I have just recently started having sex with my girlfriend (whom I love dearly), and we are both incredibly excited to start having sex with each other. We were both each other’s first sexual experiences. I love having sex with her because she is just so amazing, beautiful, sexy, and understanding in the bedroom. However, a small number of our close friends have found out and have been extremely critical of how long sex usually lasts with my girlfriend. The first time and when we both lost our virginities, sex lasted between 1-1.5 hours. The last two times it’s lasted anywhere between 3-4 hours, but we weren’t keeping strict track of time. These friends have said that having sex for this long isn’t normal, which I understand and partially agree with in the sense that it’s statistically unusual from quick google searches. They’ve also said that it’s not good for either of us as having sex for that long will make her sore (she’s mentioned it doesn’t make her sore at all) and will also ...

Hi my name is alex and I'm 25 year old male When I was about 15 or 16 years old me and mom used to go to my uncle's house every once in a while I was forced to go with her because she didn't want to leave me in the house alone so one time I was really bored in my uncle's house with my mom my 2 cousins and my aunt when my uncle returned home it was my first time seeing him in a while so we started to have a small chat and then he stood up and was still talking to me i didn't know what to do so I followed him and he went inside his bedroom and was still talking to me the door was open so I let myself in. we were still chatting when he takes off his shirt and start looking at me I tried not to look. and then he took off his pants and I was really uncomfortable and wanted to leave immediately then worst part is when he took of his underwear I couldn't help it but look and it was this giants thing that was in boner mode I let myself out telling him i'il wait for...

I’m a British Nigerian man, I was born in Nigeria but my parents moved me to the UK so my citizenship is from there. I recently moved to the states for an IT job and I’m just shocked by all the beautiful asian women in this area. There were Asian people in the UK, but it seems like the west coast is just teeming with them, and I love it. I feel guilty saying this, but I am absolutely obsessed with Asian beauty. They have this allure about them that I just don’t get with other women. I love other women, no lie, and this is not to put them down. I just can’t seem to get enough of Asian women. Something about the contrast between our bodies in both colour and shape. It’s slowly taking over my life and I’m not sure how to cope. 1. it would be difficult for me to maintain an interracial relationship. My parents have been dying for me to bring home a nice Nigerian girl, and whole our women are bad af, more more these days I think I want an Asian woman. And that’s what’s weird about it, it...

so i’ve had this way of pleasuring myself that I discovered when i was about 11/12. I(19/F) was just sitting down one day with my legs crossed and after a while suddenly i am rushed with a feeling of pleasure. I was too young to understand what it was and I didn’t correlate with it being sexual. I simply closed my legs really tight and enjoyed the feeling. Fast forward many years I am still able to have an orgasm this way and for a long time while going through puberty and discovering myself sexually, I couldn’t manage to orgasm any other way. When I actually masturbated, My clit had to be stimulated in order for me to come. I’ve had further trouble orgasming PIV. I have never met anyone else with this ‘talent’. Well, thats what my friends who I have told call it. I am able to do it anywhere if i’m horny and I don’t need to touch myself at all. I rarely ever do it in public though bc that’s weird but idk if anyone has this ‘talent’ pls let me know! :) Submitted January 22, 2020 a...

We’ve been together for nearly 2 and a half years and until now I’ve been anxious about him going down on me for so long. Today I let him continue on and it was amazing! Never felt anything like it before and he made me feel like a queen. I’m very lucky to be his and to be able to explore my kinky side with him🥰 Advice to other girls struggling with any type of orgasm anxiety - trust your partner, communicate, don’t overthink it, be patient and just enjoy yourself❤️ Submitted January 22, 2020 at 11:57PM We’ve been together for nearly 2 and a half years and until now I’ve been anxious about him going down on me for so long. Today I let him continue on and it was amazing! Never felt anything like it before and he made me feel like a queen. I’m very lucky to be his and to be able to explore my kinky side with him🥰 Advice to other girls struggling with any type of orgasm anxiety - trust your partner, communicate, don’t overthink it, be patient and just enjoy yourself❤️

