EDIT: I’m not romantically involved with him, I’m only interested. He hasn’t indicated any interest in me, I was just wondering if you think we’d have a chance I’m 16 and female and interested in a male who is 25. We have an age gap of 9 years, which is massive at this age but I feel like in a few years that won’t matter. My parents have the same age gap as him and I. The issue is that he basically sees me as a kid (rightly so, it’s not right for him to see me romantically at this age) but because we’ve been friends for a while I worry that he’ll never view me the way I want him to. Specifically because I always get guidance from him and he never asks me for guidance. It means there’s an imbalance in our relationship, and we’ll never be on the same level. I’ve been weak in front of him, he’s never been weak in front of me. Of course, this might be something that changes with time and me growing up but I guess we’ll see? Do you think I have even the slightest chance of being with

[M(19)] Iv got a crush on a friend of mine[F(18)] we don’t really talk a lot and sometimes i do somewhat get ignored and idk when will it be the best time to confess about it i meet her 2wice a week and she’s about 1 year younger. And i don’t really wanna know her way too much cuz by my past experience ik I’ll not be good. Any tips on what i must do and when i must confess? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:43PM [M(19)] Iv got a crush on a friend of mine[F(18)] we don’t really talk a lot and sometimes i do somewhat get ignored and idk when will it be the best time to confess about it i meet her 2wice a week and she’s about 1 year younger. And i don’t really wanna know her way too much cuz by my past experience ik I’ll not be good. Any tips on what i must do and when i must confess?

So ive been friends with this girl for a few years now. I would say a lot of things about us are pretty similar both physically and how we think. I guess that parts not important it just baffles me why she’s the one guys are attracted to when we are often described as the same person. What am I not doing? We are both single, and whenever a guy comes around that I’m attracted to, she always is too. Then it becomes this silent unspoken “battle” for lack of a better word to spend time with that person. I think she loves the idea that she’s winning more attention from the guys than I am more than the guys themselves. And will go out of her way to secretly text them or even hang out with them without me. At first I thought it was a coincidence we liked the same people. but over the years I’m realizing it’s every guy I end up crushing on, she likes them too. Sometimes only after I’ve disclosed my feelings to her, or it becomes obvious. She’s naturally flirtier than I am, I tend to be shy,

Long story short I met a guy travelling and we spent a couple of awesome days together. He actively pursued me and was generally really sweet and into it. I had a more cooler approach but ended up liking him a lot. We said our goodbyes but have been texting since (2 months). He kept texting me he missed me and vice versa. We have a bunch of similar interests, same humour etc. Now he lives about 4 hours by plane but early on he asked me to come visit at some point and I said I'd love to. Later I mentioned we could meet up in a few months and he said he'd love to see me again but we didn't make any definite plans. I mentioned a few possible dates a couple of weeks later and he said we'd talk about it the next day which we never did because his phone broke. I didn't breach the subject again because that would really make me look desperate. I have no clear expectations out of this but maybe he thinks I do? Or he's over it? This is confusing me so much. Should I ju

I messed up and lost a girl I really liked. I keep obsessing over the mistakes I made. How do I move past this? It's really bothering me. I regret it so much. I'll never have that opportunity again. It's my fault. She did nothing wrong. It was all me. Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:58PM I messed up and lost a girl I really liked. I keep obsessing over the mistakes I made. How do I move past this? It's really bothering me. I regret it so much. I'll never have that opportunity again. It's my fault. She did nothing wrong. It was all me.

Should I move on? (35M) meet a someone (33F) on a dating site. She made initial contact. We messaged a bit in the app then she gave me her number and asked that I text her the next day. I texted her with the goal of meeting up for coffee sometime in the next week. She stated she wanted to text to get to know each other first. She had been really hurt in the past. I texted back that I understand that she wants to take it slow. A few days in I ask again if she has considered meeting for coffee. She said she was not ready. I told her that when she is to let me know. I will respect that she is not ready and i don’t want to push her. She is also a single mother with kids. I also have two kids 50/50 custody. It’s been over a week. I dint know what the heck to text anymore. It’s the standard good morning, good night, how’s your day stuff now. Her answers are short and hardly any questions. I mean how the heck are you going to get to know a person over text? Anyway I’m thinking of texting h

