Same March 09, 2023 at 12:47AM

I (19yrs old) went out on a tinder date with a guy (30 yrs old). We went to two bars that day and he payed at both places even tho I offered to pay in a second bar. He works as a business consultant and I think he’s earning a nice amount of money. Meanwhile I am an international student in Germany who doesn’t work (My family pays for everything). In Germany it’s a common thing that people split the bill so I don’t know what I should do for the next date. I don’t want him to think that I am using him for money so I thought paying for the second date could be a cute gesture. The previous time tho we went to regular bars but this time he offered to got to a fancy restaurant to drink some cocktails (said that just in case it makes difference haha). Submitted March 09, 2023 at 01:14AM I (19yrs old) went out on a tinder date with a guy (30 yrs old). We went to two bars that day and he payed at both places even tho I offered to pay in a second bar. He works as a business consultant and...

I have recently joined a company and there's a coworker who sits in the same office space as me. Our roles are not at all related so we have no interaction except in the kitchen and common area. One of my coworkers indicated that she could be into me because shes introverted and does not engage in any sort of conversation if it's work related. So she would come up to me and ask about my day and stuff like that. Any tips on how to take it further from there and what sort of conversations I should be engaging in with her? Submitted March 09, 2023 at 12:14AM I have recently joined a company and there's a coworker who sits in the same office space as me. Our roles are not at all related so we have no interaction except in the kitchen and common area. One of my coworkers indicated that she could be into me because shes introverted and does not engage in any sort of conversation if it's work related. So she would come up to me and ask about my day and stuff like that....

This explains exactly what I've been trying to figure out about my own feelings on this stuff, thank you March 08, 2023 at 11:08PM

Hello, you touched lots of topics in your post, so I don't really know which I should respond to, or in what order, but, regarding your epiphany, and this is only my personal point of view of course there's no right or wrong, but I feel like : -people do have sex and do want to have sex because it's fun? Maybe I just don't understand the concept of sex but think about casual hookups for example, it's seems to me that it's just for fun. I also think people can have sex to bond with a partner, like it's a part of creating an intimate relationship with someone (for some people at least, not everyone) but I don't know if there's an intrinsic desire to have a sexual relationship with someone (at least it's not just that, it's part of something bigger), I feel it's more like what you said in the beginning, having a romantic relionship with someone and sex is just a part of it (for allosexuals at least I guess). I've myself been questionin...