I have never kissed anymore before, but as far as I know I don't think I have a problem with it, even French kissing. July 26, 2019 at 12:17AM

nope, but there are many aces who have that and it's completely normal! July 26, 2019 at 12:17AM

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There is something to learn from every unsuccessful move you make in the dating world. Whether it’s a breakup, getting rejected, or not even working up the courage to ask the person out at all, there’s something to take from it. The hard part is recognizing it. It is incredibly easy to just suffer through the pain of a failed relationship or a rejection but to fully move on and learn from it you need to spend some time thinking about what went wrong and how you can do a better job in the future. Not only are you helping your future self it really helps you move on instead of being stuck on the person who rejected or dumped you. For example: more than a year ago I met a girl and fell HARD for her. Going over the edge of the Grand Canyon hard. We became decent friends and eventually I worked up the courage to ask her out for coffee. She let me down easy but it hurt. Bad. It took me forever to get over her and for the life of me I couldn’t figure out why. Eventually I realized that it ...

Background scenario: talking to a girl for a while, but then the talking slows down over a period of several days or a week, and I wonder if she’s lost interest. I start checking social media and/or SnapMap to see if she’s on her phone, but just not responding to me. Is this normal? I feel creepy doing it, but I have a lot of anxiety about not being liked back, so I’m always tempted to check if she’s not responding because she isn’t interested or excited about me anymore, or if it’s just because she’s not on her phone. And then I inevitably see that she is active on snapchat or instagram, which makes me feel like shit and want to check even more in the future Does anyone have any advice? Really appreciate it Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:14PM Background scenario: talking to a girl for a while, but then the talking slows down over a period of several days or a week, and I wonder if she’s lost interest.I start checking social media and/or SnapMap to see if she’s on her phone, b...

A year and a half ago, my exgf broke up with me and left me in shambles. She had a very toxic behavior towards me and tried to isolate me from my family and most precious friends. When I found out that she was also cheating on me, she tried everything she could to make me the bad guy in the relationship. I was devastated. She even took my beloved pet cat that I myself raised. When I got back home (or square one, as I used to think), I felt like I was worthless. I felt truly alone even when I had the support of my family and closest friends. I decided to get back on my feet, hit the gym, joined a local gaming group, and slowly regained my self-confidence. Since my exgf had arguments with nearly everyone that I used to get along with, I decided to get back in touch with a girl that I really enjoyed spending time with. We've known each other for at least 3 years now, minus the time we stopped hanging out while I was living with my exgf. Every time that I go to her city, she makes ...

I’ve been dating a guy since April. Not that long but still I just don’t think he cares much about me. I just talked to him he told me he wasn’t going to see me until Wednesday because of work. I’m very depressed in general. Depression has gotten worse since I’ve lost my job. I get no support from him. Idk what to do. I can’t break up with him because I don’t want to be alone. Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:18PM I’ve been dating a guy since April. Not that long but still I just don’t think he cares much about me. I just talked to him he told me he wasn’t going to see me until Wednesday because of work. I’m very depressed in general. Depression has gotten worse since I’ve lost my job. I get no support from him. Idk what to do. I can’t break up with him because I don’t want to be alone.

Hey their random people on the web, Random (18 M) here. Since i am single and have never been in a meaningful irl relationship i am stuck atm, however you might be suddenly thinking "well what advice is this random op who hasn't even dated going to give me that i already don't know?" And well, this isn't an article of advice. I'm asking you for help and here's why: For the most part the reason why im writing this is because atm i am stuck. It's pretty shit to know that no matter what i do right now i cannot act upon any advice given to me, no,matter what the subject may be. I don't have a working social life atm, and i haven't had one ever since i've been stuck in this god forsaken house with my overbearing parents. These leeches haven't allowed me to exsperiment or activly socialize with people in my school,much less my community, to the point where i couldn't go over to any of my friends' houses to just simply hang out with...

Hey everyone I need help... Jeez already sounding desperate. Sorry for any mistakes I'm French :D. So I'm a [15 boy] and she is [14 girl]. I met her during a Big Scout meeting with all the group in Italy. I found her really cute and with a great personality. So now she is my crush, I don't see her a lot but I see her sometimes in the corridors of High School I think it is HS for you (Americans) She is like the famous pretty girl, and I'm the funny guy who talks a lot to everyone but I'm little and sometimes girls want tall men with the six-pack. I haven't got a lot of muscles but I think that I am not a loser. So I really like her, and I don't want to screw this story cause after it is gonna be weird to talk to her during scout or in High School. I saw that she laughed a lot at my jokes even the bad ones however she seems to be someone to laugh a lot. A friend told me she did found me cute but I don't think she's into me cause she never started a co...

