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So one of my close friend said she has a crush on some dude from work . they flirted and he ghosted her/blocked her(25) on social media and now she is stuck on him so I asked what she liked about him so much that she's infatuated by him and she says she dosen't know. Anyone spread some insight on the situation? TL;DR Why would he suddenly block her from social media like that. Possibly he is talking to another chick aswell? Submitted July 13, 2019 at 10:45PM So one of my close friend said she has a crush on some dude from work . they flirted and he ghosted her/blocked her(25) on social media and now she is stuck on him so I asked what she liked about him so much that she's infatuated by him and she says she dosen't know. Anyone spread some insight on the situation?TL;DR Why would he suddenly block her from social media like that. Possibly he is talking to another chick aswell?

Woman here, in my early thirties. I met this woman, we will call her Sue, in my mid 20s. She was about 30 years older than me, retired, and served as a mentor to me. We became very close over the years, and she was almost like a mother to me. While I was very close to her, I wasn’t very close to either her son (12 years younger than me) or her husband Joe, who at the time wasn’t retired and had his own hobbies. 6 years ago she became sick with cancer. She was still as active as ever, and we still went to lunch or coffee regularly, and hiked together, as long as she was feeling up to it. She always expressed concern for her son and husband, and how they would cope with her unavoidable untimely death. She always joked that she would want me to end up with her husband. Well, she passed in fall of 2018. It was pretty devastating. Even though she had been sick for a long time, she spiraled very quickly and unexpectedly. I’ve tried to be there for her son and look out for him (he is a st...

Before I start, this is a post to empower women. I get that men go through the same and date women who are not worthy of them, however, this post is my thoughts on women and who they date. It has nothing to do with misandry or anything else I may potentially get trolled on. I think about this a lot. I often see people in relationships where men are dating these incredible women (IMO like how did you get this girl), yet they treat them like absolute garbage. I also think about it especially because I see my friends who have “settled”. I’m not sure why they have and maybe they are happy? Maybe I just see them as these Goddesses who deserve so much more? But maybe they want a life with a husband and baby and they realize their biological clock is ticking, so that makes them happy. Maybe because they think it’s all they deserve? To other women who I see in relationships just for the sake of it, I can see you’re not happy. Maybe you you think your life is only complete if you have a boy...

Hey all. Title explains a lot but recently my boyfriend accompanied me to work for a day and saw me interact with my coworkers. I’m deeply in love with him and would never think about dating any of my coworkers, and I consider myself to be a fairly gregarious, outgoing person. He’s much more introverted. After working with me today he pulled me aside and told me it made him uncomfortable to see me be so flirty with people, and to see them flirting back! I was immediately confused, because I don’t think I’m being flirty ever - just friendly. Why would I be flirting with anyone? I like talking to people and I am pretty bubbly. I would feel terribly embarrassed if this whole time I am just the office flirt and I didn’t realize. I asked him for examples and he says that I just don’t notice I’m doing it. But I also don’t know how to change if I don’t realize I’m doing it. What should I do? Has anyone else encountered this problem? Thanks! Tl;dr: boyfriend is upset that I’m flirty with my...

My girlfriend of two years met a guy a couple of months ago and they became friends from there on. The guy was a bit sketchy as he gave off an attitude of a "nice guy" but it seemed okay because I figured she can handle herself. But things started getting really messed up afterwards. They started hanging out more and more often. The guy would come over (we lived together), and he would do stuff like cook for her and do her chores and shit. Every time he came, I just made some bullshit excuse for not joining them and made it clear that I was not interesting in having him around. She started asking me questions about boundaries. Questions like "is it okay if I cuddle with a friend". Obviously, I was not okay with that. Things became heated when I found out she was randomly staring at pictures of him on social media. She would get into these phases where she would stare at his picture for minutes on end. Her explanation was that she just wanted to hang out with him ...

I think he means that there isn’t no forced romance/sex scenes between them. Like ya it’s his motivation because he loved her but I’m sure everyone can relate to loving something. July 14, 2019 at 12:16AM

Sounds like you might be both asexual and aromantic, though I can't decide labels for you. If you think you fit, then we welcome you with open arms :) July 14, 2019 at 12:15AM

I mean, I watch porn to see how the women act and so on. But the parts where they are recording the actual insertion and shit, I skip. July 14, 2019 at 12:15AM

My best friend is the same way. I am so incredibly lucky to have met her cause she is literally the most sympathetic and empathetic person in the world. I am happy you got accepted by your sister too ! Even though I always tell people that acceptance should come from within yourself, it feels great to have someone else validate you. July 14, 2019 at 12:14AM

This. I get turned on completely by women's bodies, but actually having sex turns me off. The women's bodies don't need to be turned on for me to be turned on, though. July 14, 2019 at 12:13AM

Still figuring it out, but probably greyromantic July 14, 2019 at 12:07AM

I've heard of (but am not deeply familiar with) something called "genital nullification surgery". However I heard of it not in the context of being an option for agender people, but as last resort for trans women whose gender reassignment surgery was botched beyond repair. IIRC it was it's described as leaving the pelvis "smooth like a barbie doll". If you really hate your genitals so much that you're willing to resort to extreme measures, I guess you could try to find a surgeon willing to do that. Obviously that would definitely leave you unable to give birth, if you were to ever have any interest in that. Adoption would of course remain an option in any case. EDIT: I just remembered there's actually an r/agender specifically for agender issues, so you might get more helpful responses in there. While there might be some degree of connection between agenderism and asexuality, I don't think most of us here are really all that familiar wit...

Aromantic, this gal got no relationship issues to deal with so I can just watch my peers as they run around desperate for them as I eat my cake July 14, 2019 at 12:05AM

I think he's saying he finds women's (possibly turned on) bodies attractive, but he doesn't want to actually have sex. July 14, 2019 at 12:05AM

Ps I'm 20 , a virgin, like the thought of love But quite awkward when it comes down to it July 14, 2019 at 12:04AM

15 year old here, I've known I was ace since I was like 13. It's not sexualising children when the majority experience sexual attraction by the age of 14, saying otherwise is incorrect, and you can definitely know by that age. July 14, 2019 at 12:01AM

I have no fucking idea July 13, 2019 at 11:57PM

Please help July 13, 2019 at 11:55PM

I could try. July 13, 2019 at 11:55PM

I honestly dont know I think i might be biromantic, but im really unsure, so I'll just stick with heteroromantic for now. Can someone help me about figuring it out? July 13, 2019 at 11:54PM

I will be the end of her beginning. My heart buried deeper than the brown of her hair, hers material sewn onto her sleeve. Hers was painted yellow, fresh, innocent like a child’s drawing, clouds in a sky of blue. Mine led as graphite markings, a scribbling in a corner, you go back to only when bored. She never dreamt of marriage, caught in in the wonder of life, she never saw the point. I vowed to keep my feelings safe, heart a brick wall away from those trying to play me like the instruments she craved. I danced like my fingers in her hand, an ant under the glass sunlight, my soul the flames of her eyes. I float, silence of waves, wonder of the future of us, but does she ever see the past? She has memories of sketching by the fields, daisies and roses, the sun setting on an empty sky she thought was happy, she didn’t see the loneliness in its blue. She asked me once why people fell in love, why I would keep trying even if the colours of our pages clashed, and harmonies flattened, if ...