What the fuck? They're that openly racist and sexist it must be a sociology experiment or something... right? November 23, 2021 at 12:46AM

I don't know, it's weird. I'm not thinking of anything inherently 'sexual', just random stuff like the dishes, my bills, etc. while I do it. It's like I'm only doing it because it's what my body wants, not that I really want to do it. I hope I stated my point clearly, it's really hard to explain 😅 November 23, 2021 at 12:45AM

This is the second aphobia case I heard from this place TODAY. Seriously, why these people feel the need to gatekeep on a sexuality? Specially when they don't even understand it entirely? These people need to chill. We are here in Ace City, with a lot of bakeries to maintain all our cake and garlic bread needs, some of us like sex, others don't. Some want to cuddle, others like some distance. Some want romantic relationship, others are okay by themselves. Some are allosexuals that just came to learn and join the invasion. And then come those crazy bastards with a cardboard sign kicking some of our friends out of the city. Like, dude. We are chill, but we do have an army ready to kick an entire country. We will kick YOU out of the town if you don't shush and respect everybody! November 23, 2021 at 12:43AM

I (F21) only get horny when the hormones kick in, but here’s my thing, I don’t masturbate, literally just because I think it’s gross (not the act itself just the mess it makes) so when I start to feel it i read fanfics with smut, but really like the ones that include the emotions involved in making love. I don’t do the sex, but I think when people make love it can be a beautiful moment. November 23, 2021 at 12:41AM

My Archons… that’s just awful. I’m glad you came out ok. That sounds absolutely terrifying. November 23, 2021 at 12:40AM

Good afternoon, Reddit! I wanted to thank everyone that gave me some suggestions and help on getting some gift ideas for my wife for our 12 days of Hentai that we're doing this year! Previous post here I got everything that I will be giving her this year! Here are the links to the 12 gifts I got her: Hentai Manga Hot sauce Milf cookbook Milf cocktail book Both of these "milf" cookbooks are super weak. Almost no nudity at all. Highly recommend against them. Rope bondage book Anal slut undies Fox tail bunny set Necklace vibrator I'm REALLY excited about to give her this one! Fishnet gloves Fishnet outfit Slut anklet And the crown jewel of it all: Tentacle dildo!! I ordered the medium one with UV Pink and Sapphire Blue coloring. But I do regret not getting the large 9 inch one. This one still seems small, even with it being 6.5 inches. Just to put that out there in case anyone is curious about it. I think I did great for like, 10/12 of these. Even thou...

I’m not sure where to post this. If this is the wrong subreddit I apologize. For some context, I had this wonderful weekend away with this guy I’m seeing and afterwards I started having symptoms. I freaked out and thought I was pregnant. I was super nervous to do the test so I kept putting it off. I finally did it today, and thankfully it was negative. It got me thinking though, would he wanna know? I kept this all to myself and didn’t say anything to him. He knows I’ve been super anxious but didn’t know the reason. If you were the guy in this situation would you wanna know about this even though the test came back negative? I’m not sure if I should tell him or not. Submitted November 23, 2021 at 12:38AM I’m not sure where to post this. If this is the wrong subreddit I apologize.For some context, I had this wonderful weekend away with this guy I’m seeing and afterwards I started having symptoms. I freaked out and thought I was pregnant. I was super nervous to do the test so I ...

I know this may sound a bit dumb aa- so its like..I can handle length just fine! But width is the problem.. I wanna practice riding a dildo but I can't just like..get it in past the tip with my other one..I can hardly fit two fingers when masturbating. Is there something like a skinny dildo that I can start with? Preferably one that can stand on its own. Riding something really turns me on aa.. I know this probably belongs in r/Sextoys .. I'm just 17 and I don't think I'm allowed there.. Submitted November 23, 2021 at 12:43AM I know this may sound a bit dumb aa- so its like..I can handle length just fine! But width is the problem.. I wanna practice riding a dildo but I can't just like..get it in past the tip with my other one..I can hardly fit two fingers when masturbating. Is there something like a skinny dildo that I can start with? Preferably one that can stand on its own. Riding something really turns me on aa..I know this probably belongs in r/Sextoys ...