I'm a kiddo (15f) and completely adore a guy in the same grade. We don't have any classes together this year but did last year, and are very different people in terms of skills, but have overlapping interests and are dating I think(?) He refers to me as "his girl" and has a pet name for me, we talk a lot through text mainly, say good morning and good night, but he seems to avoid labeling it as dating (if that's the case I can respect it, he has a not very good past experience) we hang out most mornings mon wed fri, cause we both have spares first period, where we just kinda snuggle and talk. it's been 4 weeks I think, and he's come over twice, both being very date-like even though we didn't call them dates. the main problems come in with age I believe, because we're both immature being kids, and both have some mental issues. I'm a lot more open than he is, but obviously not gonna push him to talk about stuff he doesn't want to. he's

All the rejection not to mention the outrageous criteria women have. They expect you to be funny, tall have interesting hobbies and be hot and with a six pack. While offering none of those things themselves, the only hobbies most girls have is watching Netflix and “travelling” I’m done with this bullshit Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:05AM All the rejection not to mention the outrageous criteria women have. They expect you to be funny, tall have interesting hobbies and be hot and with a six pack. While offering none of those things themselves, the only hobbies most girls have is watching Netflix and “travelling” I’m done with this bullshit

I (M15) recently started going to a new school. I was made fun of in my previous school and only my small group of friends actually even liked me. Idk if anyone there ever found me attractive, but i was in a long distance relationship with a girl for 3 years and we broke up in may. She was really attractive and I think I'm pretty average. So in my new school there's this one girl (m15). We talked for the first time in like the first week of school. She noticed I was there early and came up to me to talk. I was pretty awkward and was breathing heavily (like I do often when I'm stressed) but we joked around a bit, and she really reminded me of my ex in the way she talked. The thing was it was tuesday and we never talked for the rest of the week. Not even a "Hi". Next week was almost the same but this time she texted me on the class group chat to come to talk cause she was sitting there alone. We talked a bit again, she told me to watch a certain tv show, then agai

Hi Reddit! I need help as I’m new to dating etiquettes. So I (23f) matched this this guy (27m) last week and we casually talked for a few days before meeting for coffee in Sunday. We hit it off and set another date for Wednesday to watch the World Series. Drinks were involved and we ended up back at his place where we hooked up. We’ve been talking all day and everything seems normal. Is it weird to follow him on insta since we never exchanged socials? Am I overthinking this? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:13AM Hi Reddit! I need help as I’m new to dating etiquettes.So I (23f) matched this this guy (27m) last week and we casually talked for a few days before meeting for coffee in Sunday. We hit it off and set another date for Wednesday to watch the World Series. Drinks were involved and we ended up back at his place where we hooked up. We’ve been talking all day and everything seems normal. Is it weird to follow him on insta since we never exchanged socials? Am I overthinking

Hey people of reddit. I need some advice on texting a girl who is have known for awhile but we suddenly stopped texting for no reason. We were not in an argument or angry at each other we just stopped. Since then my confidence has decreased lots since then and I cant bring myself to texting her. How should I start talking to her again. I'm pretty sure she liked me because we would both flirt and complement each other regularly so there was no problems with us. Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:16AM Hey people of reddit. I need some advice on texting a girl who is have known for awhile but we suddenly stopped texting for no reason. We were not in an argument or angry at each other we just stopped. Since then my confidence has decreased lots since then and I cant bring myself to texting her. How should I start talking to her again. I'm pretty sure she liked me because we would both flirt and complement each other regularly so there was no problems with us.

Question: Women, what are your feelings when someone wants to fuck you? Is it not objectifying or demeaning? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:53PM Question: Women, what are your feelings when someone wants to fuck you? Is it not objectifying or demeaning?

All my peers and even family (literally) are having sex despite the consequences it has to other people. Sex turns them into dicks (pun intended.) It must be life changing... Submitted October 31, 2019 at 11:59PM All my peers and even family (literally) are having sex despite the consequences it has to other people. Sex turns them into dicks (pun intended.)It must be life changing...

