lol people thinking its ok to comment on things they dont understand. Imagine if this was any other sexuality? If it was, that reply would be deemed bigoted. April 14, 2023 at 12:53AM

The last time I posted here I was drunk trying to cope with the rejection from a woman who I thought was a great fit for me. I haven't been drinking much since then outside of a occasional party. Months has gone by since that incident and I've tried to put myself out there more, but my bad luck is still going strong. I'm a 21 (soon to be 22 in a few months) year old man who is still struggling like I was back in middle school through high school. For a while now, I have avoided dating and spent my time working, doing college assignments, and working on creative projects for the group I'm in. I have been in relationships before, but they are extremely short lived and I don't know if I should count them as relationships or not. With all the stuff I have put up with for nearly a decade, I have little of any energy to be upset by it. I'm not trying to make this a "woe is me and nothing will work out for me" post. I just think that pursuing romantic relat...

(31 F) I’ve struggled with my relationship with food and periods of drastic weight gain and loss my whole life. For instance, last year I was in the best shape I’ve likely ever been in, but after some very persistent depressive episodes + other factors, I gained a significant amount of weight back. I know I can get back into shape, but things have been hard and it will take time. My question is, how do you deal with dating when your weight fluctuates? I hope to not deal with this forever, but what if I do? Does it mean I should expect someone to leave as soon as my body changes again? Should I even try to date before I lose the weight? I hold myself back from dating, but as a human there’s a part of me that will always want to love and be loved. I don’t want to end up making someone feel trapped if my body changes, and I don’t want to put myself through another failed fling. I know there are guys that are still interested, because I still get hit on on occasion. But I’ve also noticed ...

Jst after other people's opinions please... I'm a year out of a long term r.ship and have been messaging a guy from a dating app I joined in a moment of madness. Seems legit, we have smiliar histories, interests.. He co-parents 3 kids with an ex from what he's said... He wants to meet in person, he seems very keen on me, but when I asked if I could look him up on FB just to get a better idea of who he is he said no because "he gets tagged in stuff all the time (by baby mama) and hasn't changed anything in ages (I'm guessing he means r.ship status?) and his page is more for family to keep up with the kids and he'd rather keep that part of his life seperate". Won't tell me his surname and has yet to reply when I asked where he works... (we live in the same town) Run for the hills or see where it goes? Neither of us are looking for anything serious right now but I tend to be a little suspicious of people's agendas in general so I can't decid...

Too bad Clean the hive or be ejected April 13, 2023 at 11:10PM