A couple of weeks ago I met a guy by chance on a night out. He was really pursuant and chatty and asking lots of questions, added me on insta and then Snapchat. We've been chatting on Snapchat ever since. He's doing a masters in a different country and will be coming back home at the end of January and wants to meet up. His family also live abroad and he spent Christmas with them, he's been snapchatting me the whole time but it felt quite inconspicuous, I mean I get you don't want to be on your phone the whole time you're with your family but a lot of the ones throughout the day have been like bathroom selfies and under the table selfies. I didn't make much of it at all in the beginning but he grew on me a bit down the line, I thought his curiosity was cute but I also put that down to the fact that I'm older and he's obviously intrigued and it could be a novelty for him (I'm 27 and he's 22). One thing I did notice on his insta are 2 pictures w

I'm 26 and heading back to school to get my Bachelors. I have my education visible on my dating profile and even mention 'returning to complete my Bachelors Degree' a few different times. I keep getting matched with really educated successful men and its INTIMIDATING AF. I have a small child who just started school and a job that payed decent so I didn't really prioritize returning to school until recently(I have more time now). The dates I've been on have gone well 🤷🏽‍♀️ Regardless, I'm curious.. how would you feel if you saw someone you were interested in but they had not yet completed a traditional degree or had a 'career' by mid 20s. Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:36PM I'm 26 and heading back to school to get my Bachelors. I have my education visible on my dating profile and even mention 'returning to complete my Bachelors Degree' a few different times. I keep getting matched with really educated successful men and its INTIMI

So this girl I was seeing for about 2 months texted me a few days after the last time we hung out. This was before the holidays and she said how she thought I was super sweet and liked me, but didn't want a serious relationship, and didn't want to string me along. I replied saying that I am happy to take things slow, and asked her if she wanted to still see me or if we should just move on, to which she said she wanted to still see me and hangout after the holidays. At first I was super happy about that, but ever since she said that I have been getting ghosted from her, sent her a text, no response, about a week later I send another small text and no response. So it is fair to see this is the end. But why did she do this? I clearly asked if she wanted to move on or not and she told me she wanted to hang out still, only to ghost me right after. I guess I am slightly annoyed, but more so confused than anything. Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:42PM So this girl I was seein

I (22m) am an IT student, so naturally I don't have many girls in my college. I was interested in one, but despite her being my type and going out a few times (not dates tho) chemistry between us was kinda on and off and I don't think she's interested, especially given that almost always I was the one initiating the conversation. I don't party much, and if I am it's mostly with guys, I'm kinda poor so most paid activities like dancing lessons aren't really available. Girls I have good contact with (from previous schools) are mostly in relationships, everyone advices me not to use dating apps. I don't really see many options here, or maybe I'm just blind. Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:43PM I (22m) am an IT student, so naturally I don't have many girls in my college. I was interested in one, but despite her being my type and going out a few times (not dates tho) chemistry between us was kinda on and off and I don't think she's i

Met this girl on a night out got her snapchat and we texted the next day for a bit. But I have no idea what next to text. Should i just go like "Honestly im horrible at texting want to meet up for drinks on *insert day here*" Also to note she's good friends with someone I work with so should I just ask her about what I should do? Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:49PM Met this girl on a night out got her snapchat and we texted the next day for a bit. But I have no idea what next to text. Should i just go like "Honestly im horrible at texting want to meet up for drinks on *insert day here*" Also to note she's good friends with someone I work with so should I just ask her about what I should do?

I (30M) was at a party last night a couple of friends were hosting at their apartment. This girl (29F) and I arrived coincidentally at the same time and had some small talk in the elevator before heading in to my friend's apartment. Once there I started greeting everyone and after 5 minutes I'm standing next to the same girl and she mentions how besides the host (whom she studied with) she didn't know anyone else at the party. I gave her my name and said playfully that now she knows at least one other person there. She smiled and gave me hers. She seemed pretty cool and we briefly talked, but after a minute or so, this other girl was saying hi to her, and I then noticed another friend whom I hadn't seen in about 10 years, so we talked a bit to catch up, thinking that I could mingle for a bit and then talk to this girl again in a bit. After our chat (around 10mins I'd say) I notice the girl I was previously talking to just left the party. She was gone. I asked my f

How do you start talking to the girl one likes out of the blue without being creepy or forward To me it seems that just saying hi is odd as u have no reason to talk to that person. Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:54PM How do you start talking to the girl one likes out of the blue without being creepy or forwardTo me it seems that just saying hi is odd as u have no reason to talk to that person.

Hi All, I'm seeking a dating and self improvement advice as I have been on the Single market for a while now and I'm planning on going back to dating again. Lately I have been thinking about my fashion sense and if I should change it. On a dress down days at work or when I go out with friends, I would usualy wear something like this ( Hoodie \ Hoodie \ T-Shirt \ T-Shirt + Jeans). As you have noticed from the examples above, I like very bright and colorful clothing. This types of clothes make me feel comfortable and confident as well as I think it highlights my personality, me being a very nerdy, introverted and shy 26 year old guy. 🤷‍♂️ 🤷‍♂️ I usually get a mixture of reactions from various people, for example: My manager at work: Please come in something darker/black to work on the dress down days. Co-Workers: This sh*t is so bright I'm going to become blind Close Friend: Nothing. Male Stranger: I am so amazed that you wear that, it has soo much pink on it.

