ive been talking to this guys everyday for about three months now and we hung out last week and i felt like he was giving me clear signs that he liked me back, recently he’s been taking 5+ hours to reply to my texts i try to reply within an hour but can’t help but feel like i annoy him when i reply i feel like this might be his way of hinting that he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore?.. do you guys think he’s finally ghosting me? Submitted October 26, 2021 at 01:07AM ive been talking to this guys everyday for about three months now and we hung out last week and i felt like he was giving me clear signs that he liked me back, recently he’s been taking 5+ hours to reply to my texts i try to reply within an hour but can’t help but feel like i annoy him when i reply i feel like this might be his way of hinting that he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore?.. do you guys think he’s finally ghosting me?

I started texting a girl from my school that I added on Snapchat. We've talked once before and she made me a very good impression. So I was snapping her for a couple of weeks and then on her birthday I decided to make my move and I congratulated her for that. A couple of days passed and I replied on one of her snaps and we texted for an hour. Next week in school we talked a couple of times during breaks, I even bought her coffee once. During this week I texted her once again but the conversation was kinda weird. My country is getting locked out again and schools are being closed so 2 days ago I replied once again on her snap and I just told her that I find her cool and that I would like to get to know her better, so we should go out sometimes. To that she replied with "I'm in, I really enjoy getting to know people". I asked her if she has plans this weekend, but she said she's busy and said that we are gonna think of something after the weekend. To that I replied...

My crush and I have been talking for a week now and I like her a lot and I was wondering if it would be best to say that I like her. I really want to do something fun for Halloween this weekend, so that's whats making me want to confess to her but I don't know how to go about it. I feel as if the feeling is mutual between us because whenever we talk she is always blushing and she always seems excited to talk. Recently she has started walking closer to me whenever we leave our class and today we had to dress up for a project for school and when I talked to her I noticed that her eyes widened and she was excited. Also whenever she says bye she always extends the word I'm not quite sure why she does this though but it was something she started recently. I remember when we first started talking she always seemed nervous but now she always seems excited and after the bell rings to leave for our next class she will wait for me so we can talk. Based off of what I said I was wonde...

Long story short, I met this dude and we got along very well, we already had a few dates (no sex) in just a span of a week and every date was amazing. Now it has been a few days since we last talked. I have never initiated our convo (all our dates were planned by him) but I do want to see him again. Usually I would just text first, I have no problem with that, but I know for a fact with this dude, this will actually be a turn off. He already mentioned to me he likes it more when the girl plays hard to get. But I also know he is also playing hard to get. He is 100% waiting until I cave in and text first. But I am also stubborn… On top of that I don’t want to risk him losing his interest. Do I text even though I know he will like me less if I text first? Or just bite my lips and wait? Until when??? I usually really hate playing games like this. But I like this guy. My patience is wearing thin though. Submitted October 26, 2021 at 01:13AM Long story short, I met this dude and w...

So basically i got out of a breakup 2 months ago thought i was ready to date went on a date with this dude and realized not only was I not ready to date at all but I just wasn’t interested in this dude. I told him directly after the date I just wasn’t ready basically and he insisted that hed wait “if/when” I changed my mind. Its been about 2-3 weeks and he’s still continuously texting me. He asked for another date again and told him basically I was just too busy at the moment. I barely answer him and I mean he’s nice and all and I really dont want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I really really don’t want to say anything I just want him to stop contacting me on his own decision you know? Is there anyway to get him to stop texting me without saying “hey stop texting me” I feel like he may think im interested still despite the fact I explained I just don’t want a relationship. Submitted October 26, 2021 at 01:15AM So basically i got out of a breakup 2 months ago thought i was ready to ...

How has no one else commented on how GOLD this response is?? 👏🙌 October 26, 2021 at 12:06AM

Everyone has a libido. Bodies do what bodies do. I wouldn't let it take up space in your head. :-) October 25, 2021 at 11:53PM

No problem! October 25, 2021 at 11:53PM

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I just recently found out about r/asexualdating , there are places to go specifically for ace people Or you could try a bigger one and mention you're ace, people won't match unless they're okay with it. October 25, 2021 at 11:52PM

I started hating sex recently. in the beginning all was well. sex was enjoyable. quite a lot. now. she stopped doing things in bed and even things she used to do in the past she stopped doing them. there are so many rules and stuff I have to do to make her confortable in bed that it became much more often for me to lose my errection. she barely touches me. I need to keep my errection with my mind alone and rubbing on her. of course... she just thinks I'm impotent and that I need to see a doctor but I know she's the one causing the problem. I find it hard to bring it up because I don't even know how to phrase this and it started bothering me as well becuase I know she thinks I'm just shit in bed. Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:11AM I started hating sex recently. in the beginning all was well. sex was enjoyable. quite a lot. now. she stopped doing things in bed and even things she used to do in the past she stopped doing them. there are so many rules and stuff I ...

There’s a long list of problems I have so here goes: I can’t initiate, I don’t know what it is with me but I just don’t have the guts to initiate sex ever. Don’t get me wrong I want to but I feel as if my gf will always turn me down. The few times I have tried all ended in rejection and she said she didn’t even know I was trying to initiate. Then it comes to the act itself. She wants me to be dominant, and I’ve tried to be but I’m just too vanilla, I guess? I’m not sure how else to put it. Finally when we get down to it and we’re both teaching that glorious moment something happens to me and all that build up I had, about to be released, vanishes. I tell her it’s my nerves and I get too anxious but we’ve been together for a long time and almost every time we do it and I get to that point it goes away, I thought by now I’d be past it. Does anyone have any advice or experience for a guy like me? TL;DR I’m 24 and can’t initiate sex, can’t do what she wants and be dominant because I’m to...

