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It’s been only a month and 3 weeks I have feelings for him

It’s been a month we have been talking. We haven’t spoken on the phone. But we send voice messages to each other. Before you say you can’t like him or have feelings for him when you haven’t seen him. This started when the lockdown started so I couldn’t meet him. Plus I’m Muslim, he knows that, he respects that. I told him I won’t have sex with him. Which is why I’m confused as to why he is sticking around. I know I’m Muslim, and why wondering why would I want to be in a Relationship but won’t have sex or give heads. I’m 20 years old female, who has only been kissed twice, and never been a relationship. And after I finish university then I’m going to get job for few years then get married and have kids that’s my life. So why I’m doing this with him, I want to experience what a relationship is like before I settle down for one guy and have no experience. He knows what I won’t do, and I find it hard to believe he’s willing to wait for me until I do want to do it. Don’t judge me,...

She tells me how much she paid for gifts that she gives me.

She (26) and I (38) have been kinda together for several months. We have a number of common interests. I don't know why I'm going to say this, but she makes more money than I do (about $20,000 more). We're both frugal. She more so than I, and to the point where she borders upon being cheap. She has this habit...every time...when she gives me a gift, that she'll tell me how much she paid for it, oftentimes before I even receive it. A recent variation upon that is something she designed, and she told me how much time she put into it (and that she paid extra for faster shipping to have it executed by a company). I have made very general statements to her that I got a "good deal" on something that is a common interest and which she'll probably have the idea as to its cost. More often, I've said nothing about cost. If I wanted to get into a pissing contest with her about gifts and their cost, well that would be interesting if I did... Has anyone else dat...

The alpha Chad always wins, this video sucked btw

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This is her buisness insta for music. Normally a friend manages the messages, but given the virus, she's trying to be closer to her fans. This is one of the more confusing messages she got. I'm terrible at editing btw

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cue joker music

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Not me, but a friend. Guy keeps disrespecting her choice to not talk.

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While it is easy to blame someone else for your terrible personality, it isn’t accurate

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I want to get married and have kids within the next 2 years [F]

I'm in my early 30's and I want kids and I know that there is a limited time left for me to have kids healthily. How can I best go about navigating this so that I can date a great guy, get engaged and married, and have children in a healthy marriage while this pandemic is going on? I have to be mindful of the timelines as I am in my early 30s already Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:48PM I'm in my early 30's and I want kids and I know that there is a limited time left for me to have kids healthily.How can I best go about navigating this so that I can date a great guy, get engaged and married, and have children in a healthy marriage while this pandemic is going on? I have to be mindful of the timelines as I am in my early 30s already

How do I know if a guy from work is into me?

Okay, so, I had a few signposts in mind myself and having passed them I'm still no clearer. There's a guy that works in the same company as me, I'm new, like 7 weeks new, and I'm based on a different site. I went to his site for a couple of day, and I do remember meeting him, and also thinking he was interesting (from what I could tell). But I was also meeting a lot of people and I don't know if he particularly remembers me, as in, me in person. He and I use the same system which only allows 2 people into it at once, and some time when I first logged into it he was using it and the owner of the system told me to kick him out and I could use it. I did, and then emailed him "sorry!" And then somehow from there, over the course of a few of weeks, we talked more and more and more and now we're texting all of the time and, by text at least, are very open and honest with each other about a lot of hard things, some or which I have only ever told complete ...

Pain when doing oral with TMJ

So this is my first post to this community and I'm on my mobile so it might not be formatted amazingly. I have TMJ (Temporomandibular Joint Disorder) and this largely affects the right side of my jaw. I had 3 or 4 years of ineffective treatment and I was just told to use pain relief if its painful. The right side of my jaw, near my right ear, clicks loudly and my mouth opens ever so slightly uneven. Also, if I open my jaw far enough (and not that far) it dislocates. This is mostly painless if done in short periods such as yawning but is important later. It's nothing dramatic, the jaw just pulls forward smoothly and back into place without assistance. I've (female) been with my partner (Male) for just over a year now and we were sexually active before he moved back to the states half a year ago. I had never given a man oral and was very new to the experience when I finally got down to it. However, whenever i give oral my jaw is dislocated for a long period of time, usuall...

