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/u/Mr-Rama on What's wrong with people?

I wish I had more to offer them just to say fuck those people September 12, 2021 at 11:49PM

/u/ComedianSad1560 on What's wrong with people?

The children thing hit me on another level. When I say I don't want kids people always say I'll change my mind. It's not even just because I'm ace, why should every woman want to have a child!? September 12, 2021 at 11:48PM

/u/DavidExplorer on So you shave?

I shave every now and then. I used to more often but I think it was hurting my skin due to the lack of hair I actually picked up each time. But yeah, I shave basically everywhere except my head every week or two. (Not all at once though that would take too long lol) September 12, 2021 at 11:47PM

/u/buddeman27 on So you shave?

Oh so you shave? Name every sharp object September 12, 2021 at 11:45PM

Why cant I remember having sex with my ex?

So I’m a 19 year old girl, and I had an almost two year relationship when I was 14-16. I know we had sex, but I can’t remember it at all. I can’t recall even one memory of doing it, Ive been in a relationship since then and had plenty of sex and could remember tons of specific times and details so I don’t understand why I can’t remember anything from before? Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:40AM So I’m a 19 year old girl, and I had an almost two year relationship when I was 14-16. I know we had sex, but I can’t remember it at all. I can’t recall even one memory of doing it, Ive been in a relationship since then and had plenty of sex and could remember tons of specific times and details so I don’t understand why I can’t remember anything from before?

Is it okay to masturbate at school?

I've (13M) jerked off in school restrooms several times before, and was wondering if you guys think that's weird or whether it is okay to do that. I don't make a mess, but IDK, it just feels wrong. Just want to hear your opinions/advice. Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:44AM I've (13M) jerked off in school restrooms several times before, and was wondering if you guys think that's weird or whether it is okay to do that. I don't make a mess, but IDK, it just feels wrong. Just want to hear your opinions/advice.

I get rock hard when a girl cracks her knuckles

I have no idea why but I have always found it to be crazy sexy when a girl gives her knuckles a good crack. I almost immediately get rock hard. Some ways they crack them turn me on more than others as well. I wouldnt necessarily call it a fetish because I still have sex just fine if the girl doesnt do it. I have not currently met anyone else who is the same and I'm starting to think its just me. Guess I'm just curious if other people find this as sexy as I do? Feel free to ask any questions as well. Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:51AM I have no idea why but I have always found it to be crazy sexy when a girl gives her knuckles a good crack. I almost immediately get rock hard. Some ways they crack them turn me on more than others as well. I wouldnt necessarily call it a fetish because I still have sex just fine if the girl doesnt do it. I have not currently met anyone else who is the same and I'm starting to think its just me. Guess I'm just curious if other p...

Post cu(m) drop after ejaculation question.

The last drop of semen that cums out after climaxing. Why is it sometimes sticky/stretchy/ like those toys as kids that were a sticky hand and the material was just as sticky/springy but you would use to fling it at a walls or things. Just curious, I’ve just never run across the answer and it’s been too long to go unsolved. Said you I was trying to describe Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:54AM The last drop of semen that cums out after climaxing.Why is it sometimes sticky/stretchy/ like those toys as kids that were a sticky hand and the material was just as sticky/springy but you would use to fling it at a walls or things.Just curious, I’ve just never run across the answer and it’s been too long to go unsolved.Said you I was trying to describe

Help with hookups?

25f Need advice on how to meet guys for hookups on dating sites, I find it hard cause most guys around my age group always want someone who has kinks or into sub and dom play which isn't my thing. Or they ask for nudes or sexual talk which bores me as most men don't do 99% of what they say they'll do. I just want to set a day and then have a drink and get into it but I feel like everyone now gets put off you the moment you don't send a nude... I've never really done the hookup thing much so I don't have much experience. Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:54AM 25f Need advice on how to meet guys for hookups on dating sites, I find it hard cause most guys around my age group always want someone who has kinks or into sub and dom play which isn't my thing. Or they ask for nudes or sexual talk which bores me as most men don't do 99% of what they say they'll do. I just want to set a day and then have a drink and get into it but I feel like everyone ...

please help

Hi there, so i got a tatt done about 4 days ago and walked into the shop sat down next to her and she was so gorgeous we talked alot about all kinds of stuff she asked my age and if i lived alone she is 2 years older now after i left she told me her insta i followed her and her personal insta too now she did not follow back but she watched my story i texted her thanking her and said she did a great job since she is a apprentice and talked a lil bit about the next piece i wanna get done now its 2 days later she didn't text anything back am i just overthinking and was she just being nice and trying to make the process easier on me ? would love some advice.... :( Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:03AM Hi there, so i got a tatt done about 4 days ago and walked into the shop sat down next to her and she was so gorgeous we talked alot about all kinds of stuff she asked my age and if i lived alone she is 2 years older now after i left she told me her insta i followed her and her p...

When would the Push Pull method not work on a girl?

