Being aroace, you are probably happy hanging out with friends. Which is fine. If you lurk the db sub, allosexuals can have lots of problems when sexual libidos don't match. Causes all sorts of anxiety, depression, and malaise. I'm wish my libido was as low as my spouse. So I would have more time to focus on other things. February 21, 2021 at 12:01AM

I haven't put much thought into whether I'm sex repulsed, neutral or favourable. Guess I'll figure it out if I get a partner which is going to be difficult as I am both asexual and aromantic 😂 February 20, 2021 at 11:59PM

Because people think heterosexual is by default. So everything outside that it's not normal. Obviously this is wrong because everyone should explore their sexuality and theyr feelings at the age they prefer. Hope things will go better with your dad. February 20, 2021 at 11:58PM

Interesting. So you are sex favorable then? February 20, 2021 at 11:52PM

Yes. I don't think it's possible to not experience aesthetic attraction unless you are born without actual emotion, considering it has nothing to do with anything in specific. Aesthetic attraction is basically just "what looks good to the eye", and it's not really limited to people. Fashion is aesthetics. Color schemes are aesthetic. Patterns, textures, geometry, the shape of someone's face, hair, it's all aesthetic. Sexual attraction is to aesthetic attraction what scoville tolerance is to the concept of taste itself. February 20, 2021 at 11:39PM

that is the perfect choice! February 20, 2021 at 11:39PM

Huh okay yeah that makes sense. I hug my friends, after all. But what about kissing? I've never done it, so i wouldn't know how it feels, but it seems like a kind of grey area between platonic and sexual touch. I'm not quite sure how i feel about it yet but for sure more positively than i do about the idea of actual sex. February 20, 2021 at 11:36PM

Okay, great! Thanks for understanding. I’ll make sure to keep that in mind while writing. February 20, 2021 at 11:34PM

That's how I did the test initially February 20, 2021 at 11:30PM

It is OK. An asexual character can be resistant to flirting, or indifferent. Sex and physical intmacy can range, but it tends to be indifferent and wanting to please their partners. Asexuals can still accept romantic advances or be sex positive and cooperate with their partners, but won't seek out anything on their own. Some asexuals are sex repulsed, but that isn't all. Asexuals in relationships tend to seek compromise even if that makes them unhappy and resentful of their partners. February 20, 2021 at 11:28PM

Yes of course, welcome to our club everyone here is beyond nice and already loves you February 20, 2021 at 11:27PM

My LGBT friends (most of my friends) once tried to work out if the straight people in the group would be a top or a bottom when they got to me they didn't really get the vibes of either. In other news I should of learnt I was ace sooner than I did. February 20, 2021 at 11:27PM

yeah there are ace gate keepers are the worst, I had someone tell me that I couldn't be ace because I had been assaulted before. Their logic is truly baffling. February 20, 2021 at 11:25PM

staring intensity at people's right hands February 20, 2021 at 11:23PM

Wanting to cuddle and hug isn't sexual. I firmly believe in platonic closeness. A hug simply feels great. February 20, 2021 at 11:23PM

I knew a greyace would be better at describing sexual attraction than any allo LMAO. I actually understand this February 20, 2021 at 11:23PM

yeah, that sounds terrifying! You're walking along and then WAM sudden roller coaster drop? February 20, 2021 at 11:21PM

Awwww that poor succubus. She didn’t even do anything but walk near them. Now I want to give her a hug and give the knights the finger. February 20, 2021 at 11:20PM

will do! thanks! February 20, 2021 at 11:20PM

It's so true and so painful. when I first googled "א-מיניות" (Asexuality in hebrew) the first google search was "TREATMENT for curing Asexuality", and I got into way too much panic. February 20, 2021 at 11:18PM

Isn't it? I guess i assumed it would be connected since it's both sort of physical February 20, 2021 at 11:14PM

I don't understand that reference. February 20, 2021 at 11:10PM

Nice February 20, 2021 at 11:07PM