Other than moaning and grunting, what can I say to my girlfriend during sex to make it all the better?

Me and my ex from high school recently started dating again and it's actually going well. And the last time we had sex was about a week ago and it was absolutely awesome (for me anyway, I hope it was for her too lol). But I'm wondering what I can say and do, other than communicate, to make her feel special or appreciated or something like that. Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:43PM Me and my ex from high school recently started dating again and it's actually going well. And the last time we had sex was about a week ago and it was absolutely awesome (for me anyway, I hope it was for her too lol). But I'm wondering what I can say and do, other than communicate, to make her feel special or appreciated or something like that.

Should I sleep with my roommate?

I'm trying to decide if I should have sex with my roommate or not. He said that he is open to the idea if I'm cool with it and as long as I won't be embarrassed after and become awkward around him. He is gay and I am, I guess, bicurious. I've never had sex with another guy or done anything remotely sexual with a guy except for last night. I first thought about this a few weeks ago because he is the only person I see and I'm not having sex with anyone right now, I'm just really horny. So yesterday I was explaining to him how I was pretty stressed out by the current worldwide situation and nervous about being out of work and worried about my parents etc. He suggested I relax and offered me a back massage. Halfway through I made a half joke about how every massage I've ever had has been a pretense for sex. He just laughed it off at first. Then I don't know, I just thought it wouldn't be the worst idea to sleep with him. We are both horny and haven...

My gf feels like she needs to pee during sex

My gf says that she feels like she needs to pee during sex and tries to hold it in. Even though she’s just emptied her bladder before we fuck. Is this “squirting”? Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:47PM My gf says that she feels like she needs to pee during sex and tries to hold it in. Even though she’s just emptied her bladder before we fuck. Is this “squirting”?

In a self-inflicted drought

TLDR: is it fair for a husband to watch porn when his wife withholds physical affection after a legitimate screw-up on the husband's part? OK. So last August, I went to my best friends bachelor party, got black-out drunk, and spent $800 at the strip club. Prior to this, my wife had said she was ok with my going to the strip club. The next day, it was the amount that I had spent that she took issue with. That was August of 2019. Since then, she has withheld all physical affection. I gave up on even getting goodnight kisses around valentines day of this year. On multiple occasions, we have talked about our love language. Her love language is acts of service. Any time we fight/argue, I do dishes, mop the floors, clean windows, etc., to show that even though I'm upset, I love her. My love language is physical affection. It doesn't have to be sex, I just like being held or kissed. Ever since that bachelor party night, she has 100% stopped any physical contact with me unless I...

Do men with foreskins really place that much importance on them in real life or is that an internet thing?

And why? It sounds a bit sad though the opposite is objectively kind of weird Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:58PM And why? It sounds a bit sad though the opposite is objectively kind of weird

Recommendations for anal

So me and my fwb are thinking about trying anal. What is everyones experience with it? Does coconut oil work as a good lube? And would you recommend butt plugs before hand? Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:58PM So me and my fwb are thinking about trying anal. What is everyones experience with it? Does coconut oil work as a good lube? And would you recommend butt plugs before hand?

My partner’s dick fills me better during sex now??