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Been a dream/fetish of mine to go without cumming for weeks, and then be tied up and edged until I can’t last any longer. I’m not sure if there’s any communities out there where I can fulfill my dream, or how to approach a partner about it. Any advice? Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:42AM Been a dream/fetish of mine to go without cumming for weeks, and then be tied up and edged until I can’t last any longer. I’m not sure if there’s any communities out there where I can fulfill my dream, or how to approach a partner about it. Any advice?

Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex I don’t finish when he does. He’s usually tired and he doesn’t exactly try to help so I feel like I have to finish myself off or I’m left unsatisfied. Not to mention he hasn’t made me finish during the deed without my help in the past.. Maybe I’m in my head but is it not weird to have to just be chillin there going solo to get to the finish line after something so intimate? Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:46AM Sometimes when my boyfriend and I have sex I don’t finish when he does. He’s usually tired and he doesn’t exactly try to help so I feel like I have to finish myself off or I’m left unsatisfied. Not to mention he hasn’t made me finish during the deed without my help in the past.. Maybe I’m in my head but is it not weird to have to just be chillin there going solo to get to the finish line after something so intimate?

okay so i posted this in a feet-related sub and i got a bunch of insane replies like “just grab her feet and kiss them” so i’m gonna ask here i have a foot fetish and i’d like to tell my gf. i know the general consensus is that it’s weird (i’m 90% sure she also thinks it’s weird), and like i get it, it’s unusual to begin with + a huge number of foot guys are creeps if i could just keep it hidden or get rid of my fetish i would, but i wanna be totally honest with her since i’m pretty sure we’re in for the long run. we‘re generally pretty kinky and open with each other about everything (we’ve been friends since we were little kids so) but i’m just worried because of the stigma regarding foot fetishes. i really really dont wanna weird her out or make her uncomfortable, i dont think i’d wanna do anything besides giving footrubs anyway i’d appreciate any advice, thanks in advance Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:53AM okay so i posted this in a feet-related sub and i got a bunch of...

I (M21) personally don't like texting, I genuinely prefer to have a face to face conversation but nowadays dating culture without texting is impossible. I started flirting with this girl (18F) a month ago, I took my time and I can say that I made her like me. We talk every time I see her whenever we have some spare time between classes. I only see her twice a week (we share one class). Last week I asked her on a date and I gave her my number to fully arrange the date (location, time, etc), she waited like two days to send me a message and now that she did I am hesitant to answer it right away, because I don't want to engage in a texting conversation since I feel that if I do, then when we go on that date I won't have any topics to talk about with her. Obviously I'll answer her. Any advice on how to avoid running out of topics and how to navigate this issue will be appreciated. Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:05AM I (M21) personally don't like texting, I g...

My fiancé and I were talking about the whole Dave Chapelle stuff that’s been going on. And so I said “would you ever date a trans woman?” He said “i mean yes, if I didn’t know. But if she told me, I would politely decline.” He told me a month ago when we were having a conversation about porn that he had mistakenly watched a pegging video. He saw a picture of a porn star with a dildo on (it was on Twitter) there was a link to it (he thought it was girl on girl action) and when he clicked on it, it was her pegging a man. What if he’s secretly gay and I don’t know? I feel like I’m about to go into a spiral and im not sure why. I’m overthinking huh? Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:07AM My fiancé and I were talking about the whole Dave Chapelle stuff that’s been going on. And so I said “would you ever date a trans woman?” He said “i mean yes, if I didn’t know. But if she told me, I would politely decline.”He told me a month ago when we were having a conversation about porn that ...

I'm happy with my life I'm just sick of being lonely. I have a dream job as my first job, I stay healthy, but I've never dated before, I tried Tinder when I started uni 2 years ago and didn't get a single conversation from it. The only recent girl I've texted says she doesn't want a relationship and doesn't want to end up hating herself and me for being Friends with benefits? (It's most likely a trust issues thing). But it's frustrating to hear cause she's says I'm a cool person even though we hardly know each other. I would give up on wanting a relationship or fwb, if it weren't for my active imagination at night wishing I had some company with me. I don't know many party throwers and clubbing isn't really an option at the moment. With my lack of dating experience I don't know if people find me attractive or not. I don't care of the opinion, I think I look good. Would just like to know my odds. On top of this, hearing...

Took me hours just to come up with dairy queen. I want to go to the fair or pumpkin patch, but I don't want to drag her out anywhere far Incase there's an emergency and she needs to see her daughter. Or hell she may even have to bring her daughter in the date. I usually avoid single moms but she's really sweet Submitted October 26, 2021 at 12:13AM Took me hours just to come up with dairy queen. I want to go to the fair or pumpkin patch, but I don't want to drag her out anywhere far Incase there's an emergency and she needs to see her daughter. Or hell she may even have to bring her daughter in the date. I usually avoid single moms but she's really sweet

Hey! So some background info, I am in high school, a girl and bi The problem I am having right now is that my crush is giving me mixed signals. Me and him are in the same friend group and have just started to become friends (although me and him have known each other as peers for 3-4 years) around the start of the school year. While getting to know him, Ive gotten a crush on him and I think he likes me too. The thing it is though is that he's giving me mixed signals. He will hug me and lay his head on my shoulder. He will touch my hands and call me cute and innocent. He will give me endearing nicknames. Then on the other hand, he will push me, call me annoying and tell me to shut up, I really don't understand why he does these things and if I'm being honest, i'm getting tired of it. Everyday I get home, I just feel so tired because of him and so beat down because one day ill be on cloud 9 because of all the cute things he did and the other I will be just over everyth...