I cant seem to get a date no matter what I do. I'm very antisocial and introverted so I've always imagined that's why. I haven't gone on even a date in 3 years. I had always thought that I had some very extroverted friends who would help me with that. But since then I joined the army and now I have no friends as i am now at my first duty station. I'll be out of the army in 3 years. I turn 21 in less than a month. I'm a male. Please don't recommend bars. Any advice is much appreciated! Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:58PM I cant seem to get a date no matter what I do. I'm very antisocial and introverted so I've always imagined that's why. I haven't gone on even a date in 3 years. I had always thought that I had some very extroverted friends who would help me with that. But since then I joined the army and now I have no friends as i am now at my first duty station. I'll be out of the army in 3 years. I turn 21 in less than a month.

My ex-bf broke up with me because he wanted to try online dating locally (he moved to another country after 1 year of being together physically and I never had a problem with long distance ) . Of course I let him go without a fuss. As much as I was devastated i didn't show it on his face as I didn't want him to feel guilty and retain my pride. I have moved on now. Not bitter or angry. In fact if anything I have learnt to be content on my own with help of wonderful family and supportive friends. But just out of curiosity, would u guys do the same as he did? Why and why not? Just want to understand in perspective for my own education. Be as honest as you want. I need to undertand this so that in future I know what to expect if ever i come across similar situation again. Submitted December 30, 2019 at 12:07AM My ex-bf broke up with me because he wanted to try online dating locally (he moved to another country after 1 year of being together physically and I never had a p

Hooked up with this girl a few times and I started to really like her, but she got back together with her ex when he asked her back two weeks ago. I felt crushed, and just told her to hit me up if she changes her mind. Since then she has posted pictures on Facebook with whom I believe to be her ex. I had started moving on as well, meeting new girls and hanging out with friends. Just today, she texted me in response to a Facebook story post about my lunch. Her pictures with her ex are still up. I don’t know how to take this initiative on her part. Is she available now for me to ask to meet up? Should I ignore the message? Maybe she just likes food? Any advice is appreciated. Submitted December 30, 2019 at 12:21AM Hooked up with this girl a few times and I started to really like her, but she got back together with her ex when he asked her back two weeks ago. I felt crushed, and just told her to hit me up if she changes her mind. Since then she has posted pictures on Facebook wit

Today I had a long discussion with my wife and after 2 hours, she conceded I was right. I am quite worried as this had never happened to me. Is this a trick? Submitted December 30, 2019 at 12:20AM Today I had a long discussion with my wife and after 2 hours, she conceded I was right. I am quite worried as this had never happened to me. Is this a trick?

Question is pretty much listed above. Bit of a background - I have been seeing someone I really like for almost a month now, but we haven't had the "exclusive talk" yet. I have only been on one date with another person after our first date, but quickly stopped checking apps/talking to other people. I haven't deleted my profile or apps yet, because, well, just in case we change the pace or he's not on the same page as me, which means that I still get notifications on my phone for when people like me. Last night, we spent the night together for the first time, and my phone was charging on his side of the bed. He had to turn off the alarm when it went off in the morning, and checked the time using my phone, etc. I asked him to pass my phone and I saw a couple of notifications from bumble/hinge for likes, etc. I am 100% sure he saw them, but didn't say anything. I felt really bad/guilty, because I really don't want him to think I'm still actively seeking

Okay so I'm talking to this girl and she just left me on read. We've been talking a lot for the past couple days and we weren't really conversing just sending pics back and forth on snapchat, which kind of makes sense why she may have rnr'd me. What I'm confused about is that she seemed really interested also, constantly sparking up conversation, asking how my day was etc. Now, I can see that she is active on snapchat but has left me on read for 3 hours. Do I be the person to snap her first or do I wait for her to message? I feel like this can go somewhere but her leaving me on read is giving me solid second thoughts. Any help is appreciated! Submitted December 29, 2019 at 11:43PM Okay so I'm talking to this girl and she just left me on read. We've been talking a lot for the past couple days and we weren't really conversing just sending pics back and forth on snapchat, which kind of makes sense why she may have rnr'd me. What I'm confused

For me, i’m just going to go out more and enjoy myself with or without friends because it seems like the more you try hard at dating whether it’s IRL or OLD, the less likely you are to get matches and go on actual dates. I’d rather just let the universe take the wheel and let everything fall into place. Now I know that’s more reactive versus proactive but at the same time you don’t want to be so focused and consumed on dating. Because let’s face it, OLD/IRL dating is fucking EXHAUSTING! I don’t care who had it easier or harder back in the day it just sucks in general. It’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack, I’m not saying it’s impossible to find your partner but it takes a toll on you. Too much swiping, too much of the same ON EVERY DATING PROFILE “make me laugh”, we’re not all circus seals and news flash some people aren’t all that funny...so try again... “must love dogs” like that’s a personality trait?! REALLY LADIES?! And my personal favorite, references from the office “

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