My partner (M) and I (F), both 20s, have been dating for almost a year. Our sex has pretty much been amazing since day 1, but I used to need to stimulate myself a lot more during PIV because I couldn’t feel his dick as much. He’s average-sized. In the past month or so, I suddenly can feel a lot more ... detail, I guess, in his dick. I can feel the head and the veins when he fucks me. It’s like my vagina has become way more sensitive, and PIV feels a lot better for me than it used to. I’ve always been relaxed during sex with him, so I don’t think being “more comfortable” is the answer. Does anyone know why this might be? I like to think I’m pretty well-educated on male and female sex organs, etc, but I can’t see a logical reason for this change. I’m definitely not complaining! Submitted April 19, 2020 at 12:00AM My partner (M) and I (F), both 20s, have been dating for almost a year. Our sex has pretty much been amazing since day 1, but I used to need to stimulate myself a lot ...

should I ask her about it?

after a serious of unrelated events (I don't think the details of that story/saga are relevant so I won't bore you with a wall of text for that), I (30f) approached my gf (28f) yesterday very upset because I felt like a terrible gf. I warned her at the beginning of the relationship (7-9 months ago) that I need a lot of space and some situations are starting to wear on me (both of us, really). I had a complete breakdown and sobbed to her that I felt terrible and that she feels like I dont want her around and that I'm pushing her away and she was very sweet and reassuring that she completely understands where I'm coming from and what I'm trying to say. after we were done talking, we ate some dinner and we were completely back to normal. later on, last night, we get into bed and when she's done reading her book, she gives me the look . we've been flirting/teasing each other for the past few days and talking about sex but we've kept falling asleep at nigh...

I really want my GF to peg me

But i don’t know how to ask her. She wants me to be very masculine. Like i’m her wall, and she’s my little girl. And i’m making all that i can to fulfill her need(though, it takes me some effort, because i consider myself not very masculine). And in sex i take the lead part. We are really happy with each other and sex is great. But i want to experiment in bed, and she’s not really into it. And i think that if i’ll ask her, it will spoil her opinion of me or think it’s some kind of a joke. It’s not only about pegging itself, but also about her enthusiasm, because I want her to like it to some extent too. As i said, i really want to try it, and how do I talk to her so she understands me correctly? Submitted April 19, 2020 at 12:01AM But i don’t know how to ask her.She wants me to be very masculine. Like i’m her wall, and she’s my little girl. And i’m making all that i can to fulfill her need(though, it takes me some effort, because i consider myself not very masculine). And in s...

(Tw)I was forced to engage in things I didn’t understand as a child, am wondering if this is non consensual assault. F

I’m very sorry if this isn’t appropriate here, but I believe the mods do an excellent job so will be quick to remove it if not .I’m a female. When I was around 6-8 (age is blurry from repressed memories) my dad had a girlfriend with a son almost twice my age at around 13-15 at the time of this occurring. We were both alone in his room, when he pinned me down and began trying to kiss me. I didn’t know what was happening as I was very young, but in my country sex education is taught at the age of 10, so I believe that he knew what he was doing was weird if not wrong. I remember giggling and running to tell my dad who then broke up with his girlfriend after it happened a second time months later. I feel so uncomfortable knowing he had seen me topless, (even though I hadn’t developed at all yet) I feel almost nauseated. Tdlr: was pinned down and forced to kiss my older sibling like figure that was twice my age, on two occasions Submitted April 19, 2020 at 12:12AM I’m very sorry i...

Why couldn’t I orgasm when I lost my virginity last night?

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Do you get turned when your SO uses sex toys in front of you?

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I've been bamboozled

So I thought I found a good guy that I was falling for. But it turned out he has some extreme confidence issues and I can't vibe with that. I decided to stay his friend because hes sweet and all but a relationship won't work for us. However I'm so sad about it. I finally thought my single days were over and I could finally feel all of that love I had missed. But of course it's still not my time yet. I don't wanna wait any longer. I'm doing my best. I know it won't happen overnight. I'm just sick of being alone honestly. I forgot what it even feels like to be loved but I just want it back. Thanks for reading my vent. Submitted April 18, 2020 at 11:38PM So I thought I found a good guy that I was falling for. But it turned out he has some extreme confidence issues and I can't vibe with that. I decided to stay his friend because hes sweet and all but a relationship won't work for us. However I'm so sad about it. I finally thought my single...