Asexuals can enjoy masturbation, sex, porn, and other sexual things. All it means is that you lack sexual attraction to specific people. October 06, 2021 at 11:36PM

arousal is hella uncomfortable Is exactly why I have a hard time feeling valid as Ace. Now that I'm on testosterone blockers it helps sooo much that I'm not horny like a teen boy randomly 😅 October 06, 2021 at 11:34PM

Actually, to be honest I like to masturbate, but I didn't like touching my boyfriends or then he touched mine private parts, so maybe you right??? October 06, 2021 at 11:33PM

I have not used this site myself but one I have heard of you could try is AsexualCupid.com. Perhaps someone who has used this site will see this posting and offer a review of what they thought of it. It is a place to start anyway. October 06, 2021 at 11:29PM

Sounds like you could be heteroromantic + asexual, plus having low libido. October 06, 2021 at 11:27PM

I'm struggling to orgasm during intimacy and foreplay. He says it's about the connection between us and not to concentrate on the big 'O'. What can I do to help reach ecstacy, that way both needs are met? Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:25AM I'm struggling to orgasm during intimacy and foreplay. He says it's about the connection between us and not to concentrate on the big 'O'. What can I do to help reach ecstacy, that way both needs are met?

So about a year ago, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend who I had dated for about 2 years. My ex was a sweet enough guy, but he was very vanilla and I... am not. I like very rough, degrading sex where I can be a bratty submissive and get fucking wrecked. During our relationship, my ex, we’ll call him Eric, and I would spend a lot of time at his best friend’s house. His best friend (Jake) was the complete opposite of my ex. Eric was very gentle, introverted, and shy. Jake was very loud, aggressive, and could be very obnoxious. Part of me disliked Jake for how dominating and masculine his personality was, but there was also a part of me that was super turned on by his aggressive personality. We would usually all hang out together and get high/drunk. I am already a very horny person sober, but fucked up me absolutely needs to get fucked senseless. We would often talk about sex together as well as discuss all of our past sexual exploits and I came to learn that Jake had a huge dick, was very...

Okay so me and my girlfriend both had sex and I don’t know if I came In her. We lasted a good amount of time but while I was thrusting I started to feel myself almost ejaculating but I didn’t, so I quickly backed out. She gave me oral sex after and nothing came out. I soon went home and masturbated to see if I had any delay, and a huge amount of sperm came out. I didn’t have any pre-cum after sex either so now I’m confused and don’t know what to do Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:41AM Okay so me and my girlfriend both had sex and I don’t know if I came In her. We lasted a good amount of time but while I was thrusting I started to feel myself almost ejaculating but I didn’t, so I quickly backed out. She gave me oral sex after and nothing came out. I soon went home and masturbated to see if I had any delay, and a huge amount of sperm came out. I didn’t have any pre-cum after sex either so now I’m confused and don’t know what to do

I was wondering why would a handsome young man between late twenties and early thirties pay for sex? Nowadays people are more open minded, there are so many dating apps and many opportunities to meet new people. Why someone preferes to pay for it if he can take it for free? Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:41AM I was wondering why would a handsome young man between late twenties and early thirties pay for sex? Nowadays people are more open minded, there are so many dating apps and many opportunities to meet new people. Why someone preferes to pay for it if he can take it for free?

I haven’t been to the doctor about it because it’s not impacting my life, But is it normal to have a little hole on your clit? It’s very small, and if I touch it, it is extremely sensitive / slightly painful. It doesn’t get in the way of intimacy but I’m just worried.. why do I have a little hole on my clit? Wtf Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:57AM I haven’t been to the doctor about it because it’s not impacting my life,But is it normal to have a little hole on your clit? It’s very small, and if I touch it, it is extremely sensitive / slightly painful.It doesn’t get in the way of intimacy but I’m just worried.. why do I have a little hole on my clit? Wtf

Nothing much happened but I basically told my crush that I liked them and they said "aw that's sweet" gave me a smile and the day just kinda progressed, what do I do now? Submitted October 06, 2021 at 11:57PM Nothing much happened but I basically told my crush that I liked them and they said "aw that's sweet" gave me a smile and the day just kinda progressed, what do I do now?

Back story: So we went on one date and she said she had fun. She also told me that there is no rush to do anything. She even told me we should be friend first and see how it goes. But like fuk that sht, I want to plow her like the dirty field she is. Not now of course but like later. So my question is should I get a little bit more physical with her and see how she reacts? if she don't like me, I'm bounce since I know i have been friendzone. Anyways, give me some advice in how to slowly get physical with her, Im talking about holding hand first. and Maybe putting my hands around her. Fuking hell, i do like her as a romantic partner. Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:06AM Back story: So we went on one date and she said she had fun. She also told me that there is no rush to do anything. She even told me we should be friend first and see how it goes. But like fuk that sht, I want to plow her like the dirty field she is. Not now of course but like later. So my question is sho...

Just a real quick pee pee poo poo check :) Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:09AM Just a real quick pee pee poo poo check :)

I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 26), I’ve just never gotten dates easy like other women I know. I’ve been told I’m picky but everyone should be selective to some degree. I wonder if I really want a relationship, considering I don’t really have desire to have sex. I haven’t had sex in three years and don’t care if I never have it again. When I get messages on dating apps and convos seem to go well early on, I get discouraged as soon as the conversation fades. I feel forced then to try matching with more guys. And knowing that being with someone long term means eventually having to live with them and get more comfortable/do gross things in front of each other also turns me off… Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:10AM I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, g...

I (18F) am in a two month relationship with a guy (18M). It’s going really great and he’s by far the best guy I’ve ever been with. I love him very much and am relieved I met such a great partner. However, the fact that he is so compassionate and caring is something I have a terrible time accepting. I’m used to unhealthy or abusive relationships, the screaming and the fighting, so even now I feel like I’m bracing myself for him to hurt me. I felt scared to lose him, so I threw myself into doing things to try to get him to like me. To get him to stay. But now I’m exhausted. I feel tired of trying so hard to be perfect. I spoke to him about all of this and we’re on a “break” which is essentially reduced texting, and we still call at night. I’ve just needed more time to myself. I know I need to love myself first before I can focus more on loving him, so any advice for emotional burnout or self love would be appreciated. Thank you for reading! Submitted October 07, 2021 at 12:14AM ...

Yup that would be aegosexual. You're fine with the idea but when you literally can do it, ur like nope no. October 06, 2021 at 11:27PM

Okey thank you It makes more sense in my head now, You explained this very well Im curious to know what that person ment by the problems being solved October 06, 2021 at 11:21PM

So we invade denmark and make a new country or...? October 06, 2021 at 11:14PM

How much garlic bread do you consume October 06, 2021 at 11:11PM

I discovered it this past June when this sub was recommended to me. Suddenly everything made sense. I know what you mean. Representation is super important, otherwise you end up spending much of your early adulthood thinking you’re a broken straight person. 😑 October 06, 2021 at 11:08PM