Hey everyone. I started dating and seeing a woman at my college in mid February. We had amazing dates and she was hot and heavy into me. Always texted, called and wanted to see me. She even met my family. She recently started a divorce process from her military husband. I didn’t care and continued seeing her. She then suddenly backed away and became cold. Didn’t want to kiss and see me anymore except to talk for a half hour in between class. She eventually told me she wanted to be alone and not want anything more than platonic and felt things were moving towards a relationship. I’m devastated. What should I do? Submitted April 08, 2023 at 01:14AM Hey everyone. I started dating and seeing a woman at my college in mid February. We had amazing dates and she was hot and heavy into me. Always texted, called and wanted to see me. She even met my family.She recently started a divorce process from her military husband. I didn’t care and continued seeing her.She then suddenly backed a...

i (22f) have reached a point where i feel that if i don't find someone soon, i probably never would. i know you all would say that i am so young and have a whole life ahead of me but due to some reasons that i am about to mention i may not have as much time. i come from a culture where you are expected to be married by a certain age and if you have not found a partner yourself, your parents would most likely arrange a marriage for you. second, i am almost in my senior year of college and I've almost never been approached by anyone and do not expect that to happen in near future too. now i wouldn't just be looking for someone because i want to dodge an arranged marriage, it's just that i know i can't live with someone who i do not share a connection with, or someone i love deeply. but it seems extremely difficult, almost impossible, to find someone. :/ Submitted April 08, 2023 at 01:15AM i (22f) have reached a point where i feel that if i don't find someo...

Thats a great thing to consider, I hadn't even thought of that :) April 07, 2023 at 11:42PM

The actual sex part April 07, 2023 at 11:39PM

So I’ve been on number of dating apps in a number of cities over the years, but I’m not sure how to approach my latest conundrum: Recently I’ve met a couple of guys from Hinge for first dates. One led to 3 dates, but otherwise I mostly get ghosted after 1. I’ve started just asking point blank if they want to hang out again. If they hesitate, I later ask them whether the hesitation meant they weren’t interested because it’s totally ok if so. (Complete with smiley faces and all. It’s less intense than I am making it sound.) They always say they aren’t interested, and I’ll follow up asking if I may know why (I don’t explain this part but I’m sick of not knowing why the sudden change of heart. I always speak to the guys for awhile before meeting and it goes from fun flirty messages to nothing.) The thing is, the response is always that there was “no spark.” Now, I don’t really believe in love at first sight, and I especially am aware that I’m a woman meeting a strange man alone. I’m po...

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