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How to not be obsessive

So me and this girl have recently started dating, and I sorta have a problem where I obsess over whoever I like just because I want to be with them mainly but also because I’m in the military and lack that ability to see her when I want to. My main point here is that I don’t want to seem to desperate with our relationship and so far I’ve played it off pretty cool but secretly I am obsessing like a mf. Submitted December 16, 2021 at 01:08AM So me and this girl have recently started dating, and I sorta have a problem where I obsess over whoever I like just because I want to be with them mainly but also because I’m in the military and lack that ability to see her when I want to. My main point here is that I don’t want to seem to desperate with our relationship and so far I’ve played it off pretty cool but secretly I am obsessing like a mf.

I need a little advice

I need some advice , after my ex bu with me around 3 months ago i find another girl, she talk to me a lot, she is my coworker, I see her a lot, talk to her, touching each other. The situation is going well, she even sends me ss with her new friends requests(she don’t accept them). We are in knowing phase, but she end her relationship whit her ex because after 6 months in relationship they see each other like 3-4 times, and her ex don’t even talk to her for 2 weeks.. I feel insecure about that because I don’t want to be a rebound, I told her I don’t want to rush things and I let her know I like her, she have the same feelings for me but i don’t want to suffer again.. Submitted December 16, 2021 at 01:10AM I need some advice , after my ex bu with me around 3 months ago i find another girl, she talk to me a lot, she is my coworker, I see her a lot, talk to her, touching each other. The situation is going well, she even sends me ss with her new friends requests(she don’t accept them...

/u/GoodRighter on Would you have sex for biological kids?

Yes. I am ace and made a point to procreate. It was tedius, but cheaper than using a lab. December 16, 2021 at 12:19AM

/u/hygfb5567 on How do you deal with people flirting with you?

I try to be polite but still firm. Whenever a straight woman or a gay man very obviously tries flirting with me I just try the basics such as “I’m sorry, I’m just not interested.” “I’m flattered, but not interested.” If they start pushing anything beyond that, like making you uncomfortable or disrespecting your boundaries then they’re the ones who are being very rude and it’s not worth being very polite to them at that point and if it’s necessary you’re justified in being more firm or harsh IMO. And by harsh I don’t mean insulting them or something. Just consistently stand your ground and make it VERY clear. This is just what works for me most of the time. Idk what kind of people you may have to deal with so I guess it’s possible not everything I said is guaranteed to work. December 16, 2021 at 12:18AM

Squirting question for those who can.

Alright, pretty much what the title says..for any woman that can squirt, is there a trick? I’m a female but I love to watch things off the r/squirting sub and it looks so enjoyable, I want to know how to do it. Any advice is appreciated. Sorry if this isn’t the place for this question. Submitted December 16, 2021 at 12:46AM Alright, pretty much what the title says..for any woman that can squirt, is there a trick? I’m a female but I love to watch things off the r/squirting sub and it looks so enjoyable, I want to know how to do it.Any advice is appreciated. Sorry if this isn’t the place for this question.

When others give time to apps they get something out of it. Especially any women, any women on any app will get a fuck ton of attention plus the other benefits of that. I've done the same, being on apps, but it doesn't work out for me like it does any woman. (27 M )

Let me put it this way; there isn't even one woman, likely, who has spent over a decade on apps or simply trying to date that hasn't had anyhting happen. Honestly each day any woman likely has a few or many more guys trying something with them and I doubt there's even bene one day where you, reading lady of this, haven't had attention or interest in some way. Not nearly is it the same for any guy though, maybe for the models but anything lower will be graced by maybe a couple of coming interests each year. (Perhaps being generous with this) I can see why women feel better than guys all the time and are happier and are more confident and I can see why guys feels like shit. So, how is it that a guy could feels anywhere near the way that women get to, whilst also getting their privilege of heavy attention and interest and want? I probably should add that this would all be for someone uglier/average, that really matters if it's for the guys side and not so much th...

What's it like to have a threesome?

e and my girlfriend of 2 years have been thinking about this for some time. The thing is we love each other unconditionally but we haven't slept with anyone else. We both want to experiance and remember what was it like to feel someone for the first time. Then we thought a threesome would be an interesting turning point in our relationship. But we are scared that it would bring complications to our relationship like "what if one of us likes the third partner more than the other, etc." I would be grateful if someone shared their experience on what's it like to have a threesome. Submitted December 16, 2021 at 12:54AM e and my girlfriend of 2 years have been thinking about this for some time. The thing is we love each other unconditionally but we haven't slept with anyone else.We both want to experiance and remember what was it like to feel someone for the first time. Then we thought a threesome would be an interesting turning point in our relationship.But ...

Cockrings/ testicle loop safety tips?

I've (27m) been experimenting with vibrating cockrings, and I have found one that's very stretchy. It is nice because instead of just going around my shaft, I loop it under my testicles and I get vibrations from under there along with a little constriction. I also have a more firm one that goes around my shaft, and I push it downs as I do my thing so my balls have a little vibrating constriction from both sides. I have noticed afterwards my balls are cold due to lack of blood circulation, and for some reason they stay a little "pushed forward" for a little bit after. They also are a bit sore as well for a few hours. I've been jerking off probably twice a day usually? Should I be concerned about any real damage going forward? Submitted December 16, 2021 at 12:54AM I've (27m) been experimenting with vibrating cockrings, and I have found one that's very stretchy. It is nice because instead of just going around my shaft, I loop it under my testicles an...

Does hair make ur vagina smell worse?

Due to personal convenience and my bf I haven’t shaved in months and it’s started to get to the point where all u see is a thin layer of hair down there. I like not having to shave and my bf thinks it’s really hot but do I have worry about my pussy smelling because of the hair? Submitted December 16, 2021 at 12:54AM Due to personal convenience and my bf I haven’t shaved in months and it’s started to get to the point where all u see is a thin layer of hair down there. I like not having to shave and my bf thinks it’s really hot but do I have worry about my pussy smelling because of the hair?

Is he pulling away from a moment of vulnerability or something else?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 months. The last time we hung out we both shared some pretty personal things about our previous marriages. After he told me everything, he admitted I was only the 2nd person he’d ever told all of that too. While he was telling me about his previous marriage his eyes were slightly watery the whole time, but I just listened. Since that night we haven’t talked. We usually don’t go more than a day without speaking, but we haven’t talked in 3 days now. I’ve texted him with no response. Did he get scared or is this just a delayed ghosting situation? I’m 30F and he’s 28M. Submitted December 16, 2021 at 12:16AM I’ve been talking to this guy for about 2 months. The last time we hung out we both shared some pretty personal things about our previous marriages. After he told me everything, he admitted I was only the 2nd person he’d ever told all of that too. While he was telling me about his previous marriage his eyes were slightly watery the whole...