I (35m) was seeing a woman (35f) for a month. We lived an hour away, but as I constantly traveled for work, the distance was no issue. We both had a fair share of past relationship issues, mine being a failed marriage where I was walked all over and her coming from abusive relationships. After a month of seeing each other I received a text asking if she could mail me my belongings (clothes, toiletries, some odds and ends) that she told me to keep at her place back to me. Confused, I called her and she said it was to much, and the feelings were to intense. We had a back and forth about her feelings and mine. After we decided to not talk for 3 weeks to a month and to come back and see if we both still had feelings for each other. I waited a month before I made contact. She informed me she was seeing someone else and could no longer talk to me and I needed to understand that. She still texts me every other day just random things and today she called and told me she wants me to be happy a...

No, its a sign you are afraid of sex. Asexuality is about attraction, not wanting or not wanting sex March 12, 2023 at 12:13AM

but do you like it more than sex March 12, 2023 at 12:10AM

People keep saying that you should learn to how to be single and happy, but this comes from people who are way out of touch, who forgotten what it’s like to be single. Single is sleeping in an empty bed, single is the realization that you have no one, and single is the crippling loneliness that you must burden yourself with. Submitted March 12, 2023 at 12:13AM People keep saying that you should learn to how to be single and happy, but this comes from people who are way out of touch, who forgotten what it’s like to be single. Single is sleeping in an empty bed, single is the realization that you have no one, and single is the crippling loneliness that you must burden yourself with.

I get so irritated when I think of this guy that I used to confide in until he suddenly blew up at me for kissing my friend who he “hates” for insulting his job. I was so mad when he overreacted to a decision I had full right to make that has nothing to do with him. I was like why the fuck is he yelling at me if he’s pissed at that guy. While I did stay at his place years ago when I visited town (he has roommates), I see him purely as a friend and just needed somewhere to stay. Then months later he asked to stay at my place for days when I wasn’t even home, even trespassing my bedroom where the door was closed , to leave something I forgot at his home and asked for back. He also left a handwritten note and wine…Since then, he has repeatedly asked to meet me one on one, whereas I have set boundaries not even contacting when I’m in town. He’s always first to view my story and I had to block him as I would get so aggravated. I even got a mutual friend to join the most recent event, but I...

oh my gosh YES. finally someone else with the same issue. TMI: i’ve dedicated lots of time and patience into practicing masturbation because people say that’s what’s required for females to orgasm or feel aroused. but it never happens to me. it frustrates me to the point of tears. i am on antidepressants so that definitely contributes but i don’t know. even if i start to feel something, it goes away after 5 seconds and everything starts to hurt. wtf! March 11, 2023 at 11:06PM