So my FWB has a birthday coming up and I want to do something special for him. I texted him letting him know that whatever he wants to do, we would do (no limits) and he said he would have to think about what he wants. Guys, what would you ask for? And what would be a pleasant addition to that? Any and all ideas welcome! Thank you! Submitted March 01, 2021 at 12:25AM So my FWB has a birthday coming up and I want to do something special for him. I texted him letting him know that whatever he wants to do, we would do (no limits) and he said he would have to think about what he wants.Guys, what would you ask for? And what would be a pleasant addition to that?Any and all ideas welcome! Thank you!

So basically I took a quiz about 4 months ago that helped explain what I was into in relation to kinks and whatnot. Since then I feel I have changed a lot and would like to retake the quiz. The results are given in a percentage basis and there is about 10-15 answers each with a certain percentage. Any help would be greatly appreciated Submitted March 01, 2021 at 12:32AM So basically I took a quiz about 4 months ago that helped explain what I was into in relation to kinks and whatnot. Since then I feel I have changed a lot and would like to retake the quiz. The results are given in a percentage basis and there is about 10-15 answers each with a certain percentage. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Been with my SO(F32) for a couple years now, we have been in constant disagreements lately. I have not been happy for a year or so in our relationship as well. She seems to be stressed out all the time from work and other factors that make her have anxiety, and then lashes out at me because of the stress. I reached a boiling point where I told her this won’t work, because of the way you treat me and take me for granted and don’t appreciate me. So we broke up... I initially want us to continue to work on this together because we have been together for a few years and it means we do care for each other and have something good (outside of her lashing). She told me she did not want to, and was adamant on ending it, that she too was not happy and she don’t think there is anything we can do to fix it. I told her I am not mad we are ending but I’m mad that she don’t even want to fight for us, and instead chose to a)give up b)throw it on to me as to why she was not happy and I always stress ...

23M here. Two nights ago was the third time in recent weeks where I really hit it off with a girl in conversation at a bar. Towards the end of things each time, we exchange contact info. Then I’m ghosted in the follow up about a day or two later. tl;dr: Things aren’t getting off the ground past this point. Despite the good body language, enthusiasm, other checked off boxes etc. Is this just bad luck? Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:21PM 23M here. Two nights ago was the third time in recent weeks where I really hit it off with a girl in conversation at a bar. Towards the end of things each time, we exchange contact info. Then I’m ghosted in the follow up about a day or two later.tl;dr: Things aren’t getting off the ground past this point. Despite the good body language, enthusiasm, other checked off boxes etc. Is this just bad luck?

Sooo I'm reaching out here for advice because I'm 23 (M), and I've only ever been in one 2.5 year long relationship that turned out to be extremely toxic. That was about three years ago now and after working on myself for a long time and trying to be happy on my own I can't help but feel that my almost non-existent dating life and lacking social life are bringing me down more every day. I'm out of school and I have a full time job that's going very well. I also have a new puppy and a few other hobbies that kill some time when I'm not working and those make me happy overall but no matter what I do, I still come home to an empty house and find myself to be extremely lonely and I'm not sure what else I can do about that. I've tried a variety of dating apps multiple times each that all seem to be okay at first but they either lead to nothing or be a bad experience every single time. At this point it seems like I've done everything I can do to try an...

I'm turning 30 this year and it's still hard for me to accept that, even though I know at this point it's a certainty basically It's never really happened no matter how much I've improved myself physically and mentally over the years It's pretty depressing knowing I'll never have intimacy, a connection and a life companion Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:27PM I'm turning 30 this year and it's still hard for me to accept that, even though I know at this point it's a certainty basicallyIt's never really happened no matter how much I've improved myself physically and mentally over the yearsIt's pretty depressing knowing I'll never have intimacy, a connection and a life companion

Would you lie about having a friend of the opposite sex and say you haven't talked to them in a year when in fact you actually talk to them almost on daily basis? Even if your intentions is good because you love that person you're dating and don't want to lose them. Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:29PM Would you lie about having a friend of the opposite sex and say you haven't talked to them in a year when in fact you actually talk to them almost on daily basis? Even if your intentions is good because you love that person you're dating and don't want to lose them.

