How to solve this issue... Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:20PM How to solve this issue...

I’d really love for me (m) and my gf to experiment with using our fingertips during all phases of sex to add sensuality. For instance, slowly running my fingertips all over her body while she wears a blindfold. Any other “tips” for us or suggestions to try? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:22PM I’d really love for me (m) and my gf to experiment with using our fingertips during all phases of sex to add sensuality.For instance, slowly running my fingertips all over her body while she wears a blindfold.Any other “tips” for us or suggestions to try?

It started to happen a couple of years ago or so but recently it’s ramped up to multiple times daily occurrence. I’ll (26F) think about something like my boyfriend screwing me real fucking good with his cock and sucking on my nipples at the same time and it’s like my brain wants it so much and remembers how amazing it feels that I get this squeezing wave of sensation that starts in my pelvis/tailbone area and travels up my back. I even let out involuntarily moans sometimes. Does anyone else get like this just thinking about sex? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:36PM It started to happen a couple of years ago or so but recently it’s ramped up to multiple times daily occurrence. I’ll (26F) think about something like my boyfriend screwing me real fucking good with his cock and sucking on my nipples at the same time and it’s like my brain wants it so much and remembers how amazing it feels that I get this squeezing wave of sensation that starts in my pelvis/tailbone area and travels u...

He rushes through foreplay. He cums quick and doesn’t compensate. He gives me head maybe once a month. And if he gives me head he usually wants something in return ASAP. I orgasm w him maybe twice a month and he cums from me at least like 10 times a month. I give him head, hand jobs,ride him. He doesn’t ever reciprocate the same energy I give him. I’m convinced he wants to be this way bc I even said something to him ab it nicely and it wasnt ego crushing to him or anything. Not that I wanted to hurt him but damn. We’ve been together four years and it’s been this way for awhile. I even pondered the thought of if my vagina is gross or I have poor hygiene or something, it’s not. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:42PM He rushes through foreplay. He cums quick and doesn’t compensate. He gives me head maybe once a month. And if he gives me head he usually wants something in return ASAP. I orgasm w him maybe twice a month and he cums from me at least like 10 times a month. I give him head...

For some context we have been dating for around 5 months now, I am also female and a little on the young side at 19 years old. We are both very open sexually - I even shared my first threesome [FMF] with her, which is also the first time I had sex with a man. Her experience and drive definitely comes with benefits - she is very well practiced and quickly figured out what I like, we are able to communicate openly about the things we enjoy, don't enjoy, what we want to try etc and it all feels very natural. She has introduced me to many new things sexually and my view on sex has changed drastically in a positive way. However it also makes me feel uneasy at times. The majority of the people she calls her 'friends' are actually people that she has slept with in the past, which makes me uncomfortable regardless of how platonic their relationship now is. Whenever she mentions a new name the first thing on my mind is whether this is someone that she has slept with or not, and I...

My husband and I are both very adventurous sexually. We have tried a lot as a couple, and with other partners. Since we are both very adventurous, there isn't much we can think of that we haven't tried. And there isn't much that we aren't open to trying at least once. My question to all of you fine people, is what would be on your sex bucket list? What are some things you would do if nothing was off limits? We have an open marriage, and we are both heteroflexible. We like to play with people together, and as individuals. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:47PM My husband and I are both very adventurous sexually. We have tried a lot as a couple, and with other partners. Since we are both very adventurous, there isn't much we can think of that we haven't tried. And there isn't much that we aren't open to trying at least once.My question to all of you fine people, is what would be on your sex bucket list? What are some things you would do if nothing was...

Looking for something thats good for finding casual hookups or sex.... not having much luck on tinder or doublelist so far. Any suggestions has anything replaced the old backpage? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:47PM Looking for something thats good for finding casual hookups or sex.... not having much luck on tinder or doublelist so far. Any suggestions has anything replaced the old backpage?

Not looking for fap material, that's disgusting. Just curious as to how far you've gone with your SO Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:47PM Not looking for fap material, that's disgusting.Just curious as to how far you've gone with your SO

I was shopping online and stumbled upon some numbing spray for blow jobs/to mitigate gagging. Have you used this? What was your experience like? Thanks! Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:47PM I was shopping online and stumbled upon some numbing spray for blow jobs/to mitigate gagging. Have you used this? What was your experience like?Thanks!

