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I Have a Crush on my Best Friend

In September of 2022 I auditioned for a play. I saw on of my friends from 1st grade with a group of people. I walked up to him and he introduced me to his friend. The new friend felt very familiar like I knew him from somewhere. He Introduced himself and he had a name I had never heard before. Shocked I introduced myself and then moved on. Me and this new friend Both got in and we spent 40+ hours a week together. We talked about everything and we made each other laugh. We entered a pickle ball tournament and we were doubles partners. We made it to the top 8 and we played together for the first time 30 minuets prior. Typically a partnership like that takes years to develop that connection. Throughout this time I caught feelings for my new best friend. After the play he started cancelling plans. At the beginning of our friendship he said he has no desire to date anyone. I agreed, why would I fall in love with my best friend I never liking anyone before. I don't know what to do. Do I...

/u/TheLastWearWoof on Breaking bad > s*x

no, you see they did the possible, just unlikely (get off of Reddit) honestly though, in the modern world we have shit like ivf so you don't need sex anymore. the world really can survive on garlic bread, cake, and cuddles December 15, 2022 at 01:18AM

Girl in my class is very confusing

So I'm 25 and relative inexperienced however there's a girl in my class who is truly trying to confused me. It all started when she was my lab partner in anatomy. She seemed really cool and she was kinda flirtatious. I had enough experience to know that I shouldn't take it too seriously. But she definitely tried to manipulate me a little bit. For example, she would lead on me and touch me alot when talking to me. Of course this would lead to me being slightly arouse which tbh I think she likes that. She also said I'm her favorite. So I started to study with her and tried to get closer. She was cool at first and I felt really comfortable. She even wanted me to take her to an apple orchard. However, things changed when she broke up with her bf. She became distant and stopped answering text. So I stop bothering her. It came at a bad time too because we had a test and she decided to flake on a review session. I ended up failing the class. I let it go and moved on to a st...

/u/Grouchy-Ad5221 on Being asexual feels lonely. Does anybody else feel this way too? (Warning: mentions of sex)

Of course https://du.asexuality.org/forum/index.php December 14, 2022 at 11:54PM

Eye Contact, Confidence and how to actually flirt

Whenever I tried to learn something new about dating, flirting, and general appearance, there was this basic advice that I somehow disregarded. Not because I didn't believe in them, but because I thought they were overrated and only general appearance mattered. And I am confident, but not when it comes to flirting and dating in general. Simply because I have no experience with it. But recently I was at a party and I noticed that a lot of girls started talking to me, but then another guy came in and their attention switched. And why? Because my conversation and general approach was that of a friendly guy. He walked up to them, didn't break eye contact every second, and was charming. We do look similar, as we are often seen as brothers, but he is more charming and immediately showed interest in the girls, and that came across. Now I came back from a party and during the party I thought to myself that this time I won't worry so much. I have nothing to lose and was just ha...