I (20M) have never really had any experience with dating. I do not use social media, as most accounts that I've made have simply gathered dust over the years. My workplace is heavily male dominated, and most of my hobbies are either enjoyed independently or with my core group of freinds (all male, and scattered across the states as we seperated after highschool). I have tried to use tinder/bumble on a few occasions, yet I always stop after a few weeks as every match seems like I'm talking to a wall. Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:31PM I (20M) have never really had any experience with dating. I do not use social media, as most accounts that I've made have simply gathered dust over the years. My workplace is heavily male dominated, and most of my hobbies are either enjoyed independently or with my core group of freinds (all male, and scattered across the states as we seperated after highschool). I have tried to use tinder/bumble on a few occasions, yet I always stop aft...

I [19M] got this girls [20] number and I haven’t texted her yet but she only gave it to me so I could text her the link to a website. I only sent the link and that was that. She’s somewhat of a coworker but I don’t see her too often and today I asked if she would be interested in hanging out sometime and I didn’t say when because I’m going away on vacation for the next 2 weeks. Bad timing. But she did say yeah we could chill sometime but didn’t give me a positive tone in her voice so it almost sounded like she was mad I said that but she did say yeah technically. I just dunno if I’m overthinking it. Any advice? It’s almost as if I made it awkward and she knew that and she got mad at me for making it awkward if I had to guess. Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:32PM I [19M] got this girls [20] number and I haven’t texted her yet but she only gave it to me so I could text her the link to a website. I only sent the link and that was that. She’s somewhat of a coworker but I don’t see her...

Backstory: Went away to college but had one of those together without a title relationships back at home which meant summers id go home and have an unofficial boyfriend then would go back to school and technically be single (I know dumb because I stayed emotionally unavailable 🙄 ). So while I was at school, during those 4 years, I talked to a few boys but would always end it because I had someone at home. there was one guy that I really really liked and he liked me. We never kissed or hooked up, we did sleep next to each other once and go on an official date or so but again blinded by love stupidly, I ended it lol surprise surprise that relationship with the boy at home didn’t last. I moved home after college but I still go back to visit at least twice a year. The boy is from up there. A year later he got into a relationship and I couldn’t help but think damn missed a chance with a good one. Here we are 6 years later. went up to visit for the weekend and found out he was single. ...

Backstory, I got a drink with a women I work with. We madeout afterwards in the parking lot. We go out on a few dates and have sex. She tells me she's dating someone else and she'll let me know if it gets serious. She invites me to her birthday party but acts distant, and a week later I find out from a friend, she's now exclusive with the other guy. I talk to her and tell her how it bothered me she wasn't the person to tell me but I've moved on and I'm not very upset. We stay friendly. We even go out for drinks with other people from work. Nothing happens until a few weeks later. She tells me this story about how her new boyfriend got mad at her, because a male friend stayed at her place for the weekend and cooked her dinner. She thinks he is too controlling and is thinking about dumping him. She cheats on him with me and dumps him by text. We see each other casually for a couple weeks. She tells me she doesn't want to be in a relationship and doesn't ...

I'm (male, 19.5 years old) uncircumcised and I'm also half Jewish (but from a secular background in England, which is how I ended up uncircumcised). I've recently had medical issues with a tight foreskin and red and oversensitive glans when I could eventually pull back the foreskin. (I asked the medical side of this issue on the dermatology sub as a embarrassing 18+ and NSFW post about the glans penis as I included photos of the issue I had with reddish colour of my glans after pulling back the tight foreskin (but only go there if you need to know the context .) In addition, as I am half-Jewish, I was thinking there could be an advantage to getting circumcised, if it made future dating for me easier. When I asked this question on the Judaism sub here, there were mixed answers and some Jewish women who answered said they would not mind uncircumcised partners, and others said that they would prefer circumcised partners. So I was wondering if I could ask whether it would th...

