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/u/Iamakitty30 on Just...wow, this comment(tw aphobia)

Or trees. Somehow trees made it on there. My lawd, look at the curves on that evergreen. February 01, 2023 at 11:59PM

why are men on dating apps flakey??

what is the fucking pattern with men scheduling dates with me and flaking an hour before?! i dont get it?! im so fucking over it. and its always some bullshit excuse!! do they do this to boost their ego or something?? like wtf is the point of asking me out, just to cancel. not once, not twice, not even three times, but the fourth cancellation this week. if your not fucking attracted to me then why even waste your time to exchange numbers and set up a date?! im so fucking over men on dating apps. and then they complain they dont get any dates. i fucking wonder why. Submitted February 02, 2023 at 12:01AM what is the fucking pattern with men scheduling dates with me and flaking an hour before?! i dont get it?! im so fucking over it. and its always some bullshit excuse!! do they do this to boost their ego or something?? like wtf is the point of asking me out, just to cancel. not once, not twice, not even three times, but the fourth cancellation this week. if your not fucking attract...

Is it bad that he won't tell his family that he's having a date with me?

I've been talking with him for months so I asked him about meeting in person. He said yes. But he won't tell his parents about it? I will tell mine because it would be my first date. So is it okay to expect him to do the same? We both are 24. Submitted February 02, 2023 at 12:04AM I've been talking with him for months so I asked him about meeting in person. He said yes. But he won't tell his parents about it? I will tell mine because it would be my first date. So is it okay to expect him to do the same? We both are 24.

Absolutely no game

F 31 Lmao I gotta laugh at myself with this one because, I'm very attractive, from my complexion to my curves, i get stared down a lot by men , no one ever says anything to me and when I am talking to someone it's either someone from a place I frequent or online. I very rarely get asked out on dates and when I do obviously they want to just sleep with me after..The last guy I dated , we never did anything, we never made it to that point. He was very sweet, he talked to me about plans where he wanted to take me but it just didn't happen. He was going through a rough time which he did communicate that. I just have 0 game even though I'm very attractive, 1st dates never turn into 2nds + I've been ghosted n played a bunch.... & No I don't always sleep with the guy, my younger self has but I've learned a bit from that and I've set boundaries, the last guy I saw a few times bc he worked at this store I'd go to & he hugged me n would kiss me on the...

need help

So i was in a one year relationship with this 24 women hidden in the name of B, me 24 male, met her in our company, we started as friends and couple months in we started dating, 3rd month in to our relationship never really thought that it would be this long since im on my single phase and she just invited me over to fucked at her apartment and that just how we started. During this time period sex was great and all but i was in denial that i really like her since ive been in a bad relationship before and it broke me down and as a coping mechanism i never truly open myself, we got into a really huge fight since ive been lying to her that im still going out with my girl bestfriend but it all casual no intimacy so closest intimacy we do is a hug. My gf found out about this and saw picture of me and my girl best friend in my phone but we never broke up since we also found out that she was pregnant and we decided that we are gonna stay together until we figure out what to do, and later we ...

What does it mean when a guy says you’re “hard to get”?

I know the term playing hard to get but not “you’re hard to get”, things are weird between us we are friends but things feel flirty at times. He gets with other girls but has never made a move or obvious flirted with me. He said this comment when we were talking about dating. Submitted February 02, 2023 at 12:09AM I know the term playing hard to get but not “you’re hard to get”, things are weird between us we are friends but things feel flirty at times.He gets with other girls but has never made a move or obvious flirted with me.He said this comment when we were talking about dating.

Hard to read situation combined with probable overthinking

I'm (40m) have been dating a woman (34) for the last 2 months-ish. Up until the past weekend things have been fairly casual but we get on amazingly well and I really like her. Last Saturday she came over to my place with her dog, I made dinner, she made dessert we watched and movie and we slept together. She gave every indication that she had a great time and we were very intimate with each other right up until the time she left early Sunday morning. Now this week has been unusually quiet on the messaging front (hasn't message first, doesn't really try to keep the conversation going) and she also said she was too busy to meet up this week. Now, a similar situation happened about a month ago when we first kissed - She went quiet, turned down a date without a reschedule proposal - and I thought she had lost interest which obviously was not the case that time. I will say that she hasn't been the best texter that I have dated and I'm accustomed to much more communica...

How to adopt a more positive mindset with dating 19M

There’s this girl I think is really cute and we’re kind of friends, but I’m scared to take things to the next level. I’ve been rejected, ghosted, tricked, and even flat out insulted by every woman I’ve ever gone after. After all of this I’ve had a pretty negative mindset about dating in general. I want to date her(casually, I’m not ready for full on commitment) but I’m scared of another bad experience or repeat of the past. How can I go about this and successfully try to go about flirting and seducing her and shed my preconceived notions about flirting with women. Submitted February 02, 2023 at 12:16AM There’s this girl I think is really cute and we’re kind of friends, but I’m scared to take things to the next level. I’ve been rejected, ghosted, tricked, and even flat out insulted by every woman I’ve ever gone after. After all of this I’ve had a pretty negative mindset about dating in general. I want to date her(casually, I’m not ready for full on commitment) but I’m scared of a...