I often find after sex my putter vaginal lips quite itchy, it's not STI related. Has anyone experienced this? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:35AM I often find after sex my putter vaginal lips quite itchy, it's not STI related.Has anyone experienced this?

I’m (20F) pretty worried that my libido will be effected after getting an iud, as I have a pretty high sex drive and would like keep that. However, I’d like lighter periods and less cramping. So hormonal iud is my best option. Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:40AM I’m (20F) pretty worried that my libido will be effected after getting an iud, as I have a pretty high sex drive and would like keep that. However, I’d like lighter periods and less cramping. So hormonal iud is my best option.

I’m a 22 year old man in the northeastern US. I’m rather new to dating, and the experiences I’ve had in the past were quite unique and unusual as I later discovered. Im now dating a new woman. We’ve gone on a couple dates that went alright. On the second, I decided to initiate some light physicality, since she wasn’t initiating. I figured she wanted me to make the first move. We held hands for a while, then I asked if she wanted to kiss in my car, and she said no. I left it there. This woman is not very forthcoming about physical intimacy, where the women I’ve dated in the past were very forward. My question is whether most women prefer to be passive and let the man initiate physicality? Do they want intimacy to happen to them, as opposed to making it happen themselves? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:43AM I’m a 22 year old man in the northeastern US.I’m rather new to dating, and the experiences I’ve had in the past were quite unique and unusual as I later discovered.Im n...

M(46), Perhaps I'm thinking about this the wrong way... I'm currently in a relationship and really everything is fine but I curious if... Is it just guys or are there some women that fantasize about "porn" sex? For 8nstamce, never in my life have I been deepthroated. I have a variety of fantasies but, I've never asked a partner to experiment in that way. Im nervous it may cause issues... I think for me I work to proactively please my partner thinking I'd get the same on return. I've never actually run into a female who was exceptional at oral sex, really enjoyed it, almost wriley smiling knowing what she can do, and really seems to love experimenting... Of course I'd want to know what she would like so I can be a part of her fantasies but she doesn't bring it up either. Sex is always the same, it does feel good but just curious if females have similar fantasies? Do females generally seek to fulfill your guys fantasies and if you do or don...

I’ve been texting for about 3-4 weeks with a guy I met on Bumble. He was initiating almost all conversations and repeatedly mentioned he wanted to meet me. He lives about an hour north of me and due to “circumstances” we haven’t been able to easily drive to each other’s towns. However he also hasn’t directly requested a date, just said things like “we need to meet!” and “I wish you lived closer!!!”. After about 2 weeks of texting daily the frequency SUDDENLY dropped. I don’t think anything I said threw him off, we had actually had a very fun conversation just before he stopped texting often. So in a few weeks I have a chance to drive north to his town. I have mentioned this to him and he seems happy to meet me. But the enthusiasm level never really came back up after the sudden drop off. TLDR My question is: does it seem I am chasing him if I come to his town, instead of him making more effort ? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:56PM I’ve been texting for about 3-4 weeks with...

I've (23M) never had a girlfriend. Haven't dated , haven't had an close , intimate relationship. I've been always nitpicking different attributes of girls that I like and crossing them off my mind rather than actually trying to work something out. Now it has come to the point that I've realized that I need a girl in my life. It's not social pressure but rather self realization. But I'm confused as to how I should start. Even though there are plenty of pretty single girls in campus, I don't know how I could get to start a decent conversation and get to know that person closely. Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:57PM I've (23M) never had a girlfriend. Haven't dated , haven't had an close , intimate relationship. I've been always nitpicking different attributes of girls that I like and crossing them off my mind rather than actually trying to work something out. Now it has come to the point that I've realized that I need a girl in ...

Uhhh embarrassing to post this but here it goes. 24 year old male and of course kissless virgin, not only kissless, hugless and handheldless. My interactions with women can be described as basically no interaction my whole life and completely zero after 18 (no friends who are girls, yep, zero). I am wondering how to fix this. I have zero confidence. I used to be super obese until 20, and now I’m still not in shape. I’m working out hard but my body is a slow responder so it will take some time to get into really good shape, where I hope my confidence is better. But for those in similar situations (if this is even common), what are some things I can do to fix this? It’s only going to get harder from here I feel. Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:01AM Uhhh embarrassing to post this but here it goes.24 year old male and of course kissless virgin, not only kissless, hugless and handheldless.My interactions with women can be described as basically no interaction my whole life and ...

So I know this girl at my job for the last twoyears we have been talking everyday and ever since the pandemic I stopped talking to her I don't know what happened to her 5 months ago I found her on Facebook then I sent her a friend request on social media and she didn't reply back to me and I message her again and she just blocked me on Facebook I know who she is we have been talking for the last 2years I don't know why she didn't add me on Facebook all this time but I added her and she never added me back and she blocked me could this be the reason why she didn't want to add me on Facebook is because she's too embarrassed to add me she kind of beautiful that she has blond hair hair blue eyes and I try to add her on Facebook and I sent her a message and she then she blocked me like I know who she is and I know everything about her she has been my coworker for the last 2 years we have been working in a small shoe shop but we were both laid off  she even changed h...

So I (23F) have a best friend (26M) of a few years. Up until now we have been strictly platonic despite the fact that every one of our friends, even his parents, thought we were dating or that we like each other and will end up together eventually. The fact that we are such good friends has gotten in the way of our past relationships as well, but we have always insisted that we are not going to stop being friends because of someone else. He has made comments that we are going to end up together eventually or that he likes me on numerous occasions for the past few years. Because of my past experiences and fear of commitment, I have always joked about it with him but deep down, I knew that I like him a lot, and I would eventually feel ready to pursue him. I have firmly believed that we are endgame and will find our ways to each other and that he feels the same. Long story short, the time has come and we have kissed and started seeing each other or so I thought. It felt really good and...

