I (20s F) have been texting this guy from Tinder for almost a week now, I think he’s really cool and attractive and I’d like to meet him, but neither of us has said something about meeting up yet, and he also lives ~35 mins away from me (though his work is only 10 mins away from me but idk if he’d like to date after like a 8-hour shift). I don’t have a car so I’d need him to drive to me basically… Is it too much to ask if I brought up the idea of meeting up? Also I’m not sure what to expect like if we’d go on a date or if it’s just a hookup, and where we would go… Submitted October 21, 2022 at 01:09AM I (20s F) have been texting this guy from Tinder for almost a week now, I think he’s really cool and attractive and I’d like to meet him, but neither of us has said something about meeting up yet, and he also lives ~35 mins away from me (though his work is only 10 mins away from me but idk if he’d like to date after like a 8-hour shift). I don’t have a car so I’d need him to drive

I’ve been chatting with this person for a little while, maybe about a month. Finally met them in person and I was very attracted to them, enjoyed the night quite a bit, we went back at my house, and ended the night how most adult dates end. In my bed. I woke up around 6am to them just being GONE, don’t remember them waking me up to say goodbye. I do remember that at some point in the night they said they had things to do today, and I’m not mad they left. Just never had a date leave without saying goodbye? Does this mean the date didn’t go as well as it seemed? Or they just didn’t actually like me? Did they just do this because maybe they didn’t want to feel “annoying” waking me up? Submitted October 21, 2022 at 01:13AM I’ve been chatting with this person for a little while, maybe about a month. Finally met them in person and I was very attracted to them, enjoyed the night quite a bit, we went back at my house, and ended the night how most adult dates end. In my bed. I woke up

Yep, I'm also indifferent to women and repulsed by men. This regarding romance/sex. October 20, 2022 at 11:45PM

(Aegosexual doesn’t mean “asexual who watches porn” btw) October 20, 2022 at 11:44PM

Forgive me if this is ignorant but wouldn't that just make you lesbian? Otherwise, would straight men be considered ace towards men and sex-favorable to women? The only thing I can think of are gray aces but then wouldn't that make you gray ace instead? October 20, 2022 at 11:31PM

Basically what the title saying, just wondering if there are any other online dating avenues besides the big 3. I’ve been struggling to get quality matches (and quality profiles in my deck) the last few months and wondering if there are any other apps I should try. I’ve tried the league before and didn’t like it, I had Match for a bit a while back but quality in my age group was definitely lacking. Same thing with OKC and Coffee Meet Bagel. Wondering if anyone else has had luck on any of these and I should give them a shot again. I’m an average to good looking guy, in shape, likes to have fun and explore. Hoping to find someone that also is looking to settle down eventually if it feels right, 26-32 ideally, average to good looking, in shape but not all about working out (similar to me), and just fun in general Submitted October 21, 2022 at 12:10AM Basically what the title saying, just wondering if there are any other online dating avenues besides the big 3. I’ve been strugglin

I've been single for about a year and half. I've done a bit of dating, mostly gone on dates where it clearly wasn't right, mutual disinterest, maybe a few dates hoping to build chemistry but going nowhere, etc. Recently, I was introduced to an amazing guy. I feel like we really connected, had lots in common, made each other laugh. We had a great first date, and then we see each other at a dinner I hosted with our mutuals, and we talked the whole time and he was the last person to leave, and then we went out again, went home together, and had great sex and great conversation. The whole time, he was so amazing and kind to me. He seemed so interested in learning about me, and glad to be with me, and told me how beautiful I was, etc. He texted me after our night together how much he enjoyed being with me... I am usually a bit cautious, but he seemed excited and on board! Anyways, I had to go out of town this week, but we texted each other, the interest seemed there... and then