been told by many females that I am "adorable" What does that even mean? I'm a 20 yo male with a beard I'm not trying to be adorable... I guess the way I carry myself is adorable? Any tips to become hot and not "adorable" Submitted June 20, 2019 at 11:12PM I've been told by many females that I am "adorable" What does that even mean? I'm a 20 yo male with a beard I'm not trying to be adorable... I guess the way I carry myself is adorable? Any tips to become hot and not "adorable"

Could use perspective on my(23m) female(22f) bestfriend

Ok here we go. My best female friend just got out of a relationship. The last couple months I’ve been there for her a lot. We went to a concert and did some shrooms and it seems like a lot of emotions came out. I have reason to believe she has feelings for me but I am conflicted based on the night because a lot of stuff happened. Here is my evidence We are at a concert and out of nowhere she asks me about another female friend I have. She asked me if her and another female friend are the same person in my mind. I say no I would go to each of them for different things. I said I’d go to my female best friend if I wanted to be myself and I said I’d go the the other female friend for emotional support. She then proceeded to start crying, ask me what I saw in this other woman, claimed I’d always be in love with her and when I asked why it matters if this other woman is in my life she said she wasn’t ready to have this conversation with me. Later in the night we are hanging out in her ca...

This isn't right.....

So, I met this nice guy on Tinder. His name was Paul. We have been on a few dates and I'm certain he is lying to me about his life or something....my gut is telling me so... I noticed that he puts A LOT of effort to prove that he is a good father. My thought process is you don't have to, either you are or you are not. Anywho, I'm concerned because he says he has his life together but in my eyes he doesn't. He drinks A LOT. I mean for example, last night on our date we hit up two restaurants and he had 5 drinks. We went to the liquor store and he got himself a bottle of vodka. What made me rethink all of this was while we were having dinner he told me the story about how his baby mama didn't want his son around his own mother. So, instead of him taking care of him, his mother is. Also, he doesn't have a car so I always drive him home after dinner. I told him that instead of spending so much on Ubers he should invest that money into a car. Also on our date he tel...

Honestly

Tbh, I will never get a date. If I was not ugly, I would of had a chance. Tinder is just a waste of time. I think I will just give up. Submitted June 20, 2019 at 11:30PM Tbh, I will never get a date. If I was not ugly, I would of had a chance. Tinder is just a waste of time. I think I will just give up.

/u/MalarkeysPoppa on 😎

...but it gets filthy again when you realize why the lady might need the hair tie... June 21, 2019 at 12:17AM

/u/HazyshadeofFall on The fun thing about being closeted asexual in a religious family is that people always compliment me on being so chaste and modest.

Lucky! My parents got married at 22 and my older sister at 21. I'm turning 24 in a few weeks. June 21, 2019 at 12:17AM

/u/Metomol on Could asexuality be genetic?

I don't personally believe in any genetic sexual orientation. I think it's more complex than that. June 21, 2019 at 12:17AM

/u/DarthPlagueis06 on peaches as a euphemism

I’ll never be able to eat a peach again June 21, 2019 at 12:15AM

OMF it worked and I'm freaking out

I justed a girl for her number for the first time in a very long time and I'm too stressed to function afterwards XD I'm not exactly sure I'm going to get a text back but it's good to be making progress again Now if you excuse me I'm gonna go throw up Submitted June 21, 2019 at 12:02AM I justed a girl for her number for the first time in a very long time and I'm too stressed to function afterwards XDI'm not exactly sure I'm going to get a text back but it's good to be making progress againNow if you excuse me I'm gonna go throw up

/u/TransBagle on I came out to my mom. There's more but I don't feel comfortable sharing that

There's more, I'm just not comfortable sharing it on here. She's fine with it June 21, 2019 at 12:06AM

/u/Cantstandit6 on I came out to my mom. There's more but I don't feel comfortable sharing that

If that's all you got to say, I feel like she didn't accept you June 21, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/tbabby on The fun thing about being closeted asexual in a religious family is that people always compliment me on being so chaste and modest.

It started out like that for me... but now i’m almost 24 and have never brought home a boyfriend. That’s not too old to be unmarried but it’s definitely old enough to question why i’ve never been in a relationship. When I was a teen it was cute and I got compliments, now that i’m approaching my mid twenties it’s “GiVe mE gRAnD CHiLdrEN!” June 21, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/TransBagle on I came out to my mom. There's more but I don't feel comfortable sharing that

Why you sad? June 21, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/Kaikeno on What IS Asexual Culture?

This June 21, 2019 at 12:02AM

/u/TransBagle on Have a great pride month

This a joke? June 20, 2019 at 11:58PM

/u/Kaiti-Coto on ‘How does one know if they’re Ace?’ (Read disc.)

I know I’m asexual because I realized I was wrong about being straight. Duh - Let me finish. Between grades 1-9, I would want to become friends with people in my school that were intelligent. However, due to various factors contributing to a low self-esteem, I was scared to try to become friends with them. I had assumed this wanting to get to know someone but being scared to do so was what people meant by liking someone. It was not until I had a “crush” on a current friend of mine - that I had realized my mistake. This realization coincided with my realization that the term sexual attraction actually meant sexual attraction. June 20, 2019 at 11:38PM

Knew this guy for ONE day and he sexually assaulted me. So I told him I’ll never see him again. His response included that he was going to do things I liked and that he’s actually a good person but his wreck made him do it.

http://bit.ly/2Y1wKMb Submitted June 20, 2019 at 11:57PM http://bit.ly/2Y1wKMb

Creep didn’t like being rejected and blocked so got creepier and blocked again on burner account

http://bit.ly/2Xtgpml Submitted June 20, 2019 at 11:59PM http://bit.ly/2Xtgpml

Hopefully this isn’t real

http://bit.ly/2Y1wI71 Submitted June 21, 2019 at 12:03AM http://bit.ly/2Y1wI71