Hey so I met this guy in instagram around the middle of September and we hit it off pretty well from the get go. We exchanged numbers and started chatting there. He asked me out on a date after talking for 2 weeks so this is the end of September at this point. Everything went nice. We went on a another date in October and that went even better than the first one. We had sex on that one after that, things started to spiral. He kept pressuring me to go to his house and every single time that we have met up, I’ve gone to see him. He has never came to see me. We live about 45 minutes from each other so not so bad but I feel like I’m putting in too much effort when he isn’t trying. It was just weird because last couple of times that I came, we did seem to bicker and I get there will be disagreements but I just think it’s kinda weird he keeps inviting me over to his mom’s house because all we ever do is have sex and then I am just sitting on his bed bored because he plays video games which...

It’s ok. There ARE people who will love you. Are you sex repulsed? If you’re not just cause you’re ace doesn’t mean you can’t, but you can say you don’t want too it’s your choice of course. November 13, 2021 at 11:35PM

This is super relatable November 13, 2021 at 11:32PM

Ikr. I always imagined if there was a real life 'purge' that the vast majority of us would just have a normal day, but maybe with more weed or something. It's a little scary how many people think that the moment there's no laws we would all be raping and killing, like the threat of jail time is the only reason they aren't yeeting babies out of windows right now. November 13, 2021 at 11:32PM

Same. Too bad humans didn't actually reproduce asexually as an option. But then there might be an even worse population problem so nvm. November 13, 2021 at 11:32PM

Sorry, this is probably not the right place to ask. What if I'm the opposite? I find women very attractive, but the idea of sex disgusts me (also, this might be bc I'm still quite young, 16, to be specific) November 13, 2021 at 11:29PM

I’m a 20 y/o male, and I just bought a 3 pill 60 mg sildenafil prescription off roman. I need it because I can’t maintain an erection without constant stimulation. Anyway, I was wondering how much I should take for the first time I’m thinking just one tablet of 20 mg will get the job done as I only weight about 120 pounds. Any comments or anecdotes would be greatly appreciated! Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:36PM I’m a 20 y/o male, and I just bought a 3 pill 60 mg sildenafil prescription off roman. I need it because I can’t maintain an erection without constant stimulation.Anyway, I was wondering how much I should take for the first time I’m thinking just one tablet of 20 mg will get the job done as I only weight about 120 pounds. Any comments or anecdotes would be greatly appreciated!

Hi, first time posting... I need to talk through my first experience with consensual non-consent with anyone willing, because I feel confused. I think that is allowed by the rules, mostly I need advice on how to figure out how I feel about what I just experienced. I [25F] and my fwb [33M] have long been discussing BDSM practices, and we've enjoyed all of them so far. Last night, I brought up CNC and told him I wanted him to overtake me and to struggle under his weight, and he told me to pick a safeword. I went with "enough" and stressed that I didn't want him to stop if I said, well, "stop", "no" or "let go". However, he told me to pick a non-sexual word for it, so we went with "red". After that, he completely overpowered me and I could not break loose from his grasp. I struggled, squirmed, said "no", "stop", "let go", "enough" (this having been ruled out as a safeword). He told me to s...

I am (30, m) recently married to my wife (23, f).. she was vergin when we married five months ago.. for the first month she was still getting used to sex.. after that, she stated to love it.. the sex at this time was so good and we used to come together (not at the same time of course).. but I used to be able to make her cum either before or after me ... However, lately she became more thirsty for sex and she wants longer sessions... I did everything I could, candles, music, foreplay, oral fingers and still she wants more.. Normally, we have sex 2 hours every other day, yet now I cannot make her cum... What am I doing wrong here? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:53PM I am (30, m) recently married to my wife (23, f).. she was vergin when we married five months ago.. for the first month she was still getting used to sex.. after that, she stated to love it.. the sex at this time was so good and we used to come together (not at the same time of course).. but I used to be able to ma...

I'm not into drama but this pissed me off. As with everything, there is a back story.... mainly me bending over backwards (not a pun, I swear) to help him successfully overcome death grip syndrome and a suspected porn addiction. This issue of his still limits our sex life to a decent degree and requires a looot of determined, sustained oral from me in order for him to cum but that's not something I mind, generally. So anyhoo, after a typical evening of sex antics the convo turns to masturbation. I ask what he thinks about to get off. He says Brandi and Alexis (two pornstars he's talked a lot about). I laugh a little uneasily and say, "and me sometimes too, right?" No, he clarifies, just them. I'm irrationally annoyed and I don't know why. I mean, more backstory is that he has the habit of saying fairly unkind &/or mean things to me here and there and I've told him to fucking knock it off. And honestly, a human does has the right to fantasize abo...

Over the past couple of weeks ive been watching this one video on PH (i promise im not addicted to porn itself, its this one video). The video is basically this guy rubbing himself and dry humping on a girl in jeans and he cums between her thighs. Ive been masturbating to this and have lost count of the amount of times ive cum to it. Now im worried i wont be turned on by anything else :/ Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:58PM Over the past couple of weeks ive been watching this one video on PH (i promise im not addicted to porn itself, its this one video). The video is basically this guy rubbing himself and dry humping on a girl in jeans and he cums between her thighs. Ive been masturbating to this and have lost count of the amount of times ive cum to it. Now im worried i wont be turned on by anything else :/