Of course I got on my knees and sucked his dick I would say he was pretty kinky Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:02AM Of course I got on my knees and sucked his dickI would say he was pretty kinky

All I see online is about how all women love oral. It ranges from feeling uncomfortable to painful for me. Am I doing something wrong? I also can't stand letting anyone else touch my clit with their hands though... It just hurts. Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:03AM All I see online is about how all women love oral. It ranges from feeling uncomfortable to painful for me. Am I doing something wrong? I also can't stand letting anyone else touch my clit with their hands though... It just hurts.

So I tore my banjo string completely in half almost two months. its grown back but it hurts when i pull the skin down (and im very nervous to do so cause i do not want to break it again). wondering if anyone has experience this and what i should do? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:05AM So I tore my banjo string completely in half almost two months. its grown back but it hurts when i pull the skin down (and im very nervous to do so cause i do not want to break it again). wondering if anyone has experience this and what i should do?

I already do this quite often without him saying anything but I don't do it every minute obviously.. I have a few questions.. First, if I don't talk dirty as often as he likes.. is this something that makes a man lose interest or look for it from someone else? Or does it not really affect how they feel? Idk.. I thought I already talked dirty enough but sometimes we'll be in bed n he'll say "talk dirty baby" or something like that.. so my other question is, is he just saying it because he gets really turned on and likes when I say those kind of things? Or because I'm not saying it enough and he wants me to say it more/be more vocal? I'm just a little confused as to why he said it.. any ideas? Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:06AM I already do this quite often without him saying anything but I don't do it every minute obviously.. I have a few questions.. First, if I don't talk dirty as often as he likes.. is this something that makes a ma

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Back story. I'm in my early 40s. I recently was in a couple of situations with occasional partners that made me think I had crossed into blue diamond territory. Although I was very concerned about what this thing makes to your heart, my PCP thought I could benefit from it. I have no heart issues, I just stress a lot and I'm a worrybot. I have never used it because I went through about half a year without a partner. Recently I met someone new. I can only see her every other week but..., when we're together she drives me crazy. We've had sex 2-4 times every time we've met so far. I told her about my story and she said we should try it once just to see what effect it has. I agree it might be fun, and there's nothing I'd enjoy more than pleasing her but I'm not sure this is something you want to play with, esp. if, apparently, I don't need it after all (I still have some trouble when playing with myself, though). To avoid misunderstandings, she's

Just wondering! Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:19AM Just wondering!

This is with my FWB (28M) of five months. He's the most amazing sexual partner I've ever had, and the only one who has actually put effort into trying to get me off. Our chemistry is off the charts and our sex is unbelievably good. I don't think this "faking" is a result of his technique. I don't even want to call it faking orgasms because 90% of it is real. He knows exactly how to get me so so close, but once I get to that "so close I'm gonna come" point I get so in my head about it. This causes me to take longer, and then when I take longer I start to feeling like I'm taking TOO long and if I don't come soon he'll give up. So the super close feeling kind of just plateaus until it gets so overwhelming that I react (sometimes on purpose sometimes not) in a way that makes it seem like I'm coming. But I never cross the peak and actually come like I do when I'm masturbating. Also, a lot of the time he'll tell me to come fo

As a fellow writer, I wish you the best of luck. November 01, 2019 at 12:12AM

I’d really prefer not to be insulted for this post but it’ll likely happen So I love dating it’s super fun, but once I’ve had sex the flame just immediately dies. Doesn’t matter if it’s the first date or the 20th date, it’ll go from me wanting to spend every minute and loving every word she says to me just being bored or annoyed by her. Wtf is wrong with me, I want to find a wife and start a family in the next 6-11 years but how can I do that if I can’t fall in love. Do I just like the chase? The mystery of what’s under her clothes? Is something not being fulfilled sexually? Wtf is wrong with me, I’m literally the hump her dump her stereotype Submitted November 01, 2019 at 12:03AM I’d really prefer not to be insulted for this post but it’ll likely happenSo I love dating it’s super fun, but once I’ve had sex the flame just immediately dies. Doesn’t matter if it’s the first date or the 20th date, it’ll go from me wanting to spend every minute and loving every word she says to

