Counterpoint: romantic ace December 27, 2022 at 01:22AM

Should I (19F) ghost this guy (20M) who I started texting bc I met him on Instagram. He asked me for my snap, and we have been texting on there for 3 days now, and we have been having really good conversations. So I asked him to text my number, because I literally never text on snap , literally only for him and he said, “ I hate texting.” I feel like he has a girlfriend because that’s super sneaky to me, like what’s the difference? Submitted December 27, 2022 at 01:12AM Should I (19F) ghost this guy (20M) who I started texting bc I met him on Instagram. He asked me for my snap, and we have been texting on there for 3 days now, and we have been having really good conversations. So I asked him to text my number, because I literally never text on snap , literally only for him and he said, “ I hate texting.” I feel like he has a girlfriend because that’s super sneaky to me, like what’s the difference?

This girl who I had a crush on during school but didn't go after her because she had a bf and I thought when we go to uni it be a clean break. Graduated from uni and I thought I reconnect with her, we only been talking through messenger but idk, how would I proceed forward? Submitted December 27, 2022 at 12:11AM This girl who I had a crush on during school but didn't go after her because she had a bf and I thought when we go to uni it be a clean break. Graduated from uni and I thought I reconnect with her, we only been talking through messenger but idk, how would I proceed forward?

i’ve known him for awhile but just recently have gotten closer to him and started developing a friendship with him. he relentlessly teases me all the time and tries to get a reaction out of me and he doesn’t act this way with anyone else that i’ve seen, with either girls or guys. he’s the type of guy that isn’t necessarily shy, but is reserved and keeps to himself, so i was shocked that he was so playful with me. even friends have said to me that they never see him act like that unless i’m around. there have also been moments where he’s been very sweet to me and compliments me which shocked some people too who had been around him quite a bit because i guess they never saw a side of him like that? i’ve definitely developed a bit of a crush, but i’m not sure if he teases me because he “sees me as one the guys” or because he likes me too. i know it’s not much to go off of, but what do you guys think? Submitted December 27, 2022 at 12:11AM i’ve known him for awhile but just recently...

I’ve (M24) with a girl (F22) for a couple months now. Asked her out after a 1.5 months a couple weeks ago. Things were going smoothly, no fightin, no arguing, nothing. and she came over for Christmas dinner yesterday with my fam and gave gifts to everyone. I’ve seen her parents and fam on FaceTime too. Today I was driving her home, used her phone maps, and all of the sudden there was a message from this guy that contained “blah blah blah 😘 …” on her phone. I said nothing until we got to her place. Then I asked her about it and that I wanted to see the convo. Normally I don’t ask but I feel like I have a right to when I see that to confirm there’s nothing else going on. She told me that’s her ex-coworker that was friends with everyone and sent every girl those kinds of messages. Well she refused to show me, instead she was trying to call that guy or her friend so they could explain the situation or something… I said no I want to see the convo and not talk to anyone. Then 30 mins goes...

St. Ace the Untemptable December 26, 2022 at 11:28PM