Hey all, I don’t know really where to start so I’ll just go from here. I’m 20m currently in a long term relationship. I have a history of being sexually assaulted and frankly haven’t had the best experiences with sex in the past so maybe that has some effects on it. I have always had a hard time finishing and in my previous sexual experiences I’ve finished very few times. When we’re having sex and in that moment I’m rarely triggered by anything and find myself very relaxed but I’m not sure why I can never finish I pay attention to the feeling and everything I’m very aware of senses and stuff. It normally gets to a point during sex when my partners finished and we or myself are trying and I can’t, I rarely have trouble finishing when I’m by myself so I don’t know what it is. Finishing isn’t causing any problems inside the relationship I just wish I could be able to ya know? If you have any tips or suggestions please lmk and thank you for reading Submitted November 23, 2021 at...

I have this fetish where I like to have sex when my girlfriend has her clothes on. BUT, it's not like I don't like seeing her naked- she has an incredible body both in and out of her clothes. But there is just this mysterious extra leap when I see her wearing things like tight tank tops or short-shorts. Now, I know people reading this are going to shake their heads and be like, "Of course you think that's sexy; everyone does!" But the weird part is that I feel like the sex is just hotter when she's still wearing her skirt, or if I'm sticking it through the leg of her shorts or panties, or even when she's still wearing a sports bra or something. I think it has something to do with the sex feeling more spontaneous and "naughty" or "dirty" with clothes on, even though we're in the comfort of our home. It's not like we're in public or anything. I have never ever actually requested her to keep her clothes on. I don't ...

Last night went to dinner with this girl. If you look at my previous posts you'll see we kissed but after we kissed, she said in her exact words "I'm not sure if I like you yet so take that as you will." which i responded with "Well I feel like Im on the right path.". She's really nice but now I'm thinking she just wants me to keep taking her to nice restaurants and fun activities. Am i being played or should i keep trying? Submitted November 23, 2021 at 12:07AM Last night went to dinner with this girl. If you look at my previous posts you'll see we kissed but after we kissed, she said in her exact words "I'm not sure if I like you yet so take that as you will." which i responded with "Well I feel like Im on the right path.". She's really nice but now I'm thinking she just wants me to keep taking her to nice restaurants and fun activities.Am i being played or should i keep trying?

So I (M22) don’t have much luck with the ladies but in all honesty, I haven’t approached a women before with the intention of flirting. I’ve been single my whole life. Haven’t dated in high school for whatever reason and college, everyone was already in a relation ship. At some point in college I tried using dating apps but haven’t found a relationship with it. Met a bunch of cool and uncool girls through it but the most I’ve gotten is a kiss and cuddles which is great but of course I’m looking for an actual relationship. Lately I’ve just been drained from dating apps. I can’t find anyone that’s an actual match and I’m just bored out of my mind with the conversations I’m having. No one seems interesting or interested. I’ve probably only met 2 people who felt like an actual match that I’ve met but one of them ghosted after a month and the other just wasn’t ready for a relationship. What are my options? I’ve graduated from college so that’s not an option and my job is at home. My frie...

I officially have a fwb since one week. We saw each other last week, spend the night at his place. I wanted to do sexting with him (we did one time last week while he was at work). I panicked bc he didn’t replied fast to my message. I saw that he actually read it hours after. We only talk when it’s needed (when we are horny or about to meet each other). I was about to send him a message to tell him « Okay, I get it, you don’t want to have anything to do with me anymore, but please I’d like to get my item back. After that, I will never talk to you again I promise ». Yes, I forgot my item last time I was at his place, and I told him a couple of days ago if he found it and he told me yes. I tried to be wiser and tell myself he might be really busy today, maybe he met customers, had meetings, spend time afterwork at a bar with his workmates or friends (he’s really outgoing). Maybe he finished work late…. Please don’t tell me about his wife or gf, he’s officially single and he is...

Met with my shy guy friend, I’m in his city for some days. I asked if he wanted to grab a beer out but he invited me to his place so we hung out alone there just talking and having some beer. Then we had dinner out which he insisted to pay for. He started the dinner by making a toast with me. We talked really deep about relationships, trust issues etc. At one point we talked about our time in high school and he said ”Somehow you captured me.” After this he had made plans for us to meet with his friends (first time I met them). So we had some drinks with them. When leaving the bar he at one point kinda pinched my waist a bit jokingly. Before saying goodbye he gave me a long hug. I said ”Text me of you wanna see me tomorrow” (since I leave soon). He replied ”absolutely”. Would you say this was just a casual hangout between two friends or a date? Submitted November 23, 2021 at 12:12AM Met with my shy guy friend, I’m in his city for some days. I asked if he wanted to grab a beer o...