So a girl and I are test subjects (guinea pigs) for this experiment. Over the last day and a half we've been talking here and there. We really had good chem when we met; so I asked her out for lunch after our next experiment test. She agreed, and I would like to know how to not mess up. She's really nice, in general her personality projects warmth you could say. Any comments on what to and not to do. Bonus info: we are both undergraduates; we are 19, havent asked her her age - "hahahaha" Thank you and Thanks Reddit Also hmmm, if you can give a lil' upvote the more feedback the better. P.S.: The fact she said yes just made me so happy, its awesome. Submitted October 31, 2019 at 12:12AM So a girl and I are test subjects (guinea pigs) for this experiment. Over the last day and a half we've been talking here and there. We really had good chem when we met; so I asked her out for lunch after our next experiment test. She agreed, and I would like to know

Here’s the rundown. October 2014 I took a chance on dating someone from work. She happened to live on campus at the same Uni I went to which made things really easy for us. This story a bit strange but I think you’ll see why I’m fucked up still. We were together for about a year. Other than a few differences in our music tastes and religious backgrounds we were a solid couple. She was new to my city and I sort of obliged to take her around and we would go out and do random things the first couple of weeks. She signed a lease with her ex-boyfriend during this time. Before she moved here she was in a relationship with him but she was very transparent with me about the whole situation. He was rarely an issue and she practically lived at my house while we were dating. Anyways, after the first few weeks we started having sex and things were getting... wild to say the least. The sex was really good... like unbelievably amazing. This is something that has made it hard to move on from thi

I’ve been on and off with this guy who I have absolutely loved from the second I saw him. Since then, there are a few things that happened which made us go out separate ways but it’s always been his choice to separate. one time he even just disappeared because of an argument we had gotten into. He’s broken my heart more than once and it always seems like my fault or he’s paranoid and doesn’t trust me (our last falling out he went through my phone) I might add he is bipolar. I can’t seem to let him go he is the best love I’ve ever had despite certain things that happened between us. We have been hanging recently not sure what to expect of it. At what point am I supposed to walk away? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 12:24AM I’ve been on and off with this guy who I have absolutely loved from the second I saw him. Since then, there are a few things that happened which made us go out separate ways but it’s always been his choice to separate. one time he even just disappeared because of

Hello guys, In short, I am 5'6 not the tallest man on earth. I have an average build and I believe I look average in all. I am successful though and that has caused me many issues. I often find myself in situations where women (mostly taller than me) really look as if they were flirting with me. I often find myself wondering is she flirting or just being friendly? No way that's too friendly she must be flirting... why me? I don't think I'm that good looking... is it because I have money? How did she find out? etc. I never dress too flashy or show off just an average looking guy between the crowed I even use public transport don't own a car. I have not dated for years and last time I was in a relationship when I was 15 still in school living with my parents I am 25 now. I'm kind of funny and genuine but been told that I'm eccentric in some way. I'm always afraid of starting a relationship assuming that I will be dumped later I guess I'm very soft ab

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I tend to wear baggy clothing, jeans, sweaters (yay sweater weather), and tights if I do wear dresses/skirts (even in summer). I feel like my current 'style' has developed because I'm normally in casual environments at work or when I go out. But also I've also been ogled and groped before because people got stupid ideas from looking at me, so I feel like me being a woman with "noticeable assets" influences my choice more than my asexuality. I'd actually love to expand my style to include more stylish but not traditionally 'revealling' clothing so I can express myself and not feel unsafe at the same time. October 31, 2019 at 12:04AM

I've(20f) been in the same sort of situation with my partner(20m) + still do feel some guilt. We started dating in highschool and I didn't realise I was ace until about 2 years into dating him. I thought I was just scared to have sex and it would go away if I pushed it. It's our first real relationship for both of us and neither of us have ever had a sexual relationship before this. We've been together for almost 4 years now. It's been 2 years since I realised I was ace and came out to him and he is my best friend and the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Your partner's an adult. It's not up to you to decide whether you're robbing him of sexual experience or if you'd be better off apart for his sake. If you're worried about it, talk to him. Figure out what your boundaries are with sex (for example: I'm incredibly uncomfortable with receiving but if I'm in the right headspace I'm happy to give. It's completely fi

