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Female friend put me on silent treatment then acts like we are ok next week we meet, I feel alienated from her even as I play along like everything is OK. Should I tell her, her behavior alienated me?

The reason I m posting it here in this sub is because I asked this friend out several weeks ago (she didn't say yes). Mind you we aren't long time friends, we ve been friends for only like 3 months or so. I ve decided to stay friends with her,, My problem is since I asked her out we started butting heads more, we had two arguements that lead to her giving me the silent treatment twice. Now that she's back to being friends with me I still feel put off by the who ordeal, even though I m trying to hide it. I m wondering if it's best if I express my current sentiment to her, cause otherwise it just kinda feels disingenuous when I m joking around with her. Is it ever a good idea to tell someone they've alienated you.? Submitted January 05, 2022 at 01:58AM The reason I m posting it here in this sub is because I asked this friend out several weeks ago (she didn't say yes). Mind you we aren't long time friends, we ve been friends for only like 3 months or s...

How important is linking accounts on Tinder?

Title says most of it. Right now my profile does not have some info about me, like my Insta, Spotify, and political beliefs. I rarely use my Instagram, and have like 10 photos on in, none of me. My music taste is all over the board, so I have no idea what it would say. My political beliefs are unique (I am a libertarian), I do not belive that is an option. If I check conservative, I think it will lead to less matches. (Not really looking for anything long term, so I do not care what you believe). Any advice? 25 Male, swiping on the West Coast of the US. I have gold, considering platinum. Few matches, less good conversations. Submitted January 05, 2022 at 01:59AM Title says most of it.Right now my profile does not have some info about me, like my Insta, Spotify, and political beliefs.I rarely use my Instagram, and have like 10 photos on in, none of me.My music taste is all over the board, so I have no idea what it would say.My political beliefs are unique (I am a libertar...

How important is having similar opinions regarding this pandemic?

Politics aside, how important do you think it is to date someone with the same opinion as you during this pandemic? Ex: the risks/dangers of COVID, or differing opinions on mandates. Note: I'm not stating my opinion on the matter of the pandemic, nor am I asking for a discussion about it. I'm just asking if you would be able to date someone who has a different opinion to yours on the matter. I've been talking to this girl for a bit - very nice and independent, and we get along well. I'm just curious if this is worth pursuing or bound to fall apart at some point. Not sure if my interest in her is clouding my judgement when it comes to values. Submitted January 05, 2022 at 02:07AM Politics aside, how important do you think it is to date someone with the same opinion as you during this pandemic? Ex: the risks/dangers of COVID, or differing opinions on mandates. Note: I'm not stating my opinion on the matter of the pandemic, nor am I asking for a discussion abo...

I am starting to resent my fiancé

Everyday I find myself feeling more and more resentful of my fiancé. It's little things over the course of time that I have tried to discuss but they have never been fixed. My fiancé gets a horrible attitude when I say or do something he doesn't like, or if I simply respond in a way he finds rude, even if it's not rude. For example - I was on the phone with credit card companies and he asked me what I would rather have for dinner and I said I didn't care and I am not picky, and he rolled his eyes and went outside, but not without slamming the door so hard something fell off the wall. I am planning a trip to attend my best friends fathers funeral and he said "why would you do that" as if I needed an explanation for why I am attending a funeral. Another thing, kinda person, but it is what it is - I decided to get back on bc because I am not ready for kids and be questioned why I would do such a thing and said I should have discussed this decision with him even...

/u/Blewbe on Some time ago i was asked by some girls about why they had never seen me trying to flirt with anyone at parties. I just explained that i dont like the idea of making out/hooking up with extrangers. Some of them said something like "what a waste".

If I were to receive a comment like that today... shrug Not really my thing. Not all tall people like basketball. January 05, 2022 at 01:30AM

I have the biggest crush on my ex's friend

I broke up from my previous relationship in October: we were together for two years. For a while in the relationship, I hadn't been very happy and slowly, a crush formed: on the friend of my then boyfriend. I have not seen him since the summer but recently I ran into his profile on Tinder, and I haven't been able to get him out of my mind since. Is there any sense in having this crush and maybe contacting him and asking him out? Or am I forever out of limits for him and should just do my best to forget him? I am not sure whether he even thinks of me in that way, but we did always have great conversations. Submitted January 05, 2022 at 01:15AM I broke up from my previous relationship in October: we were together for two years. For a while in the relationship, I hadn't been very happy and slowly, a crush formed: on the friend of my then boyfriend. I have not seen him since the summer but recently I ran into his profile on Tinder, and I haven't been able to get hi...

/u/etholiel on Should I tell Grad Schools about Asexuality?

I would say go for it if you think you can write a good essay on it. A lot of those college essays aren't really about the topic itself, but how well you write, what you're passionate about, etc. January 05, 2022 at 12:39AM

/u/Mel_low8278 on My next door neighbour likes to finish the day off with a long p*rn session. He is also hearing impaired, so I can hear everything.

Oh- oh no January 05, 2022 at 12:37AM

Can I tell the girl I am going out with right now that my ex broke up because of miscarriage?

I am going out with a girl for a while, things are going great. She gonna visit me for dinner. Can I tell her that my ex broke up with me because she got miscarried before we seriously get into the relationship? Submitted January 05, 2022 at 12:14AM I am going out with a girl for a while, things are going great. She gonna visit me for dinner. Can I tell her that my ex broke up with me because she got miscarried before we seriously get into the relationship?

/u/jshlymn on What are some things that annoy you as an ace person?

God if I talk to one more allo lesbian about how I’m part of the oppression against her bc I’m straight passing I’m going to kill someone. Girls will be like “I read about this lesbian who went through electro-shock therapy so I get to call you slurs and other aphobic things and say you’re damaged” Aces do face oppression! And if I hear the term straight passing again I’m going to have a mental break. January 04, 2022 at 11:29PM