So my boyfriend and I have started having sex more frequently and he just can’t make me cum. I’ve always struggled with it, even on my own. But I feel so bad cause he is hell bent on making it happen and he seems really sad that it’s always a bust. He always looks guilty when he cums but I don’t. I honestly don’t think it will ever happen regardless of the partner. But I really wanna see if I’m wrong. Someone please give me advice Submitted January 22, 2020 at 11:57PM So my boyfriend and I have started having sex more frequently and he just can’t make me cum. I’ve always struggled with it, even on my own. But I feel so bad cause he is hell bent on making it happen and he seems really sad that it’s always a bust. He always looks guilty when he cums but I don’t. I honestly don’t think it will ever happen regardless of the partner. But I really wanna see if I’m wrong. Someone please give me advice

I always feel bad after cumming so I cum rarely but I want to have sex with my gf. I think it is possible to do not cum during sex? Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:01AM I always feel bad after cumming so I cum rarely but I want to have sex with my gf. I think it is possible to do not cum during sex?

So i’ve been hooking up with an ex for a while now, he is naturally very submissive, can go down on me for hours without wanting anything in return. Last night he told me he has a foot fetish and wants me to hurt him during sex. I’m very petite 5’2 115 lb he’s almost 6 ft around 200 lbs How do I go about this? He also told me he wouldn’t mind being my pet. I really wanna please him any tips? Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:04AM So i’ve been hooking up with an ex for a while now, he is naturally very submissive, can go down on me for hours without wanting anything in return. Last night he told me he has a foot fetish and wants me to hurt him during sex. I’m very petite 5’2 115 lb he’s almost 6 ft around 200 lbs How do I go about this? He also told me he wouldn’t mind being my pet. I really wanna please him any tips?

I’ve was single for my whole life and in that time I’ve learned some pretty terrible masturbation technique. Now, I have a girlfriend that doesn’t live very close, so sex is only rarely possible, and when it is possible, only in my car because we both have roommates. Whenever we do get down to doing it, it is very easy for me to get an erection, as I’m very sexually attracted to her. The problem lies in my ability to orgasm. We had been talking about having sex for a while and recently we got the chance. When I finally lost my virginity to her, I didn’t orgasm, which I read can be common the first time. However, the second and third times have started to make me nervous. I have no issues keeping and getting an erection (unless I make foreplay too long) and sex feels amazing. I just can’t reach climax. I’m always left with blue balls and most times it really hurts. I don’t mind not being able to climax, as sex is still amazing and I love the physical touch part of it, however, my gir...

my boyfriend (m20) has been in many relationships before me (21) but they were all opened relationships. Before we started dating we were exclusive FWB per my request and he obliged. Even though I told him that if he wanted to keep sleeping with other people, he could do that but leave me out of the picture, he said no and insisted that he was okay with it being exclusive. Fast forward, we are now in a relationship and he has expressed that he really likes me and decided on being monogamous because he thinks I am worth the commitment . I just want to know if jumping from opened relationships to exclusive relationships is a thing among those who are true monogamists? Also just to clarify, the opened relationships he had been in before were per his request. He has also said that he isn't the cheating type, and i made it very clear to him that if he get tired of monogamy to tell me so we can end the relationship, so there are no instances of cheating. Additionally, he has been very...

I recently lost my virginity and became sexually active but have struggled with how long I last (I believe this is fairly common ??), when having sex i last at most a minute! I have done lots of research and have been edging like crazy to try sort it(I quit porn aswell), it has got to the point where I can basically last as long as I want when I’m by myself and sometimes it is actually hard to get off however when I’m w a girl I have absolutely no control and even a handjob gets me off v quickly! I think the main problem must be physiological and I don’t think I really suffer from physical premature ejaculation. Has anyone experienced anything similar and are there any tips to get over this ? Many thanks Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:09AM I recently lost my virginity and became sexually active but have struggled with how long I last (I believe this is fairly common ??), when having sex i last at most a minute! I have done lots of research and have been edging like crazy to tr...

Currently in a relationship with my first boyfriend for over a year now. I recently was introduced to sex, but live in a rather conservative country where there’s no proper contraceptives and/or sex ed. I’d like to check if I can perhaps get a little insight from reddit. Here goes: - Boyfriend masturbated Tues morning - Showered twice (Tues eve and Wed morn) - Had sex on Wed morn raw a few hours after shower, but eventually put on condom - Did not cum inside - Currently ovulating today (Thurs morn) Question: how long does sperm ‘live’ after you masturbate? I’m assuming we should be safe since we used condom and pulled out (and bc he already showered twice) but thinking that there may left over sperm from this masturbation when he inserted it raw, and might cause pregnancy? TIA Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:15AM Currently in a relationship with my first boyfriend for over a year now. I recently was introduced to sex, but live in a rather conservative country where there’s ...