I've (27M) been pursuing this long distance non-relationship romantic fling with a woman (31F) going on 6 months now. We met at a wedding and hit things off, danced, and made out quite a bit. I got her number and after the wedding we started chatting. We were quite infatuated with one another, despite being over 2500 miles away from one another. She would send me snaps and texts almost constantly. She was incredibly sweet and very very attractive - easily a 9 and exactly my type: a petite but curvy blonde with incredible eyes. After a couple of weeks I invited her to see me and she said "Maybe, I'll have to look into it". I replied "No worries, I know it's a lot to ask so just let me know" I didn't think much of it, but little did I know this was going to be the story of our relationship. I would ask to see her and she would string me along or flake out. I never did hear back about that specific date, but I asked her to be my +1 to a wedding in my

In 3 months we have been on 5 dates since we met in July. I have bad anxiety and I feel like I am catching up feelings. We are sorta dating but without a real label atm. This guy has shown lots of interest in me and he seems to be a great guy but I have this paranoia that he is going to lose interest after a while especially after sex. Initially we thought of staying friends and gave me the idea that he didn't want to date for some reason but then he changed his mind and I sorta did too. I had a phase where I thought I could keep it casual or fwb but I realized that if there's actual dating I get scared of catching up feeling or getting rejected. He showed all the way possible that he is not interested just for sex, he said he likes me a lot or too much and cares about my feelings etc He talk and lot and he complimented my personality a lot etc, he has been a gentleman until now. I do feel physically attracted to him but I feel super anxious so relaxing is hard...last ti

I'm a 30 year old Male who has not dated or even hooked up with anyone for close too 12 years now. I have just recently lost over 130lbs since December of 2018 and decided its time to get back out there again. My appearance and confidence has drastically changed since the weight loss. I have always been athletic and funny and not a sloppy fat guy. I have had many females straight up ask me out in those 12 years but I just made lame excuse after lame excuse to not date or hang with anyone. But now that I'm trying to get out there again and feel much better about myself my brain went full insane with overthinking everything!!! Is this a date: I started a new job in March and right away hit it off with a few people. One a female who I have always thought attractive but was still not ready to date/chill especially with a co worker. She was the one who asked for my number first back then. We really only ever talked in work. We went out for drinks in a group one night and a smalle

i recently started dating this guy, we're on date 4 at this point. we've got A LOT of similar interests and i find him easy to talk to. he seems genuinely like a pretty nice guy. theres just one issue and its that he talks non stop. i dont think he can help it as hes got some severe ADD and i just dont feel right asking him to stop or change either. however a few hours into a date i feel completely drained and exhausted and need to lay down. but the next day i want to see him again? Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:42PM i recently started dating this guy, we're on date 4 at this point. we've got A LOT of similar interests and i find him easy to talk to. he seems genuinely like a pretty nice guy. theres just one issue and its that he talks non stop. i dont think he can help it as hes got some severe ADD and i just dont feel right asking him to stop or change either. however a few hours into a date i feel completely drained and exhausted and need to lay down. but t

I'm not a needy guy, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship. But I have no interest in having flings with women, you're either a friend or a potential girlfriend. If its not genuine then I'd rather have blue balls. I've prevented many sexual encounters because I just dont find it deep enough. Seems like I'm in the minority for guys Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:46PM I'm not a needy guy, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship. But I have no interest in having flings with women, you're either a friend or a potential girlfriend. If its not genuine then I'd rather have blue balls. I've prevented many sexual encounters because I just dont find it deep enough.Seems like I'm in the minority for guys

Not sure if I should be direct, or use a more subtle flirtatious approach? Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:47PM Not sure if I should be direct, or use a more subtle flirtatious approach?