So I hooked up with a guy about 2 weeks ago. I don't generally have one night stands with people, but was okay with this one considering we didn't really know each other that well in the first place. In my opinion, things went really well. I left happy, though I didn't know if I'd see him again We texted for a few days afterward, just shooting the shit about meeting each other and sending pictures of the hickeys we'd given (lmao childish I know). Eventually the convo tapered off, which I was fine with, and we carried on with our respective lives. A couple of friends asked me if I'd want to hook up with him again, to which I said I wouldn't mind, it's really up to him if he wanted to reach out We follow each other on Instagram, and I posted a story of me in a low cut top today. He swiped up on my story and said something along the lines of, "One of the coolest shirts I've ever seen," to which I replied and he liked the message, end of con...

What is pro and con of doing it, recently i almost did that but girl told me eve before date she cant make it due to her job, i would try once again but not sure doe. Anyway, i mean not being complete stranger to that person and going crazy direct asking out, previous convo got to be in there. Anyone with exp in this sort of thing, how would that make you feel and etc Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:40PM What is pro and con of doing it,recently i almost did that but girl told me eve before date she cant make it due to her job, i would try once again but not sure doe.Anyway, i mean not being complete stranger to that person and going crazy direct asking out, previous convo got to be in there.Anyone with exp in this sort of thing, how would that make you feel and etc

Guy I’ve been dating for two months is hot and cold. One minute he’s so emotionally depth, responsive and available. The next he’s pulling back. He’s done this now two or three times now. I’m beginning to think he likes the drama of keeping someone at an arms length and dispute how much he’s saying he’s just scared and wants to take things slow (and then subsequently speeds them up by wanting to hang out all the time), I’ve grown weary of it and don’t see how a wonderful foundation can come from this. My question is is this normal or common? I’m not pressuring for exclusivity either, just asking for some consistency in his attitude towards me. How do I handle this? Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:49PM Guy I’ve been dating for two months is hot and cold. One minute he’s so emotionally depth, responsive and available. The next he’s pulling back. He’s done this now two or three times now.I’m beginning to think he likes the drama of keeping someone at an arms length and dispute ...

I (f29) kind of possibly maybe like this guy (m31?), and I've been thinking about asking him out. I don't actively have evidence that he likes me back, but we're on perfectly friendly acquaintance terms. I see him pretty regularly due to knowing a lot of the same people, similar activities, etc. I've been wondering and overanalyzing the situation for a while, and I'd just really like to know one way or the other if he likes me at all. My hesitation isn't the possibility of rejection. I'm in the arts, so I'm very accustomed to that. My fear is of him feeling put on the spot or something, not knowing what to say, and just saying yes without thinking, without actually meaning it. I feel like that's an easy thing to do. I've been on both sides of it, and it sucks for everyone. I know it's easy to say "no pressure," but have people still feel pressure. I think men in particular might be prone to that sort of thing because they aren...

Hey guys I think I'm kinda lost with the direction of the relationship of my boyfriend and I. To begin, me F/18 and He M/18 have met on Discord, and after a while we just started to go into love and now we were happily dating for almost 6 months. Though, today took a strange turn. I wanted to talk to him over voice chat for the very first time, but he didn't show up. I was really confused and I'm now not sure about if it was my fault or if he's cheating on me with another girl. I really love him and I don't want to lose him to some other girl I don't know about. Please, can anyone teach me how to show him that I am serious about this relationship and that I really love him... Submitted February 28, 2021 at 11:55PM Hey guys I think I'm kinda lost with the direction of the relationship of my boyfriend and I.To begin, me F/18 and He M/18 have met on Discord, and after a while we just started to go into love and now we were happily dating for almost 6 m...

Hey there, 1 month ago I met a girl through a dating app and we instantly clicked. We had a three hour video chat where she told me her birthday was coming up. I'm not into astrology at all, but for some reason after this video chat I decided to look up our compatibility through zodiac signs. Turns out were suppose to be "soulmates". Finding this out put the rosiest rose color glasses money can buy on me. I mean I started fantasying and expecting this to lead to something long lasting. A few days go by and I ask to hang out and watch ATLA (we're both fans). We end up cuddling & eventually kissing (I didn't feel any sparks when kissing her but I think it could be because I was sleep deprived and I didn't have a emotional connection to her yet, I had been up for 24 hours straight). We stop short of having sex and I end up staying the night because of my sleep deprivation (scared to drive home). We cuddle in her bed and end up having a honest conversati...