Some men would take some things coming from you as an indicator that you are: 1) desperate. 2) in love with them. 3) wanting to be in a relationship ASAP and whoever knows what else. So I'm extra careful with not doing something "wrong" at this early stage, to the point that I might stop doing/saying what I really want - in the end, stop being myself. Long story short: I met this guy a month ago through this dating app (I'm 27, he's 30). Since then, we saw each other every other day and slept at each others houses. We both felt a strong connection. Two weeks later he had to leave home (Denmark) for two weeks (we both are from different countries to the one we live in) and I was unsure whether he would keep in touch: he actually did and I was very happy about it. He also knew I was going home in Spain for the summer (7 weeks) three days after he returned from home. Heat some point said, over text, "if you kee talking about those beaches I will end up coming...

Hey men of reddit! Need some advice I (28F) am having a few issues with the man I’ve been dating (40M) for 6 months. He’s lovely! We have so much fun and tons of sexual chemistry and a lot in common. It’s still more on the casual side but I’m starting to think long term with him. The issue is, he doesn’t always respect my time. He travels a lot for his work, and thus he is often tired when he returns. Most recently he made a date with me for the day after his return A WEEK in advance, then proceeded to cancel day of because he was tired. Or we will agree on a time to meet up, and the time will come and he asks to push back a few hours. Ive had it. Hes been single a long time so I’m guessing he just forgot how to accommodate a woman into his schedule, but the lack of communication and disrespect of my time is really a downer. I only have set days off and I have to plan my leisure time in advance. I have done a good job keeping my emotions in check so far, but now I feel like a pushover...

I’ve (24M) been dating this girl (22F) for about two months now and we became official last weekend. I’m a army officer and she is a Vietnamese immigrant who has been in America for a little more then a year. We live about two hours apart, but we see each other every weekend on Saturday. She works seven days a week, and the army keeps my very busy but we make it work. This is both of ours first serious relationship. When we were just dating, we only texted to establish dates. Now that we are official, I want to talk more often but I’m afraid that I’d be bothering her or come across as smothering. Our lack of communication during the week has really been getting to me recently, and I plan on talking to her about it this weekend when we see each other. I’d like some advice on this situation and how to make this conversation successful. Ask if you need more context. Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:55PM I’ve (24M) been dating this girl (22F) for about two months now and we became off...

We meet up like twice a week. Hook up, having fun. Then I started acting arrogant. Just to be flirty. She hated it. So I said sorry for it. Next mistake was me mouthing at her best friend when I was drunk. I said sorry for that. My question is: if she hates me, from all the trouble I caused why doesn’t she just block me? Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:56PM We meet up like twice a week. Hook up, having fun. Then I started acting arrogant. Just to be flirty. She hated it. So I said sorry for it. Next mistake was me mouthing at her best friend when I was drunk. I said sorry for that. My question is: if she hates me, from all the trouble I caused why doesn’t she just block me?

Hi everyone, I'd be grateful for some advice in my pretty unique situation. I will try to summarize as much as possible. So basically, I am completely inexperienced in relationships and love life, and I have not had any serious crushes up to now. It all happened when I traveled to another state to visit a friend, and I met a girl there through my friend in two different parties. First night we kind of hung out initially and I had no intention to approach her, but I believe she got drunk and showed some interest in me. Eventually by the end of the night we were cuddling and touching each other. This night passed and we went to another party together. This time we had some good conversation before the party starts, and then we both got drunk and pretty much spent all the party together cuddling until the night. By the end of the night we made out as we were both drunk. I saw her for a short time next morning and that was it. I came back to my state and now I have developed a big c...

I’ve been through a lot of relationships, each one ending as the result of myself getting cheated on. How did you meet the “One”? Submitted July 25, 2019 at 11:52PM I’ve been through a lot of relationships, each one ending as the result of myself getting cheated on. How did you meet the “One”?

Hello fellow redditers, a few months ago i decided to make a few changes in my life by dieting and getting into new experiences and one of these experiences was learning Spanish in an extracurricular institution which meant meeting new people, and the first day I sat near a beautiful and cheerful girl that I grew to like (of course after checking her social media), she was welcoming and enthusiastic and safe to say welcoming since she started conversations, joined me during breaks and asked me to walk her to the train station I am almost certain that she is single and would like to ask her out Therefore I ask your help What should I do and how do I act ? PS I am not used to this and I'm sort of shy in front of girls Thanks in advance Submitted July 26, 2019 at 12:10AM Hello fellow redditers, a few months ago i decided to make a few changes in my life by dieting and getting into new experiences and one of these experiences was learning Spanish in an extracurricular instituti...

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Yeah I just got banned from that sub for saying that we shouldn't platform fucking Elliott Rodgers Fuck em Read Butler and de Beauvoir folks July 26, 2019 at 12:01AM