Hi all, (20ish something m here - not writing exact ages just in case my date is a Redditer and reads this and puts two and two together lol) Going on my first date in a while this Saturday with a 20ish something f. We’re mainly going out for a few drinks. The place we’re going is downtown - I live near the outskirts on one side of the city and she lives on the outskirts on the other side so it’s a few mile drive for the both of us. Since we’re doing drinks plus the fact it’s gonna probably be raining/snowing/sleeting some, I’m planning on just ubering so I don’t have to worry about drinking and driving/driving in not so great weather. (Do note: I’m not planning on getting hammered. But I tend to play it safe if I know I’ll be drinking - whether on a date or whatever) I was wondering - should I offer to get her an Uber there as well? I did a quick google search and found there’s varying opinions on this. One argument against doing so I found intriguing and reasonable is that to or...

I’ll try to make this as concise as possible. A couple of weeks ago while my boyfriend and I were having sex, he accidentally thrusted too hard, too fast while he was orgasming and made me cry. Admittedly, it did hurt really bad. Ever since then, he refuses to have sex. He’ll go down on me and I’ll do the same, but he doesn’t want to have sex because he apparently can’t control how he thrusts when he orgasms. He feels really bad and I’ve tried to let him know that I’m not upset, but he won’t budge. Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:17AM I’ll try to make this as concise as possible. A couple of weeks ago while my boyfriend and I were having sex, he accidentally thrusted too hard, too fast while he was orgasming and made me cry. Admittedly, it did hurt really bad.Ever since then, he refuses to have sex. He’ll go down on me and I’ll do the same, but he doesn’t want to have sex because he apparently can’t control how he thrusts when he orgasms. He feels really bad and I’ve tried to ...

Ok I’ll try to make this as short as possible but I feel like I have so much to say. I need help. I really want to be in a relationship but I’m not having any luck. Basically, I moved away from my hometown about 2 years ago. I’ve lived in this new town for about 2 years now and I just cant seem to make any meaningful connections. I have a few acquaintances that I’ve met at work, my local coffee shop, etc. but not even my strictly platonic friendships have been consistent for whatever reason so meeting people through them doesn’t seem likely. I’ve been on tinder and been on a few dates but the two guys I actually liked based on a first date told me he was actually just looking to hook up as he had just gotten out of a relationship, and the other, things were going alright with him for a few weeks until he said he had some things going on in his personal life and needed to take a step back from dating. The few others, I was turned off pretty much immediately. I’ve even been to a few par...

Okay so, I love licking my girlfriend (19) out but I prefer doing it while she’s riding my face. Every time I ask her to sit on my face she tells me no that’s so weird, it kind of kills the mood for me but I don’t want to annoy her. Can anyone help? Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:19AM Okay so, I love licking my girlfriend (19) out but I prefer doing it while she’s riding my face.Every time I ask her to sit on my face she tells me no that’s so weird, it kind of kills the mood for me but I don’t want to annoy her.Can anyone help?

We matched this morning and she messaged first(I'm a male) and we talked a little bit but then she had to get to class. I told her to enjoy class and that I hope to talk to her again. Was wondering when I could message her again? Should I wait until at least tomorrow? Could I tonight? Or is that obsessive? Or should I wait until she messages me? Submitted January 23, 2020 at 12:16AM We matched this morning and she messaged first(I'm a male) and we talked a little bit but then she had to get to class. I told her to enjoy class and that I hope to talk to her again. Was wondering when I could message her again? Should I wait until at least tomorrow? Could I tonight? Or is that obsessive? Or should I wait until she messages me?

Hiya guys So I'm just a freshman in uni (18M) and I just started using tinder to try and meet people at college. It's a big uni (50k+ and in a city) but I'm 5'4", look pretty young and am pretty average looking so I haven't had a ton of matches (also I'm autistic so I'm really new to dating and everything). So I got a match and we hit it off, were in the same department (eng) were both 1st years, were into similar stuff (outdoors, hiking, mountaineering, biking) and are even from the same original city (its a mildly big city 700k) so we hit it off, moved over to Snapchat and met up for dinner and hung out. It went pretty well, we both just chatted for hours, we met for dinner at dining hall (at 7ish) since all other places were closed cause weather and chatted there till it closed, then went back to my place and chatted till 11pm ish when she had to go back cause 8am classes. Anyways we had a part good time and have been chatting over snap for the part...