First of all, I want to say I hate that I'm even writing this post. I've never chased a girl with a boyfriend my entire life, because I genuinely think that's unfair to both of them. But here I am. I'm an exchange student and I still have almost three months before going home. I was really loving my time here, before I met this girl. I'm not going to say anything about her, but we immediately hit it off and honestly, I just fell for her. Then I discovered she has a boyfriend. And I really tried to forget about her, I really did. But I couldn't, because we have the same friends here and I basically see her every day. It's been almost a month and nothing changed. I know I just shouldn't go after her, but that's what I tried to do for a long time and it's just not working. I tried to go after other girls but I can't stop thinking about her. So I need to go after. I know I would have a chance if she was single, but that's not the point. I ne

Not speaking for myself. Not even speaking for every man. But there is a huge section of the male population who has disgustingly low standards. I say it is disgusting, not because it bothers me that people accept to be with someone not quite as attractive as they are, but because 1) It's not reciprocal. Women in general aren't willing to date men much less attractive than them, unless they're rich 2) I honestly believe it creates an unbalance that harms society. ​ Pretty much every time i go to a public place i see several couples where the girl is a 4 or 5 at best and the guy is easily a 7. Plenty of short, chubby girls with tall and in-shape dudes. The opposite it's very, very, very rare. It does exist, but it's not something i see everyday. I rarely see an hot girl dating a short, chubby 4/10 guy. It just doesn't happen that often. ​ I see on a regular basis guys who are better looking than me dating girls that, to be honest, are less attractive than i

So I (23F) went on my first 2nd date (ever). But I left pretty disappointed and I feel that I may have blew my chances due to my awkwardness and a few moments through the night. Since he bought my movie ticket, I offered to split the check for dinner. I do not know if that came off weird During the movie, he left the arm rest down. I had wanted to move it but with him leaning on it, there was no way without making it more awkward. In the end, while other couples held hands or cuddled, we sat more like friends. After the movie ended, he walked me back to my car. After an awkward pause, I ended up giving him a hug After that I panicked and said "see you around" (What I fear was my biggest mistake) In the end, it felt like I went to watch a movie with a friend and not like a date at all I really don't know what to do. We get along well but I'm too much of an awkward and inexperienced mess (I've never even kissed anyone) to make any moves and if by some chanc

In the spirit of Halloween let’s hear some “ghost” stories! Why did you decide to ghost someone? I know it’s frowned upon but sometimes imo it’s the right thing to do. I have previously ghosted a guy that asked me three days in a row if I had my child. I told him on our first date that I was the primary caregiver and had my kid that week and weekend. Then reminding him of said fact the following day, and the day after when asked AGAIN. 👻 Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:56PM In the spirit of Halloween let’s hear some “ghost” stories! Why did you decide to ghost someone? I know it’s frowned upon but sometimes imo it’s the right thing to do.I have previously ghosted a guy that asked me three days in a row if I had my child. I told him on our first date that I was the primary caregiver and had my kid that week and weekend. Then reminding him of said fact the following day, and the day after when asked AGAIN. 👻

~Possible Trigger Warning~ Alrighty folks.... so a bit of backstory, I’m 18 and have only been dating since I first turned 17. Within that 14 months, I’ve had 3 boyfriends. The first one was a pretty good guy. I’ll call him M. We met at work and clicked, flirted for a couple months and i coerced my way into a relationship with him. M and I dated for exactly 3 months. Then he started to distance himself and we ended up splitting on our 3 month anniversary. I was crushed. I cried over him off and on for weeks, months even. My first real heartbreak, and I did not handle it well. I spiraled into a deep, deep depression and stopped caring about everything. Fast forward a few months, and I met a guy at my new job that I started not long before my first heartbreak. We’ll call him C. C seemed nice, and i was never fully convinced of my feelings for him, but he was so pushy about getting into a relationship as soon as possible (because he was “in love” with me) that I finally caved and made

