I'm confused. These past few months we've been flirtatiously joking around with each other over text but lately it's been getting very sexual, it's like we're sexting by now. We talk about the things we want to do to each other (sexual things) and he jokes around about how "hard" he gets thinking about me. We don't like each other in the romantic way, (I know that because he tells me), I don't like him romantically either, I just kind of crave him for sex. But, when I ask him if he's joking or not, he says he is, and that he isn't ready to do "it" yet. When he asks if I'm joking, I say I am (though I'm not), and he's like "good, I don't want it to seem like I'm leading you on". It's confusing, he makes it seem so real when we are sexting, but then he says things like that. Your opinion would be appreciated, thank you! Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:51AM I'm confused. These past few mon...

I’m 22 years old and I lost my vaginal virginity at 20 years old . Despite me having several sexual partners (6)my boyfriends take at least minimum 2 weeks for their penis to be fully put in and after that I feel absolutely no pleasure just pain .My bf had a 6-7inch penis and I went to the hospital .I literally get so Much pleasure from oral sex , clit on penis , Foreplay and footjob/boobjob .I get really wet so I’m physically and mentally turned on . I try to overcompensate by giving blowjobs all the time and great Foreplay (Ive been giving blowjobs since I was 14) but most men at the end of the day want PIV.My boyfriend literally cheated on me because I couldn’t give him what he wanted I’m 5’9.5,129 lbs .Idk what I can do to open up my vagina .Despite being huge Physically I can’t even take dick .It’s painful emotionally that I can’t satisfy my partners Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:53AM I’m 22 years old and I lost my vaginal virginity at 20 years old . Despite me having sever...

Hi, My current boyfriend has been my close friend for over a year and I’ve had a huge crush on him for most of that time. We recently started dating (like a week ago.) He was a virgin (no sexual experience of any kind, not even hand stuff, oral etc.) He’s 24 and he has never been in a relationship. The way things started was also kind of messy and sporadic because he was dealing with grappling with his feelings for me and the newness of sex and dating. Now we’re dating and he’s gotten past his initial nervousness with sex and now he can’t keep his hands off me. I have a very high sex drive and I never thought too much sex would ever be a problem for me, but I’m having trouble being into all of our sexual experiences. Like he wants to make me orgasm multiple times every time we have sex (which can be many times in a day), so I end up cumming like 4-6 times a day when I see him. I know that sounds amazing but it’s been tiring me out and I’m not always wanting to have sex or orgas...

please don't judge me I made a terrible mistake and it's so gross immediately after posting this I am going to go become a celibate monk somewhere so what happened is I was going at my vagina (ftm, jsyk) with a dildo and I switched to my mouth because haha whatever people do this all the time right but ughhhh I felt a couple of particles of something and I spit them out and it was pretty evident that it was from my ass but I swallowed a few times after they were out and before I figured out what they were. I washed my hands and I brushed my teeth and I used mouthwash like thrice and I don't think I'll ever eat food again but I have no idea what to do and I'm kind of panicking. I can't tell anyone about this especially not a doctor and I just urrhhhghhh. it's probably too late for anyone to do anything anyways but I just have no idea how worried I should be and I was curious if anyone had this happen to them before :( Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:58AM ...

So men are generally more turned on by visual stuff than women, and as a man I can affirm this. I know that the vast majority of men would be super turned on by watching their gf masturbate, but in general is it the same for women? Do you like watching your guy jerk off? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 01:02AM So men are generally more turned on by visual stuff than women, and as a man I can affirm this. I know that the vast majority of men would be super turned on by watching their gf masturbate, but in general is it the same for women? Do you like watching your guy jerk off?

Now I’m not super proud to admit this but sometimes I edge for a couple hours, just to see how long I can go. Anywhere from like an hour to like 5. I get blueballs from it but nothing too awful, should I stop doing this? I only do it occasionally, like 1-3 times a month? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 01:15AM Now I’m not super proud to admit this but sometimes I edge for a couple hours, just to see how long I can go. Anywhere from like an hour to like 5. I get blueballs from it but nothing too awful, should I stop doing this? I only do it occasionally, like 1-3 times a month?

I had a few couples ask me to join for a threesome but I’m so nervous !!! Being a third wheel has never been my mo but it seems interesting. I just don’t know how it goes or even if it’s fun. Have you ever had one ? How was it ? Would you do it again ? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 01:17AM I had a few couples ask me to join for a threesome but I’m so nervous !!! Being a third wheel has never been my mo but it seems interesting. I just don’t know how it goes or even if it’s fun. Have you ever had one ? How was it ? Would you do it again ?

I have been on a tare lately....my roommate has been out of town so that means I can have extra loud sex. I fuck as a hobby, and usually don't host because thin walls and I don't want my roommate to know what a slut I am. She's been gone five days and I've had 7 men over. I had a second round with a sexy younger guy tonight. He's been trying to bag me for years so I finally let him a few nights ago after a super disappointing date with a potential daddy. I invited him over and the sex wasn't phenomenal. I fucked a few guys (and a couple!!) in the days after, but decided I wanted to suck him off tonight because I was craving cock after I'd had some drinks. Plus He's got a sexy beard and it feels so great up against my pussy. He doesn't have a huge cock or anything but he's got stamina and is obsessed with going down. I made him use a glass dildo tonight while he licked my clit and definitely squirted all over his face and made him feel good abo...

