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Talking to women

Do women think all guys just want to get to know them for sex? I mean it's nice and all but I have this feeling every time I try to make conversation. It's very awkward and difficult to move passed this self imposing obstacle. I think this is one reason I've stayed with my toxic ex for so long. I don't like feeling like I stand out if that makes any sense. I think this line of thinking has caused alot of missed opportunities. I've tried keeping conversations going, thinking of things to say or do but I feel like I'm just grasping at straws here with little success. Most conversations always seem to end up with hi how are you? Good and you? That's about it, not very conducive in getting to know people. Especially women. What do yall think? Any advice would help. I wanted to get women's perspectives on this issue. Submitted July 03, 2022 at 01:13AM Do women think all guys just want to get to know them for sex? I mean it's nice and all but I ha...

/u/blaringmicrowave on This may sound a little bit off but as far as statistics claim, most aces are women - how so? Why are there fewer male asexuals?

Some men might just say there with holding the urge to have sex for God, body conservation, ect when they are technically ace. July 02, 2022 at 11:36PM

Confusing behavior from close male friend

Me (26F) and this guy (28M) have been good friends for the better part of two years - I’m the closest female friend he’s ever had. We met in a graduate program and became friends as a result of initially studying and working together almost everyday. We now also share several hobbies and mutual friends. He and I have never been single at the same time. I just got out of a long term relationship and he has been seeing his partner for a few months now. Generally speaking he takes the role of my “partner” for all intents and purposes. He takes me home after a night out. He comforts me when I’m sad. Buys me drinks and lunches and snacks. Cuddles me on the rare occasion. Volunteers to do handy work in my house. He also seems to finds things to hate about every guy that’s into me or flirting with me. Example: “that guy is definitely flirting with you. But he seems like a dick because of X reason.” He has also refused to introduce me to his girlfriend, even when I ran into them in the str...

/u/GloomyIRL on ♤ ace representation in the new sims trailer!

They added LGBTQIA+ Nails and added custom Pronouns!! (Idk if there is anything else in the base game update) July 02, 2022 at 11:35PM

/u/Sulpheris on the asexual urge to be sexually attractive to everyone just so you can reject them😍

I wear a lot of clothes that some would consider revealing or scandalous. I think so little about sexuality that i forgot people think about clothing as anything other than “nice looking” or aesthetically pleasing July 02, 2022 at 11:33PM

/u/AuntChelle11 on Am I ace or grey? (The second one is the template if u wanna do it)

Why? It isn't an ace test. Any orientation could have these answers July 02, 2022 at 11:30PM