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I got super unexpectedly ghosted. WTF happened?

Ghosting sucks. I was dating a guy a few months ago and everything was going really well, we’d always say we can’t believe how easily we get along with each other. We did sleep with each other but eventually we had to call it quits because of personal life commitments on my end (we always remained on good terms and I was always honest with him). Fast forward to a couple of weeks ago, we start texting again. We go out for lunch, we were getting along really great. He texts me everyday, he opens the car door for me, we watch movies together etc. On Wednesday we ended up at his place (we fooled around but didn’t have sex) and he ended up opening up to me and saying he really likes me, and he’s never had feelings like this before. But he kept saying things like “oh god, what am I doing, I actually have really really strong feelings for you it scares me” he texted me when I got home and said “speak to you tomorrow gorgeous and thanks for an amazing night” The next day? Nothing. No text.

/u/General_Unable on Why are allosexuals so baffled by the idea of a non-sexual relationship?

wow. hearing that makes my heart break :( October 31, 2022 at 12:07AM

Weekly Vents and Successes Thread - October 31, 2022

Welcome to /r/dating_advice . Please use this weekly venting/celebration thread to get something off your chest, good or bad, without asking for or offering concrete advice. All individual venting or ranting threads will be removed and directed here. Remember our rules , be sure to include ages and genders if you need help with a specific situation. Please report any rule violations using the report button. Submitted October 31, 2022 at 12:00AM Welcome to /r/dating_advice. Please use this weekly venting/celebration thread to get something off your chest, good or bad, without asking for or offering concrete advice. All individual venting or ranting threads will be removed and directed here.Remember our rules, be sure to include ages and genders if you need help with a specific situation.Please report any rule violations using the report button.

Should I have stopped another guy getting her Snapchat?

Met some girl at a Halloween party last night and while I was talking to her some guy came up and got her snap right in front of me and I didn’t do anything about it because my logic is she’s not my girl so I couldn’t care any less, but it was demasculating af. I talked to her for a solid 20-30 minutes though and I found out her mom is my boss so idk what’s the move now lol. Submitted October 31, 2022 at 12:01AM Met some girl at a Halloween party last night and while I was talking to her some guy came up and got her snap right in front of me and I didn’t do anything about it because my logic is she’s not my girl so I couldn’t care any less, but it was demasculating af. I talked to her for a solid 20-30 minutes though and I found out her mom is my boss so idk what’s the move now lol.

/u/tarnishedhuntress on i HATE kissing

I'm utterly disgusted and every time someone tried to "get deeper" my stomach was in my throat. October 30, 2022 at 11:21PM

/u/austenaaaaa on Why are allosexuals so baffled by the idea of a non-sexual relationship?

Not sure why you're getting downvoted. The first comment was worded in a way that left some room for negative interpretation re allos. I don't think you're saying that was intentional or that the commenter holds negative views towards allosexuality, I think you were trying to add to their comment to tighten up the meaning? October 30, 2022 at 11:21PM