I have a 4.3 inch girth but my length is 6.5 obviously girth matters more to the ladies :( Should i just stop having sex? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 01:24AM I have a 4.3 inch girth but my length is 6.5 obviously girth matters more to the ladies :(Should i just stop having sex?

So, since her parents are out of town and they need her to look after the cat(elderly, needs medicine) and dog(anxious, very loud) I’m actually staying there instead of the Airbnb I planned on. Actual questions: she can get pretty loud, and we’ve never had to deal with the possibility of neighbors hearing. I don’t want to force her to be quiet. Secondly, how do you guys deal with pets that want to intrude? Just close the door and deal with the barking? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 01:27AM So, since her parents are out of town and they need her to look after the cat(elderly, needs medicine) and dog(anxious, very loud) I’m actually staying there instead of the Airbnb I planned on.Actual questions: she can get pretty loud, and we’ve never had to deal with the possibility of neighbors hearing. I don’t want to force her to be quiet.Secondly, how do you guys deal with pets that want to intrude? Just close the door and deal with the barking?

So what made it special? What was the occasion? What was it you enjoyed a out it? Look forward to hear what people say. Submitted July 10, 2021 at 11:32PM So what made it special? What was the occasion? What was it you enjoyed a out it?Look forward to hear what people say.

I'm only attracted to pre-op transgendered women and have done for many years. Having experiences with both cis women and pre-op transgendered women, the difference in attraction is quite massive. Even being in relationships with cis women, I realised after my last break-up that they are not my preference. For whatever reason, my brain is wired to like transgendered women who have a penis; and that's okay. Children isn't an issue for me, as I'd rather adopt in the future anyway, so long-term relationships is something I am happy with. The problem and my frustration? This is such a specific attraction, and there are so few around. Dating is near impossible, which makes sense and pre-op transgendered women take up a small amount of the population. Especially those who want to keep their penises. Has anyone else had this experience? What can I do aside from biding my time and waiting for the right person to come along? Submitted July 10, 2021 at 11:35PM I'm o...

This is a throw away for obvious reasons. I know some people might think it’s a dumb question but I’m worried. We were kissing and things got a bit more heated but nothing that lead to sex (actual intercourse). If we were dry humping where my clothes were on (trousers and underwear) but he had his underwear on, could I be pregnant? The bed was a little bit wet and he went for a shower afterwards. Should I take emergency contraception? Submitted July 10, 2021 at 11:36PM This is a throw away for obvious reasons. I know some people might think it’s a dumb question but I’m worried.We were kissing and things got a bit more heated but nothing that lead to sex (actual intercourse).If we were dry humping where my clothes were on (trousers and underwear) but he had his underwear on, could I be pregnant? The bed was a little bit wet and he went for a shower afterwards. Should I take emergency contraception?

I (30 F) have been dating my BF (32 M) for a year and a half now. At the start of our relationship, everything was exciting and fun (per usual). The only trouble for me is that our sex life is dwindling a lot. Before we became official, we’d had so much sex. 4xs a week maybe 3xs a day. I know, it sounds excessive, but it was fun (also during a pandemic). He’s a great man, respectful and does everything to make me happy. The only thing that lacks now is our sex life. We can go weeks without having sex, and when we do, it’s only once. Not only are we only having sex once a week, it gets very repetitive. It’s always the same routine of positions. It’s come to the point where we need to include a vibrator Bc I won’t climax without it. I’m afraid to bring it up to him Bc he gets really hurt to hear he’s not satisfying me. Then he’ll try to have sex even when he’s not in the mood. Which, I don’t like either because it makes me feel like a predator. So I’m left not initiating sex anymore. Wh...

He’s got this baby face and floppy hair and you just want to pat him on the head or put him in your pocket and take him home! But his personality/vibe is the complete opposite! He’ll just walk straight up to a group of women, sit down and start chatting to them, but not in a cheesy, try-hard, pickup artist kind of way. He’s confident, charming and an absolute gentleman, with a wicked sense of humor, who just loves the company of women. So I went home with him and he’s incredible in bed! Passionate but loving and attentive! I asked him, “Has anyone ever told you that you look way more wholesome than you are?” He said, “Yeah, I get that all the time!” I said, “Have you ever thought about giving yourself a trendier look, to match your personality?” He said, “This look seems to be working for me.” I was like, “He’s got a point!” I’m so confused! What sorcery is this? Ladies (and perhaps guys) can you give me some clarity on these sorts of mixed vibes? Can you relate? Submitted...

