When the girl you’ve been talking to doesn’t wish you a happy birthday...

Shit HURTS. We’ve talked for like 2-3 weeks but it was intense talking which probably is the reason it became boring to her or whatever she decided was valid enough to ghost me. Anywho we talked about my bday a bit before and I have her on my snap so that little cake isn’t going anywhere ✌🏻

But it’s definitely a sign that shit is indeed fucked. She can view my story and leave me on delivered (why don’t people just open the damn snap and move on? I get the point but how doesn’t that notification bother you!?) anyways, my vent is also advice-

If they show you consecutive signs of not knowing how to be mature, or they don’t show definite signals that they’re interested in you, look at it as a blessing and hit the road.

Think of everything passionate you have to say. Imagine spilling it to someone who would respond with “cool” or “nice” or some other bullshit non interactive text. DONT GIVE THEM THE INSIGHT OF KNOWING WHAT MAKES YOU, YOU. They don’t care. So save your passion for someone else who’ll return that energy. Think of important day like your birthday or a big day for your life and realize they won’t even give you 5 seconds to say happy birthday, or congratulate you. Give them opportunities to show you why they’re not the right choice. They haven’t responded or EVEN opened your message? It’s been 3 days? Imagine dating someone that can do that and have no remorse. Sounds shitty right? So believe what they show you.

I hope everyone else that’s having a big day isn’t weighed down by unreciprocated feelings. Enjoy what you’ve been given or awarded, enjoy your day in general.



Submitted April 22, 2020 at 11:25PM

Shit HURTS. We’ve talked for like 2-3 weeks but it was intense talking which probably is the reason it became boring to her or whatever she decided was valid enough to ghost me. Anywho we talked about my bday a bit before and I have her on my snap so that little cake isn’t going anywhere ✌🏻But it’s definitely a sign that shit is indeed fucked. She can view my story and leave me on delivered (why don’t people just open the damn snap and move on? I get the point but how doesn’t that notification bother you!?) anyways, my vent is also advice-If they show you consecutive signs of not knowing how to be mature, or they don’t show definite signals that they’re interested in you, look at it as a blessing and hit the road.Think of everything passionate you have to say. Imagine spilling it to someone who would respond with “cool” or “nice” or some other bullshit non interactive text. DONT GIVE THEM THE INSIGHT OF KNOWING WHAT MAKES YOU, YOU. They don’t care. So save your passion for someone else who’ll return that energy. Think of important day like your birthday or a big day for your life and realize they won’t even give you 5 seconds to say happy birthday, or congratulate you. Give them opportunities to show you why they’re not the right choice. They haven’t responded or EVEN opened your message? It’s been 3 days? Imagine dating someone that can do that and have no remorse. Sounds shitty right? So believe what they show you.I hope everyone else that’s having a big day isn’t weighed down by unreciprocated feelings. Enjoy what you’ve been given or awarded, enjoy your day in general.
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