So I (16m) asked my friend to talk to her (16f) about it so I could know without embarrassing myself we’ve been friends for a while and he told her that I like her and her response was oh that’s a little bit random when did that start he said it started a few months ago she said, “oh he’s had a crush on me for a few months” then she said, “oh that wasn’t expected but that’s cool.” what does that mean? Submitted May 11, 2023 at 01:12AM So I (16m) asked my friend to talk to her (16f) about it so I could know without embarrassing myself we’ve been friends for a while and he told her that I like her and her response was oh that’s a little bit random when did that start he said it started a few months ago she said, “oh he’s had a crush on me for a few months” then she said, “oh that wasn’t expected but that’s cool.” what does that mean?

Ah, what a complicated subject. The way I understand it, there have even been official studies into this - studies which as I recall, proved there's only maybe less than 50% accuracy in humans' ability to guess or discern whether someone is flirting with them or even with one of their friends. So, yeah. Sometimes it's just a bunch of guessing. May 11, 2023 at 12:13AM

...Yes, it does. Pretending otherwise requires you to pretend all sexual activity has risk of pregnancy and to pretend that everyone has the same perception of that activity. Different people perceive the same activity different ways. Take any activity, and some people enjoy it, some don't, and some are indifferent about it, etc. Why do you immediately assume risk of pregnancy is the only risk factor to be considered here? Pregnancy is the least risky part of this action and the one with the most responses and least stigma attached. As for how someone "FEELS" about it is just one factor in risk assessment of a situation. Just because you may enjoy an activity does not mean you will engage in it without doing a risk assessment first. Take skydiving for example, no matter how much you may enjoy it you will always stop and check that conditions are acceptable before partaking in this activity BECAUSE you know how serious the risk is. And I am NOT conflating orientatio

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