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She dating other guy but Slept with Me

Hi Guys , firstly English isn’t my Mother Language so forgive my many mistakes . Long story short Me(32M) dated twice with her ( 26F) about 2 months ago. I had some problems with my family in my country , and I was dealing with the possibility to get back to my country or stay here and start a relationship with her , for 3 weeks I ghosted her ( stopped to communicate) because I was very sad with this situation and I didn’t have courage to tell her my problems . So this week we started to text again and we set another Date , I invite her to go to movie theater and she endly agreed to watch movie in my house. We had an excellent night ( sex , conversation , laughs) . Next day I invite her to go to a concert that will happen in two weeks , she told me “ I won’t lie to you , but I’m dating another guy for a month ) and yes I notice that she was posting some stories on IG in fancy restaurants but never showed him . Now she told me that she is excited with this new dude and want to try work...

I suck at reading women and need help

Hello, so I will be vague due to unsure if the girl has reddit. So I am in a college class to get a certification to work in medical field. And I have been doing my own thing. But there is this really cute girl who is my classmate. Now even as adults we make assumptions. Now a few people in our class get along better with others. Now this girl usually talks to this 1 guy a lot well we thought they were dating. Well recently me and that girl have been talking more while in class and on breaks. A lot seems really innocent really but like today she was chatting and blushing and joking. One thing I do is tease and say how cute her handwriting is as its really tiny. Well today she would constantly look back and show me her notes and I made normal comments. Well after my comments she wrote a tiny bit bigger and said something like "see I can write bigger" we exchanged our laughs and focused on class. During our break we saw the snow. So we just went outside and enjoyed it teased ...

Is it appropriate to message someone who's number you got in a group chat? (I know her well, we get along greatly but i didn't ask her number directly)

So full disclosure, we know each other from a hobby group and we get along well but i never directly asked her number. I only know her number because the hobby group created a group text. So it's not like i'm a stranger, i just didn't ask her number myself. Would it be weird if i message her privately? We have common interests and she seems very comfortable talking to me. She was kind of shy at first to everyone but she opens up to me a good bit. Submitted October 29, 2023 at 12:04AM So full disclosure, we know each other from a hobby group and we get along well but i never directly asked her number. I only know her number because the hobby group created a group text. So it's not like i'm a stranger, i just didn't ask her number myself. Would it be weird if i message her privately?We have common interests and she seems very comfortable talking to me. She was kind of shy at first to everyone but she opens up to me a good bit.

Date meets girls from his country and ignores me

Hey, I had a somewhat weird second date. We were sitting in the restaurant and nicely chatting, then 2 young girls with 2 babies come and sit on the neighbour table. I was telling some story and suddenly my date turns to these girls and starts speaking his mother tongue. And they do so for several minutes, completely excluding me. I was not knowing what to do, where to look, super confused. Then after a long time as it seemed tells me, they are diplomants and blabla. Then later these girls are about to leave and he starts again all of the sudden speaking with one of them for a couple of minutes and !takes her phone number! I look completely confused at him and he tells me he wants to send her information about some event for their country people in our city. After my shock the date continued nicely actually but now I am reviewing it and I don't knooow what to think. It was disrespectful in my opinion, should I tell him this? But don't want to sound jealous and needy. Need yo...