Hi, I'm 20 yo in college, and I recently found a girl I took a liking to. However, I've been emotionally dead for a while now, I barely feel anything for anyone, even the most important people to me like my parents and siblings. I find myself unable to feel what I should feel, and if my closest friends died I'd probably feel a little disappointed and that's about it, probably wouldn't shed a tear. If someone more important like my father or mother passed away, I'd probably grieve for a day or two and get back to normal. That's where this girl comes in. The few times I've talked to her or went out with her (not as a date) she's made me feel pretty good. However, sometimes I cease to feel anything towards her, and sometimes I do feel things towards her. I wanna ask her out on a date but I don't wanna be selfish. What if she develops feelings for me and then I become the same dead person on the inside? What if I screw her over emotionally because I...

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to blowjob him anymore when he started eating me all the time. Says he just wants to eat me more and not do blowjobs anymore. I asked him why, he doesn’t wanna explain either. I don’t know if I sent him a wrong signal about me requesting that I want him to eat me because we stopped it for a long time as I felt very uneasy but we talked about it and now he can’t stop doing it!! Feels so damnnnnn great actually but also worries me he doesn’t want me to do him. Submitted November 22, 2021 at 11:37PM My boyfriend doesn’t want me to blowjob him anymore when he started eating me all the time. Says he just wants to eat me more and not do blowjobs anymore. I asked him why, he doesn’t wanna explain either. I don’t know if I sent him a wrong signal about me requesting that I want him to eat me because we stopped it for a long time as I felt very uneasy but we talked about it and now he can’t stop doing it!! Feels so damnnnnn great actually but also worries me ...

Ok, so I will watch videos or read things about honeymoon phase sex and how awesome it is but what if I never had that in my relationship? Or I’ll read about increasing desire in a long term relationship as a women and trying to take initiative but I feel like I can’t because I’m the higher drive partner and it might not excite him. Or can’t try to bring up too many new things because he won’t be into it or he will be pressured. I’ve also brought up the things I want and most aren’t too out there, but some things make him uncomfortable(like wanting him to make noise). It’s just hard for me because I just really want to feel desired and physical touch is my primary love language. Maybe it was better in the honeymoon phase but now I want more and just feel unsatisfied by sex. It’s not like he doesn’t want sex, as he will initiate most of the time and sometimes we will do it almost every day(on vacations together). Right now we are long distance so it doesn’t happen much anyways. Maybe ...

That basically sums it up. No matter what, I can't cum with him unless he uses my vibrator on me. The man is a Saint and will go down on me or finger me for a long time because clit stim is the only thing that works for me but I just can't cum, let alone when he's in me. I've tried everything from really focusing on the experience and shutting my brain off, not using my vibe at all, and having the main focus be on me so I'm not worried about getting him off too and nothing works. I feel bad because I love him and I know he thinks it's something he is or isn't doing. We've talked about it and it still feels really good but both of us would benefit from getting this figured out. Submitted November 22, 2021 at 11:39PM That basically sums it up. No matter what, I can't cum with him unless he uses my vibrator on me. The man is a Saint and will go down on me or finger me for a long time because clit stim is the only thing that works for me but I jus...

Hi! F21 here. So I have looked over the FAQ here many many times and have done so many questionnaires, but I still feel so lost and a bit overwhelmed. The past relationships I’ve been in have either been with people with little or no experience and/or was abusive. In these instances I didn’t really have the chance to explore or express what I want and like. My friend suggested just trying stuff out and doing research. Though honestly I don’t know where to start or how I’m supposed to feel. I do know I sometimes have a disconnect with myself sexually as a result of trauma and have been working on it. Things are really good currently, especially with the person I’m seeing. I just don’t know what I like and what I can communicate with them when it comes to having the best time I can in the bedroom. The advice I decided to land on at the moment is watch porn and see what draws me in. Where do I start? Should I make some kind of list to check off as I go and reflect? Or should this be j...

Obviously women shouldnt be shamed for anything sexual. But what ive noticed is that women feel more ashamed and less likely to admit to masturbation and get uncomfortable around that topic even if they can share and talk about sex without any conserns. One example is when I was with two friends and me and one of them hadnt had any experiences yet and the friend that was experienced talked super grafically about her sex life and answered any question we had without feeling shy the slightest. Somehow the question of masturbation came up and she directly said she don’t do that and you could tell she was shy and uncomfortable. Another example is my mom, she jokes about sex and is very open about it. When id skip forward sex scenes on movies she’d tell me not too and joke about it but when a womans masturbation scene came up today she told me to skip forward. Submitted November 22, 2021 at 11:48PM Obviously women shouldnt be shamed for anything sexual. But what ive noticed is that...