Hi am I a 32M I came out of a 10 year relationship last year and after a few months I met someone, a foreigner 37F female. She had 2 kids and lots her job mid relationship period and was not able to find a new job. After 5 months of me supporting her and her kids and me draining all of my savings, plus tons of pressure from my family I left her. It was a messy breakup because she didn't accept it well, but after 3 weeks I met someone, a 33F with a very similar personality to mine and we have been hitting it up fantastically well, everything between us matches even our life goals, she is also a foreigner. My mom accidentally found out I was talking to this girl and so I came clean because of last dramas. My mom got super upset saying, "here I go again getting crazy about the first person I meet and how I should meet people offline." And that she is a foreigner and all she wants is to take advantage of me. Also she is full of tattoos and my parents are old fashioned and ha