So I (21M) have started going on dates with this childhood friend (22F) since we've both became single. We are over 10 dates in, so during valentines I though I would take her out and get her something to which she agreed. The day came and I presented the flowers + chocolate (typical, I know :P) and asked her to be my valentines, to my surprise, she was extremely hesitant. I didn't get a yes or a no but it was incredibly awkward on the spot. Well I asked again to where she blushingly responded with can I think about it. I thought it was pretty much doomed at this point so I just tried to enjoy our night without making it too awkward. She ended up accepting my gifts but didn't give me an answer to my original question. I thought it was time to move on at this point, but then I received a call a couple days later. She called and said she wasn't sure what I meant when I asked her that...so i told her it was pretty much just asking to be my date for the night. I jokingly ...

Starting a conversation with someone in real life I find quite easy. But starting one online I find quite daunting. What do I say to garantee success? And is flirting on social media different than in real life? Submitted March 01, 2021 at 12:02AM Starting a conversation with someone in real life I find quite easy. But starting one online I find quite daunting.What do I say to garantee success? And is flirting on social media different than in real life?

22F here, for the past 3 and a half years I’ve been single. I’ve had a few flings over this period but the last fling which I had actual feelings for is now coming up to 2 years ago. Around this point whilst things were ending with this fling, something quite traumatic happened to me which really knocked my confidence and gave a lot of fear of intimacy. Since then on, I’ve not slept with anyone and have struggled to find any motivation to form any form of romantic relationships even when I feel lonely and would like to. The last year I’ve really tried to work on myself and my confidence and it has really drastically improved, I know I’m a good looking girl and I’m fun to be around and do get quite a lot of attention from men both online and in person (sorry I know I sound like a bit of a knob here lol), but I have absolutely no desire to continue getting to know any of these people, I’ve been on several dates and they’ve gone well, but as soon as the boy starts to show any interest an...

My boyfriend (23M) and I (22F)broke up about 2 weeks ago and we’re together for a little over a year, he’s the one who ended things because he felt like he needed to work on himself, wanted to meet new people, etc. While I was hurt, I felt like a lot of anxiety that I had been carrying was lifted off my shoulders (our relationship was not perfect by any means and had some toxic moments). We agreed that we would continue to be in each other’s lives and for the first week I felt good. I felt like I was my own person again and had no expectations of when he would text me or what our communication was. Lately he has been calling and texting me more which I’m realizing is giving me anxiety, so I told him we should talk less which he understood. However I can’t shake this feeling that Im still his best friend and person he goes too for things. For context he has a small circle of friends, one close guy friend and a bunch of friends he games with online. But no one he calls when he’s at work...

Do you believe you should only go on a second date with someone only if there was chemistry? I met someone today and he was really nice and the conversation was good but I didn't feel much chemistry. I would like to see him again but don't know if that would be a bad idea since I don't feel a strong connection, granted it was only the first date. Submitted March 01, 2021 at 12:11AM Do you believe you should only go on a second date with someone only if there was chemistry? I met someone today and he was really nice and the conversation was good but I didn't feel much chemistry. I would like to see him again but don't know if that would be a bad idea since I don't feel a strong connection, granted it was only the first date.

Okay so currently I [m19] am dating this girl, lets call her A. [just turned 17] She's a few years younger than me, quite unexperienced and really held back most of the times when it comes to getting closer. I actually quite like her and think she is really cute, but I guess I am the first guy she is really getting more serious with. Now, we've been dating for 2 months already and there is not really anything going forward at the moment. Thing is, I will have my finals in a few months and am going to move away by the end of summer. Therefore we agreed, to atleast give the relationship a shot. I was the one to initially pitch the idea and I kinda talked her into at least trying even tho we know it's going to end not long after. The sticky situation I came to find myself in appeared a few days ago. I met this other girl, let's call her B. She's my age, definetly not unexperienced and in almost every way the complete opposite of A. We talked and on the same evening s...

Yooo this is aesthetic as hell! February 28, 2021 at 11:18PM

I love kissing, mouth, cheek, forehead, shoulder - wherever is exposed really, because I am a hopeless romantic and I like the connection you can feel with someone when you do it. It’s absolutely not a sexual thing for me. More sensual or romantic. However I only ever kiss my partner or people I’ve previously been either aesthetically or romantically attracted to. February 28, 2021 at 11:12PM

I couldn't fit this in, but you don't have to credit me completely, as it is not my character. February 28, 2021 at 11:09PM