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Here’s a link to my previous post. Previous Post Update: It was 100% another woman. They’re now a couple but lately he’s been practically begging me to see him. He’s even suggested that I see him once a week because he misses me and the sex...I’m pretty sure it’s just the sex. I haven’t given in & I won’t give in. I’m still into him but proud of myself for ignoring his advances. At this point I’m giving dating a nice long rest. Thanks for all of the feedback. I read them all but was too bummed to respond. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:42PM Here’s a link to my previous post.Previous PostUpdate: It was 100% another woman. They’re now a couple but lately he’s been practically begging me to see him. He’s even suggested that I see him once a week because he misses me and the sex...I’m pretty sure it’s just the sex. I haven’t given in & I won’t give in. I’m still into him but proud of myself for ignoring his advances. At this point I’m giving dating a nice long rest.Than

I don't think I ever seriously wanted kids even before I figured out I was ace. I love other people's kids, but I don't think I could handle being around them all the time. I also know some allo straight couples who never wanted kids, so that argument is doubly invalid. October 30, 2019 at 12:16AM

So my girlfriend tells me we have good sex and my dick is big... typical stuff I guess The thing is she always “jokes” around about my dick and calls it small, thing or something. It’s really getting to me I don’t care if my dick is small but I just want to know what she thinks why can’t she just be honest? I’ve asked her many times to be. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:46PM So my girlfriend tells me we have good sex and my dick is big... typical stuff I guessThe thing is she always “jokes” around about my dick and calls it small, thing or something.It’s really getting to me I don’t care if my dick is small but I just want to know what she thinks why can’t she just be honest? I’ve asked her many times to be.

Just wondering if this is the right post to comment about cam model stuff. Submitted October 29, 2019 at 11:51PM Just wondering if this is the right post to comment about cam model stuff.

Why am I so bothered? I hate this so much. I need advice on how to handle it. I can’t even talk to him. Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:02AM Why am I so bothered? I hate this so much. I need advice on how to handle it. I can’t even talk to him.

25F here. I’d never been with an uncut guy before my current SO and sex was great (or not, depending on the person), and I’ll admit I was nervous about being with someone uncircumcised because of what my friends had all said but the prejudice against uncut men should really go away. Having sex with an uncut guy is amazing. It feels great and everyone who likes penises should try it. That’s all! Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:05AM 25F here. I’d never been with an uncut guy before my current SO and sex was great (or not, depending on the person), and I’ll admit I was nervous about being with someone uncircumcised because of what my friends had all said but the prejudice against uncut men should really go away. Having sex with an uncut guy is amazing. It feels great and everyone who likes penises should try it.That’s all!

Hi! Today i was just messing around with myself and i nearly came while fingering my clit. And then i just got in and "scratched" it and then I came. It felt so weird. Does anyone have any experiences? Or tips? Idk what I like better tho. I feel like clitorial climaxes last longer Submitted October 30, 2019 at 12:06AM Hi! Today i was just messing around with myself and i nearly came while fingering my clit. And then i just got in and "scratched" it and then I came. It felt so weird.Does anyone have any experiences? Or tips? Idk what I like better tho. I feel like clitorial climaxes last longer

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Oh.... well thanks. That does sound painful October 30, 2019 at 12:11AM

My dream SO is someone I feel safe with, enjoy the same movies/games with, and can share a house and completely forget they're there sometimes. I don't want cuddling, kissing, or touching of any kind unless it's really cold or one of us is really sad. I just want security and an emotional connection. October 30, 2019 at 12:09AM

This is my GOTY, easily. October 30, 2019 at 12:04AM

I spent years in fic heavy fandoms so yeah. October 29, 2019 at 11:52PM

I (M48) have been with my wife (F41) for ten years. In the last five years, we have separated four times. It all started about one year into our relationship when she expressed a need to live with her parents (they lived in South America). We lived in Australia. And she would take regular visits to see them. Later she said she wanted to spend 3 months living with them and the rest with me ... per year, and then changed it to six months with them and six months with me. About four years into the relationship, she became pregnant and then left at the end of the pregnancy to give birth in South America. She stayed there for over a year, and I missed out on the first year of our daughter's life. She eventually returned to Australia and then started demanding that her parents live with us. I said no. After quite a bit of conflict, she then left me out of the blue and took my daughter and went back to South America. I was heartbroken and chased her. Eventually she said she would get b