Guys, when women do kegels during sex, can you tell and does it make a difference? Women, do you consciously do kegels or does your body naturally do kegels? Also I can only hold for 4 secs max, what’s the average? Submitted June 06, 2019 at 11:39PM Guys, when women do kegels during sex, can you tell and does it make a difference?Women, do you consciously do kegels or does your body naturally do kegels? Also I can only hold for 4 secs max, what’s the average?

i honestly don’t know the anatomy of a vagina cus i never cared in school to pay attention... my bad. recently i’ve been trying to figure out what is causing extreme pain when i try to have sex. i can get two fingers in fine. half a third. but when his penis enters its horrible and my eyes tear up. i’m 19f btw. so i put a mirror down there and did some kegals to see what it would look like lol and i noticed pink skin? coming out the hole of my vagina. i can’t see my opening in my vagina but i now know where it is since i saw skin or whatever that was coming out and i assume the part that didn’t move arnd it is my hymen. anyways after all that my question is what was popping out when i was doing kegals??? Submitted June 06, 2019 at 11:42PM i honestly don’t know the anatomy of a vagina cus i never cared in school to pay attention... my bad. recently i’ve been trying to figure out what is causing extreme pain when i try to have sex. i can get two fingers in fine. half a third. but...

Just wanted to ask what are some alternatives to lube. Something that you can most likely find at home Submitted June 06, 2019 at 11:47PM Just wanted to ask what are some alternatives to lube. Something that you can most likely find at home

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So I like it when men wear women's panties, my boyfriend is uncomfortable by this and I'm trying to be understanding but I guess I just don't know why it's so hard to wear something for like 2 minutes cause your partner likes it...this is really the only kink I have ...that I know of, anyway I just feel like he thinks I'm a creep or something :( ...how can I better except that he won't do it because he's uncomfortable without getting my feeling hurt? For more context I wanted to show him a pic of me so I jokingly asked for a pic trade, he said no and he's uncomfortable and that made me feel like a creepy weirdo To clarify I'm NOT forcing him, I'm UPSET that he is being really rude about what I like Submitted June 06, 2019 at 11:50PM So I like it when men wear women's panties, my boyfriend is uncomfortable by this and I'm trying to be understanding but I guess I just don't know why it's so hard to wear something for like 2...

Last night I went on a random date with a guy, we both met up with the intention to hook up. We end up having sex of course but he never finishes.. not that I finished either but for me it's been a while so I figured it might be harder to anyway.It was the first time I had sex in like 2 and something years.. anyway he says that it's because of him and that he takes a long time to finish and it's not because of me but we went at it for a couple hours and nothing. He still wants to meet up again and keep up this casual relationship but the fact he didnt finish made me feel insecure about myself. I don't know how to deal with it without opening up the subject with him again. Plus i dont even know if I want to have sex with him again. Last night was a lot... in the sense that I am in actual pain . Perhaps it really is a problem with me.. Submitted June 06, 2019 at 11:51PM Last night I went on a random date with a guy, we both met up with the intention to hook up. W...

So recently I have been seeing this guy m(30) for a few weeks. I told him I wanted to have sex with him. But recently I found out I have a yeast infection. Will it freak him out if I tell him that is why I cant? Or should I stay away from telling him? Submitted June 07, 2019 at 12:01AM So recently I have been seeing this guy m(30) for a few weeks. I told him I wanted to have sex with him. But recently I found out I have a yeast infection. Will it freak him out if I tell him that is why I cant? Or should I stay away from telling him?

I've wanted to ask this for a while but I've been scared, I cant find anything on the internet, so I'm hoping maybe someone on here can help. I've (F24) been with my SO (M25) for 7 years now. The sex is great, hes extremely respectful and amazing but I have one problem. Whenever I'm on top and I orgasm, I get extreme anxiety. