So a girl and I are test subjects (guinea pigs) for this experiment. Over the last day and a half we've been talking here and there. We really had good chem when we met; so I asked her out for lunch after our next experiment test. She agreed, and I would like to know how to not mess up. She's really nice, in general her personality projects warmth you could say. Any comments on what to and not to do. Bonus info: we are both undergraduates; we are 19, havent asked her her age - "hahahaha" Thank you and Thanks Reddit Also hmmm, if you can give a lil' upvote the more feedback the better. P.S.: The fact she said yes just made me so happy, its awesome. Submitted October 31, 2019 at 12:12AM So a girl and I are test subjects (guinea pigs) for this experiment. Over the last day and a half we've been talking here and there. We really had good chem when we met; so I asked her out for lunch after our next experiment test. She agreed, and I would like to know ...

Here’s the rundown. October 2014 I took a chance on dating someone from work. She happened to live on campus at the same Uni I went to which made things really easy for us. This story a bit strange but I think you’ll see why I’m fucked up still. We were together for about a year. Other than a few differences in our music tastes and religious backgrounds we were a solid couple. She was new to my city and I sort of obliged to take her around and we would go out and do random things the first couple of weeks. She signed a lease with her ex-boyfriend during this time. Before she moved here she was in a relationship with him but she was very transparent with me about the whole situation. He was rarely an issue and she practically lived at my house while we were dating. Anyways, after the first few weeks we started having sex and things were getting... wild to say the least. The sex was really good... like unbelievably amazing. This is something that has made it hard to move on from thi...

I’ve been on and off with this guy who I have absolutely loved from the second I saw him. Since then, there are a few things that happened which made us go out separate ways but it’s always been his choice to separate. one time he even just disappeared because of an argument we had gotten into. He’s broken my heart more than once and it always seems like my fault or he’s paranoid and doesn’t trust me (our last falling out he went through my phone) I might add he is bipolar. I can’t seem to let him go he is the best love I’ve ever had despite certain things that happened between us. We have been hanging recently not sure what to expect of it. At what point am I supposed to walk away? Submitted October 31, 2019 at 12:24AM I’ve been on and off with this guy who I have absolutely loved from the second I saw him. Since then, there are a few things that happened which made us go out separate ways but it’s always been his choice to separate. one time he even just disappeared because of...

Hello guys, In short, I am 5'6 not the tallest man on earth. I have an average build and I believe I look average in all. I am successful though and that has caused me many issues. I often find myself in situations where women (mostly taller than me) really look as if they were flirting with me. I often find myself wondering is she flirting or just being friendly? No way that's too friendly she must be flirting... why me? I don't think I'm that good looking... is it because I have money? How did she find out? etc. I never dress too flashy or show off just an average looking guy between the crowed I even use public transport don't own a car. I have not dated for years and last time I was in a relationship when I was 15 still in school living with my parents I am 25 now. I'm kind of funny and genuine but been told that I'm eccentric in some way. I'm always afraid of starting a relationship assuming that I will be dumped later I guess I'm very soft ab...

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I tend to wear baggy clothing, jeans, sweaters (yay sweater weather), and tights if I do wear dresses/skirts (even in summer). I feel like my current 'style' has developed because I'm normally in casual environments at work or when I go out. But also I've also been ogled and groped before because people got stupid ideas from looking at me, so I feel like me being a woman with "noticeable assets" influences my choice more than my asexuality. I'd actually love to expand my style to include more stylish but not traditionally 'revealling' clothing so I can express myself and not feel unsafe at the same time. October 31, 2019 at 12:04AM

I've(20f) been in the same sort of situation with my partner(20m) + still do feel some guilt. We started dating in highschool and I didn't realise I was ace until about 2 years into dating him. I thought I was just scared to have sex and it would go away if I pushed it. It's our first real relationship for both of us and neither of us have ever had a sexual relationship before this. We've been together for almost 4 years now. It's been 2 years since I realised I was ace and came out to him and he is my best friend and the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Your partner's an adult. It's not up to you to decide whether you're robbing him of sexual experience or if you'd be better off apart for his sake. If you're worried about it, talk to him. Figure out what your boundaries are with sex (for example: I'm incredibly uncomfortable with receiving but if I'm in the right headspace I'm happy to give. It's completely fi...

I've (27M) been pursuing this long distance non-relationship romantic fling with a woman (31F) going on 6 months now. We met at a wedding and hit things off, danced, and made out quite a bit. I got her number and after the wedding we started chatting. We were quite infatuated with one another, despite being over 2500 miles away from one another. She would send me snaps and texts almost constantly. She was incredibly sweet and very very attractive - easily a 9 and exactly my type: a petite but curvy blonde with incredible eyes. After a couple of weeks I invited her to see me and she said "Maybe, I'll have to look into it". I replied "No worries, I know it's a lot to ask so just let me know" I didn't think much of it, but little did I know this was going to be the story of our relationship. I would ask to see her and she would string me along or flake out. I never did hear back about that specific date, but I asked her to be my +1 to a wedding in my...

In 3 months we have been on 5 dates since we met in July. I have bad anxiety and I feel like I am catching up feelings. We are sorta dating but without a real label atm. This guy has shown lots of interest in me and he seems to be a great guy but I have this paranoia that he is going to lose interest after a while especially after sex. Initially we thought of staying friends and gave me the idea that he didn't want to date for some reason but then he changed his mind and I sorta did too. I had a phase where I thought I could keep it casual or fwb but I realized that if there's actual dating I get scared of catching up feeling or getting rejected. He showed all the way possible that he is not interested just for sex, he said he likes me a lot or too much and cares about my feelings etc He talk and lot and he complimented my personality a lot etc, he has been a gentleman until now. I do feel physically attracted to him but I feel super anxious so relaxing is hard...last ti...

I'm a 30 year old Male who has not dated or even hooked up with anyone for close too 12 years now. I have just recently lost over 130lbs since December of 2018 and decided its time to get back out there again. My appearance and confidence has drastically changed since the weight loss. I have always been athletic and funny and not a sloppy fat guy. I have had many females straight up ask me out in those 12 years but I just made lame excuse after lame excuse to not date or hang with anyone. But now that I'm trying to get out there again and feel much better about myself my brain went full insane with overthinking everything!!! Is this a date: I started a new job in March and right away hit it off with a few people. One a female who I have always thought attractive but was still not ready to date/chill especially with a co worker. She was the one who asked for my number first back then. We really only ever talked in work. We went out for drinks in a group one night and a smalle...

i recently started dating this guy, we're on date 4 at this point. we've got A LOT of similar interests and i find him easy to talk to. he seems genuinely like a pretty nice guy. theres just one issue and its that he talks non stop. i dont think he can help it as hes got some severe ADD and i just dont feel right asking him to stop or change either. however a few hours into a date i feel completely drained and exhausted and need to lay down. but the next day i want to see him again? Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:42PM i recently started dating this guy, we're on date 4 at this point. we've got A LOT of similar interests and i find him easy to talk to. he seems genuinely like a pretty nice guy. theres just one issue and its that he talks non stop. i dont think he can help it as hes got some severe ADD and i just dont feel right asking him to stop or change either. however a few hours into a date i feel completely drained and exhausted and need to lay down. but t...

I'm not a needy guy, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship. But I have no interest in having flings with women, you're either a friend or a potential girlfriend. If its not genuine then I'd rather have blue balls. I've prevented many sexual encounters because I just dont find it deep enough. Seems like I'm in the minority for guys Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:46PM I'm not a needy guy, I'm not in a rush to get into a relationship. But I have no interest in having flings with women, you're either a friend or a potential girlfriend. If its not genuine then I'd rather have blue balls. I've prevented many sexual encounters because I just dont find it deep enough.Seems like I'm in the minority for guys

Not sure if I should be direct, or use a more subtle flirtatious approach? Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:47PM Not sure if I should be direct, or use a more subtle flirtatious approach?

First of all, I want to say I hate that I'm even writing this post. I've never chased a girl with a boyfriend my entire life, because I genuinely think that's unfair to both of them. But here I am. I'm an exchange student and I still have almost three months before going home. I was really loving my time here, before I met this girl. I'm not going to say anything about her, but we immediately hit it off and honestly, I just fell for her. Then I discovered she has a boyfriend. And I really tried to forget about her, I really did. But I couldn't, because we have the same friends here and I basically see her every day. It's been almost a month and nothing changed. I know I just shouldn't go after her, but that's what I tried to do for a long time and it's just not working. I tried to go after other girls but I can't stop thinking about her. So I need to go after. I know I would have a chance if she was single, but that's not the point. I ne...

Not speaking for myself. Not even speaking for every man. But there is a huge section of the male population who has disgustingly low standards. I say it is disgusting, not because it bothers me that people accept to be with someone not quite as attractive as they are, but because 1) It's not reciprocal. Women in general aren't willing to date men much less attractive than them, unless they're rich 2) I honestly believe it creates an unbalance that harms society. ​ Pretty much every time i go to a public place i see several couples where the girl is a 4 or 5 at best and the guy is easily a 7. Plenty of short, chubby girls with tall and in-shape dudes. The opposite it's very, very, very rare. It does exist, but it's not something i see everyday. I rarely see an hot girl dating a short, chubby 4/10 guy. It just doesn't happen that often. ​ I see on a regular basis guys who are better looking than me dating girls that, to be honest, are less attractive than i ...

So I (23F) went on my first 2nd date (ever). But I left pretty disappointed and I feel that I may have blew my chances due to my awkwardness and a few moments through the night. Since he bought my movie ticket, I offered to split the check for dinner. I do not know if that came off weird During the movie, he left the arm rest down. I had wanted to move it but with him leaning on it, there was no way without making it more awkward. In the end, while other couples held hands or cuddled, we sat more like friends. After the movie ended, he walked me back to my car. After an awkward pause, I ended up giving him a hug After that I panicked and said "see you around" (What I fear was my biggest mistake) In the end, it felt like I went to watch a movie with a friend and not like a date at all I really don't know what to do. We get along well but I'm too much of an awkward and inexperienced mess (I've never even kissed anyone) to make any moves and if by some chanc...

In the spirit of Halloween let’s hear some “ghost” stories! Why did you decide to ghost someone? I know it’s frowned upon but sometimes imo it’s the right thing to do. I have previously ghosted a guy that asked me three days in a row if I had my child. I told him on our first date that I was the primary caregiver and had my kid that week and weekend. Then reminding him of said fact the following day, and the day after when asked AGAIN. 👻 Submitted October 30, 2019 at 11:56PM In the spirit of Halloween let’s hear some “ghost” stories! Why did you decide to ghost someone? I know it’s frowned upon but sometimes imo it’s the right thing to do.I have previously ghosted a guy that asked me three days in a row if I had my child. I told him on our first date that I was the primary caregiver and had my kid that week and weekend. Then reminding him of said fact the following day, and the day after when asked AGAIN. 👻