Sooo.. (44f - 38m - 2 years together) I'm not really sure what to do. I'm not normally the type to be bothered by porn watching. Until recently, I've expressed that I am down anytime. Wake me up! Yet early in the morning before work often he's off watching porn instead of having sex with me. This makes me feel several ways. We discussed it and he said he would stop. Obviously he didn't. This morning, I'm sleeping soundly when i'm woken up by girls moaning. He left the room but accidentally stayed connected to the boothtooth speaker. Ugh... I confronted him. He apologized. But, Isn't this a breach of trust? How many of these white lies should I allow? Am I being ridiculous? I've caught him in other irrelevant lies previously aswell. I don't want to end the relationship but I don't know how to overlook or communicate how I'm feeling about this. TL;DR! Possible porn addicted partner lies about porn watching and watches it instead of ...

I’m not really sure what I’m looking for by posting this; maybe just some insight as to how much of an asshole this makes me, and also some clarity because I don’t know where to go from here. So I have an amazing boyfriend who I’ve been dating for 6 months, and I’ve been in a social circle with these 3 girls for a couple years now. 2 of them are really nice girls, but the other one is very difficult to take a liking to. For example, every time we bring her around other people they ALWAYS end up telling us how bitchy and unlikable she is. She’s manipulative and narcissistic, which has made things hard for the 2 other girls in our social circle who she has managed to sink her claws into. She is very reckless and inconsiderate, which has led to many horrible antics on her part. I got my nose broken by a group of girls a few months ago when she flirted with one of their boyfriends at a club and I was presumed to be guilty by association. She managed to walk away without a scratch while ...

My friend (19F) likes to tell me (21F) all about her current relationships because I’m her “voice of reason” (her words). I don’t really like to be this person...I don’t like to hear every single detail and she kind of expects me to be there to tell her what’s right or wrong / what I believe in as if I were her mother...and then still does whatever she wants (obviously...it’s her life). I should add that I do really appreciate our friendship but I also feel like it’s a bit overwhelming sometimes cuz if we have a disagreement she breaks down real bad and is afraid that we won’t be friends anymore... Imho I feel it’s a bit much and as if I can’t really do anything...as if I’m trapped... I really don’t want to sound mean or horrible...just stating how I feel. Tl;dr Friend is overwhelming and likes to use me as the “voice of reason” that has to always be there no matter how I feel - we are very different people. Has anyone else ever felt like this? What’s the best way to deal with this...

Hey guys. I’m writing this through tears, so I’m all over the place. Please bear with me. I was diagnosed with breast cancer, got through chemotherapy, recovered, and now I’m cancer free, slowly but surely slipping back into my life. My bestfriend, we’ve been friends since grade 7, but bestfriends since grade 10. We’ve graduated and entered the same college, but we attend different classes, and therefore only come across each other rarely. I love her. She’s closer to being my sister than all my blood-related siblings. I hold nothing in my heart for her but love and wish her well with every bit of my being. She’s amazing, I only feel alive and happy when we meet, and I can only be myself with her. She’s always been distant, really distant. The fact that we both major in a really challenging field makes our schedules full, so we rarely come across each other or meet. I meet her maybe 3 times in the entirety of each semester. This could’ve been solved if we regularly chatted, but we ...

Today my DD was late coming home. She told me her friend was crying and she was trying to calm her down. She couldn’t tell me over the phone. When she got home she told me the situation. So her friend has a hectic home life. Her mother lives in her home country and she currently lives here with her father who is never around ( he has his own issues), and her step mother, who I’ve already heard not so nice things about. While they were all hanging out together after an exam, her uncle called her and told her he had a dream about her and that they were having sex, DD’s friend put it on speaker phone so that they could all hear. He then started asking her if that’s something she does. He continued to detail the dream and eventually she told him she had to go, and then started crying, apparently this isn it all he’s done. There was an incident where he was alone with her and put on porn for her to watch and asked if she liked it. She’s scared and told her friends not to say anything. S...