Hello Reddit you might not know me but I am Scrginger. I have been active 7/365 for the past year and a half and I love all the amazing communities here. Before I get into this speech I have I would like to give a bit of background to this situation. When I first joined Reddit I was a stupid 14 year old fool who was just interested in doing something not boring. One of the first posts I read was a meme of a guy losing his virginity and deleting Reddit. I did not understand it at the time but now I think I get it. So I made a vow. When I would get a gf and lose my virginity then I would never use Reddit again. At the time I knew I would never get a gf so I was happy that I could enjoy Reddit for the rest of eternity. 1 year and a half later I have successfully established a relationship with a girl I really like and we both know what’s next on the menu. So, 2 days ago after I got off a call with her, it occurred to me that I promised myself to delete Reddit if the things that are happe...

PREFACE: This happened in the past and I just want people's thoughts, and how to deal with something like it next time. Also it was both of our first and my still only real relationship. Also don't really know where else to post, can't post on RA or AITA. Just looking for how to approach/deal a similar situation if it happens again in the future. If it was just an unfortunate circumstances of two people not being compatible (ie one wants to have kids another doesn't) then whatever, but if its the latter and I'M the problem/jerk/asshole then I need to sort my stuff out because that's going to follow me wherever. Basically when I (22M) got with my girlfriends (22F) we didn't have PIV sex for a while. Because she wanted to be on the pill when we had sex, and then because of circumstances and timing she wasn't able to get an appointment for 2ish months; in that time we basically just stuck to oral. Once she got on birth control she still insisted on using ...

A fucked up generation wherein it searches porn in mainstream movies/series and a storyline in porn which I guess is negatively affecting sex lives. Latest example is of a series 'Sex/Life' on Netflix. Submitted July 10, 2021 at 11:55PM A fucked up generation wherein it searches porn in mainstream movies/series and a storyline in porn which I guess is negatively affecting sex lives.Latest example is of a series 'Sex/Life' on Netflix.

I am taking slynd (drospirenone only pills) and the pill from day 21 got wet and dissipated. I have to take the pill in one hour. Can I go now and buy another package from the same brand and take the pill from day 21 and continue normally? Or what should I do? Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:05AM I am taking slynd (drospirenone only pills) and the pill from day 21 got wet and dissipated. I have to take the pill in one hour. Can I go now and buy another package from the same brand and take the pill from day 21 and continue normally? Or what should I do?

sometimes i’ll squirt when i orgasm, i always squirt a little when i masturbate with a faucet and i’ll squirt with a vibrator sometimes too. when my boyfriend fingers me and eats me out i always feel like i’m gonna squirt but never do. i wanna know if there’s a way to squirt every time when i masturbate and when i’m with my boyfriend. i think i may have mental blocks especially when doing things with my boyfriend (due to insecurities and my irrational fear of being pleasured too long/him getting bored) Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:05AM sometimes i’ll squirt when i orgasm, i always squirt a little when i masturbate with a faucet and i’ll squirt with a vibrator sometimes too. when my boyfriend fingers me and eats me out i always feel like i’m gonna squirt but never do. i wanna know if there’s a way to squirt every time when i masturbate and when i’m with my boyfriend. i think i may have mental blocks especially when doing things with my boyfriend (due to insecurities and my irrat...

I have been through several apps, seeking arrangement, Tinder, Sugar Daddy meet. None have been really good. The last two seem to pull in likes from everywhere-not the radius I put in I travel a bit and want to have my desire seen in the regional area I am in. Not all over the country Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:10AM I have been through several apps, seeking arrangement, Tinder, Sugar Daddy meet. None have been really good.The last two seem to pull in likes from everywhere-not the radius I put in I travel a bit and want to have my desire seen in the regional area I am in. Not all over the country

The past few months I feel like getting hard isn’t the same. I still can but porn for example isn’t the same, and it doesn’t turn me on as much as it used to. I feel like if I get the opportunity to have sex with a girl I might not get hard. I can with porn but lately it takes a little more effort and/or I only get 90% hard. Also the fact that I’m a virgin makes it worse lol as I’m already going to be nervous Submitted July 11, 2021 at 12:16AM The past few months I feel like getting hard isn’t the same. I still can but porn for example isn’t the same, and it doesn’t turn me on as much as it used to. I feel like if I get the opportunity to have sex with a girl I might not get hard. I can with porn but lately it takes a little more effort and/or I only get 90% hard. Also the fact that I’m a virgin makes it worse lol as I’m already going to be nervous

To give you a bit of background, my partner refused to let me go down on her at first, but over time she relaxed and let me do it. Just for a little while at first, but then it got to the point where she would let me use fingers and mouth down there for hours at a time. I started getting more adventurous as she relaxed, and started hitting her g spot, which she loved. One night I decided to try three fingers. She jumped a bit, and I apologised, asked if it was ok but she said yes so I slowed down and kept going. She seemed to be enjoying it but then after a little while asked me to go back to two. We finished having sex, she had a few orgasms and everything seemed fine. The next day she complained of her uterus hurting, and the pain lasted several days. She even said that she wet herself a few times because she didn't realise she needed to pee. I've searched and searched, but I can't find anywhere that warns about this as a side effect from fingering. I've done simila...