I know it’s a little corny sounding, but my boyfriend and I usually start off sex with “let’s be sweet and gentle,” and before too long it’s... not quite that way. What are some tips/positions/ideas for keeping it sweet and seductive instead of just pounding away? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:48PM I know it’s a little corny sounding, but my boyfriend and I usually start off sex with “let’s be sweet and gentle,” and before too long it’s... not quite that way. What are some tips/positions/ideas for keeping it sweet and seductive instead of just pounding away?

My Tinder date is huge! Like 9 inches, thick, huge. The first couple times we had sex I enjoyed it, but also struggled to handle it and he definitely had to hold back. I kept trying to relax enough to enjoy it but that wasn't the answer. I've been doing pelvic floor yoga for a minute know and you practice kegels and squeeze and lift with your abs. Fast forward to the fourth time we have sex and it finally occurred to me to "lift." I was able to lift my pelvic floor with my abs and straighten out my vaginal canal. The difference was immediate, it was suddenly so much BETTER! He noticed right away and yelled out "oh this is GOOD PUSSY!" Shit got crazy after that, so deep! Great ab workout too! Anyways it feel like I'm walking around with a vagina made out of gold. It feels really great to be that in control of my body too. I can't wait to see what else I can do! Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:51PM My Tinder date is huge! Like 9 inches, thick, ...

Girls have told me I’m handsome and sexy but my disability makes me self-conscious. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:55PM Girls have told me I’m handsome and sexy but my disability makes me self-conscious.

So as a trans male, I personally don’t like the idea of being penetrated anywhere but my ass. But tbh I’ve never even put a finger up there and I’m super scared of it hurting, especially with a full sized penis or dildo. Where do I even start when tryin anal? Submitted April 23, 2020 at 12:00AM So as a trans male, I personally don’t like the idea of being penetrated anywhere but my ass. But tbh I’ve never even put a finger up there and I’m super scared of it hurting, especially with a full sized penis or dildo. Where do I even start when tryin anal?

Hi, I'm 21 years old and have no idea what I'm doing relationship-wise. I fear intimacy, yet long for it. I want to be loved by someone, but find it very hard to love someone myself. I'm quite emotionless (didn't cry or really feel hurt at the funeral of my grandma or when losing my favourite cat and never cry over movies or anything). I have never been in a relationship and had platonic sex once, which I didn't enjoy at all (the person it was with is someone I don't like at all and I hate myself for it that she was my first time). I have friends but the coronavirus shows how bad I am at maintaining friends. Since the start I have seen only one of my friends. They're good friends, but they have other friend groups as well which I don't really, making me feel lonely all the time. I have waves of depression (now is one haha) where I just regret so much in my life and I believe this feeling will never leave me. I was born into this state of mood swings....

Shit HURTS. We’ve talked for like 2-3 weeks but it was intense talking which probably is the reason it became boring to her or whatever she decided was valid enough to ghost me. Anywho we talked about my bday a bit before and I have her on my snap so that little cake isn’t going anywhere ✌🏻 But it’s definitely a sign that shit is indeed fucked. She can view my story and leave me on delivered (why don’t people just open the damn snap and move on? I get the point but how doesn’t that notification bother you!?) anyways, my vent is also advice- If they show you consecutive signs of not knowing how to be mature, or they don’t show definite signals that they’re interested in you, look at it as a blessing and hit the road. Think of everything passionate you have to say. Imagine spilling it to someone who would respond with “cool” or “nice” or some other bullshit non interactive text. DONT GIVE THEM THE INSIGHT OF KNOWING WHAT MAKES YOU, YOU. They don’t care. So save your passion for some...

Corona isn’t going away any time soon it appears — what are your plans with respect to dating? Are people relying solely on OLD? Can you meet someone and date them for months without having met them in person? I’m just curious to see what other people’s dating plans are if the traditional in-person date (going out to a restaurant/bar/club/event/something involving lots of people) is unavailable for months on end. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:32PM Corona isn’t going away any time soon it appears — what are your plans with respect to dating? Are people relying solely on OLD? Can you meet someone and date them for months without having met them in person? I’m just curious to see what other people’s dating plans are if the traditional in-person date (going out to a restaurant/bar/club/event/something involving lots of people) is unavailable for months on end.

