Sorry, idk how texting works, which one is you... and are ya winning 😂 April 28, 2021 at 12:05AM

Ah I appreciate you saying that. I met a guy on tinder that i wanted to have sex with and i was almost rushing to do it before i turned 20. Makes me feel bad now because i wouldve been a verse in that situation which im not 100% comfortable with. Im glad it never went through (although my ocd makes it feel like it did). And i also just feel myself getting older and spending the “best years of my life” in a state of sexual confusion and desperation April 28, 2021 at 12:04AM

And not the live action Jughead that people probably think of at this point. April 28, 2021 at 12:02AM

Ive been on zoloft since junior year of high school actually, i was mainly put on it to control panic attacks. I still sometimes get them. Im on 150mg of the medication right now and ill probably try switching to something else when my academics are a bit more stable April 28, 2021 at 12:02AM

Right? Like Perry the Platypus was my favorite as a kid and I still love Phineas and Ferb. I understand people saying he's only an animal in a kids show but this is the representation that has meant the most to me. Idk if that's silly, but this honestly makes me pretty happy. April 28, 2021 at 12:01AM

Ive somewhat mentioned the issue and i kinda forget what my prescriber said about that but ill mention it again during my next appointment. Its probably better that I change meds anyways because i still feel depressed. April 28, 2021 at 12:01AM

Well that's just antisocial April 28, 2021 at 12:00AM

I'd love to live in Washington either DC or state April 27, 2021 at 11:46PM

Crazy lawyer with 3 cats April 27, 2021 at 11:46PM

Different kinds of attraction: Aesthetic: They look beautiful. Romantic: They make my heart beat faster thinking about doing nice things for them to make them happy. Sensual: I want to touch and be touched by them. Sexual: I want to take off their clothes and... Libido isn't directed at someone. It's just an overall desire for sexual release of some kind. Some sex repulsed asexuals have high libido and it annoys them. This might just be oddly worded, but I felt the need to say that labels need to reflect you, rather than the other way around. It's always okay for you to want to have sex. The question is if you are classified as asexual if you "want sex". Many asexuals desire sex. That's part of "libido", rather than "sexual attraction towards others". Many asexuals also enjoy it as a part of romantic love or just for the pleasure of it. Sex can be a very pleasurable physical experience. The only thing that defines asexuals is a l...

Im a little younger than you but in my experience so far with two women with different genitals, some sex acts can be exciting and enjoyable but the act of sex is just ugh. April 27, 2021 at 11:44PM

Perry, the trans ace icon April 27, 2021 at 11:43PM

I'm not exactly an expert here, so hopefully someone with more knowledge will come along with a better answer, but I'll try to help however I can. I'm also unsure about my own sexuality, so take my words with a grain of salt. I can't definitely say what your sexuality is, but I would think if you've ever looked at a person and seriously thought that you would want to have sex with them because of their appearance, then you're not ace?? But I don't really think my advice is super practical tbh. I'm pretty confused myself. If you're that unsure, maybe consider exploring the Grey-Ace label? You could only feel that attraction very rarely. Anyway, hope my comment didn't hurt more than help, but it's really just important for you to feel comfortable with a label. You can chnage it at any time, and calling yourself Ace even if you're not 100% sure-- if that sounds good to you, then do it! April 27, 2021 at 11:43PM

lmao this is perfectly fine I honestly wish they put nothing at all so the sensitive ones wouldn’t complain April 27, 2021 at 11:38PM

Also, Brimstone and Rose's just did a Q&A and included their characters bios. Not only is the author Ace, but one of the main characters is demi. It's a fantasy romance webtoon. April 27, 2021 at 11:32PM

If demisexuality doesn't seem like the right fit, maybe greysexual is closer? Or aceflux? You can find the definitions for those easily if you haven't come across them already, such as on the LGBTA Wiki, but they should be in the wiki here as well. April 27, 2021 at 11:31PM

Wait we have three things in common.. Thats awesome! (In case you were wondering, Skyrim, D&D and asexuality) April 27, 2021 at 11:29PM

Yes there are two, but one doesn't have the #, the one that has it is the one I mean April 27, 2021 at 11:29PM

It does sound pretty stressful I don't know if it's better or worse I haven't done either yet. Age 23 April 27, 2021 at 11:20PM

Yeah, it's easy to call someone/something asexual when they would never be involved in anything sexual in the first place. April 27, 2021 at 11:19PM

I love these! Now I need some black and white nail polish to do this for myself April 27, 2021 at 11:16PM

Poggers! April 27, 2021 at 11:15PM

Petition to make garlic bread the official asexual food. I’m not even ace I just think it would be funny April 27, 2021 at 11:13PM