I've been talking to this girl who I used to casually hook up and hang out with years back, we stopped talking because she wanted a relationship and I didn't, and she would desperately try to make me commit, which didn't end well. Fast forward 3 years later and she messaged me out of the blue and asked if I'd like to hang out. We hung out, had a great conversation, we both had entered into relationships and ended them. Mine a year ago and hers in April. She then invited me back to her place and we slept together and I stayed over. I know that she's interested because she followed up the next day and said we should do it again sometime and that she had fun. I know that she's talking to other men and dating around as she talked about a conflict she had with some other guy she met from tinder. She comes off as very casual through texts and like I'm a friend she just wants to fuck every now and then, when she used to be desperately into me. I don't want...

Tell them you’re in an open relationship. RIGHT away.

I saw someone for four months, and then on and off for two months after that because we weren’t on the same page. He wanted to be fwb; I wanted something more. I’m embarrassed about it looking back, but something never sat right with me. I then find out he has a long-term girlfriend (over a year) and that they’ve been open for a while. Even though I knew it was casual, that made me feel sick to my stomach. I would’ve never gone on a date with him, let alone SLEPT WITH HIM, GIVEN HIM MY TIME, had I known this. I’ve never felt so used in my life. Please please tell the people you’re seeing that you’re partnered, even if it’s casual. Please. You have no idea if they would consent to it. Not after a couple of dates, not after you sleep together. Before. If you’re afraid you’re going to scare them off- that’s the POINT. You’re giving them all the necessary information to make their own choice. Anything else is deception. I still feel nauseous and angry when I think of this person. ...

Got rejected and it was great

Basically got some time to hang out with my crush just the two of us. We were hanging out and talking with great vibes. Near the end I decided it was time to tell her that basically I like her and responded with I have a boyfriend. Then I replied with ok and that I won’t talk to her again about that. But she said she wants to be friends which I think is great. Super cool interesting person. I said thanks for listening because I had been carrying this feelings a little over a week and it’s felt like I was carrying a tremendous energy that now I can release. It’s been a decade since the last time I asked a girl out and the feelings I was experiencing from just knowing of her existence were intense. Thankful that’s past now. Right now im very goal oriented but if I meet another person along the way that’s cool too Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:05AM Basically got some time to hang out with my crush just the two of us. We were hanging out and talking with great vibes. Near t...

Class On Tuesday

I’m bugging out cause a girl that I REALLY like is in one of my classes, and yes we have both been flirting back and forth. Anyways I was with her and few of ours friends when I accidentally got completely wasted. I don’t even remember half the night, I later texted her asking if I could meet to apologize and she said responded “I’m all good, I just need a little space” followed by a fuck ton of thumbs up emojis. Here’s the big issue, I’ve been told that acting cool and not caring is going to make me look better but I just don’t understand how that works. I have class with her on Tuesday and she’s usually there before me and I sit with her, should I get there first and see what she does or just sit by myself? Also when would I know it’s just over and that there’s no chance of getting back to where I was with her? Thank you so much to anyone who can help me, this has been a constant thought in my head for last 4 days and I haven’t been able to really enjoy doing the things I do becau...

I'd like some help 🙂

I'm 17, I live in a fairly small city and I'm about to date one of my old friends, I would say I'm on the far side of the spectrum on being introverted and a major procrastinator, in not bad at making conversations, I'm just really bad at being not being boring. I don't have any money, so I can't afford to go anywhere or do things. We don't go to the same school anymore but we talk online once in a while. I've never gone on a date and don't have any friends, except her Submitted September 13, 2021 at 12:10AM I'm 17, I live in a fairly small city and I'm about to date one of my old friends, I would say I'm on the far side of the spectrum on being introverted and a major procrastinator, in not bad at making conversations, I'm just really bad at being not being boring. I don't have any money, so I can't afford to go anywhere or do things. We don't go to the same school anymore but we talk online once in a while.I'...

/u/EducationalCake5309 on What's wrong with people?

The moment when a boy doesn't want to have sex he becomes a "sissy" or "unmanly"... it's such a shame. September 12, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/BornVolcano on Asexuals who masturbate, what are your emotions/feelings after you’ve finished?

Do people usually have strong emotions attached to it? (Aside from shame or disgust) September 12, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/buddeman27 on So you shave?

I don't shave, but mostly cuz I don't know how Would if I could tho... The hair's annoying... September 12, 2021 at 11:45PM

/u/SilverIce340 on What's wrong with people?

That type of stuff is just so… disgusting. Especially coming from family members and friends???? Like how can anyone say this stuff to an underaged family member, let alone literally anyone??? I’m mad for you, even if you aren’t yourself. And my “emotional support” flair ain’t for show. If you need to just shriek into the void, I’ve got a vacant message inbox. Take care of yourself, stay strong out there. September 12, 2021 at 11:44PM

/u/BornVolcano on Asexuals who masturbate, what are your emotions/feelings after you’ve finished?

Honestly, same. It feels gross and weird after, like I’ve done something awful even though I haven’t. Doesn’t help that growing up, anything to do with sexuality was treated as shameful and disgusting, so I never learned about these things and any time I felt any sexual desire (I’m aegosexual) I’d feel like some disgusting, vile person. Sometimes it feels like I’m scared to give myself the option of being anything but asexual, because of the shame I feel for even thinking about sex. I don’t have anyone I’m comfortable talking about it with, either. It’s so confusing. September 12, 2021 at 11:44PM