Not like physically sick or anything like that, it just feels like a drag when I develop feelings for someone. There are relationships that I MAYBE could make happen but when I start thinking about actually being in a relationship with someone I just start instantly dreading it. I’ve only had one serious relationship and it didn’t end very well and halfway through it I got really tired of having to message someone every 5 minutes and FaceTime every night. It just wasn’t what I wanted. It’s not that I don’t want a relationship or anything. It’s that as a quiet person I like having time to focus on myself. And honestly, I feel like I have a tough time being myself as it is and that gets so much worse in relationships I feel. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:32PM Not like physically sick or anything like that, it just feels like a drag when I develop feelings for someone.There are relationships that I MAYBE could make happen but when I start thinking about actually being in a rela...

Long story short in early March I met a dude ( we are both 27) on a dating app. We have yet to meet in real life (covid19) so we have been texting, talking on the phone and face timing. We literally have talked everyday for a month straight. The only thing that makes me nervous is he is far too attractive for me. I am not pretty or thin (full disclosure I weight 190 pounds) and I keep psyching myself up that when we actually meet he will he disgusted and run for the hills. I just cant understand why someone like him would be interested in me. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:32PM Long story short in early March I met a dude ( we are both 27) on a dating app. We have yet to meet in real life (covid19) so we have been texting, talking on the phone and face timing. We literally have talked everyday for a month straight. The only thing that makes me nervous is he is far too attractive for me. I am not pretty or thin (full disclosure I weight 190 pounds) and I keep psyching myself up t...

So i matched with this guy on face book dating. Everything went great and we were talking for like almost a week but then poof he never responded back to my last text. It has been three days now and am questioning whether i did something to turn him off or if he has just been talking to other people. The dude is drop dead gorgeous and i questioned myself as to what he would see in me(a bbw thats part of the 185 plus crowd). Should i try and send him a text or message or just let him be? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:39PM So i matched with this guy on face book dating. Everything went great and we were talking for like almost a week but then poof he never responded back to my last text. It has been three days now and am questioning whether i did something to turn him off or if he has just been talking to other people. The dude is drop dead gorgeous and i questioned myself as to what he would see in me(a bbw thats part of the 185 plus crowd). Should i try and send him a text or m...

Women, when your with a group of friends and one of them likes a guy, why do y’all do “shit” test? Why do y’all go through this process of “approving” him? Just why? Also what does it mean when they guy is hanging with y’all and y’all as a group share y’all a drink with him? Or just a random person in the group (not the girl he likes) shares a drink with him? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:42PM Women, when your with a group of friends and one of them likes a guy, why do y’all do “shit” test? Why do y’all go through this process of “approving” him? Just why? Also what does it mean when they guy is hanging with y’all and y’all as a group share y’all a drink with him? Or just a random person in the group (not the girl he likes) shares a drink with him?

I messed up too early with this guy. Is it possible to fix things in the future? I fucked up with him and I know I have to let go. I’m not planning on contact him or begging for him. I do my best to not be clingy, but I think I might’ve made myself too available for him. I have a hard time opening up at first and I’m pretty sure he thinks I’m boring. I don’t want him to have this impression of me forever. I know I’m better than this and we connected so well at first. I really do believe something could’ve come out of this, but I understand it wasn’t meant to be right now or maybe even ever. I’m just wondering if anyone has had similar experiences to this, and after a while reconnected with that person. Did they change their opinion on you? Could this ever be a positive outcome? Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:46PM I messed up too early with this guy. Is it possible to fix things in the future?I fucked up with him and I know I have to let go. I’m not planning on contact him or...

so my friend (m17) broke up with his girlfriend not too long ago and is so heartbroken, he says that he can’t get over her no matter what, I want to help him but i don’t what what to say or do? does anyone have any advice for him or how to help him? I’m afraid he might try to hurt himself Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:48PM so my friend (m17) broke up with his girlfriend not too long ago and is so heartbroken, he says that he can’t get over her no matter what, I want to help him but i don’t what what to say or do? does anyone have any advice for him or how to help him? I’m afraid he might try to hurt himself

When we first met, there was a real chance of us dating. He indicated clear interest but because of some unresolved fears on my part, I pushed him decisively into friendship territory. It was immaturely done but I hadn’t done a lot of the work I’m now doing. To clarify, he’s very marriage-minded. We remained good friends and I think he would still be interested but I honestly do not currently have any of the skills to steer something into relationship territory. I don’t want to lapse into playing games but I also don’t know what to say. We also share a close friendship circle and I don’t want to make things uncomfortable for either of us. Lockdown also means that communication will be via tech for a while. I didn’t realise how deeply afraid of rejection I am. Not so much at the surface level. But when it’s someone I really care about. Any advice is appreciated. Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:48PM When we first met, there was a real chance of us dating. He indicated clear inte...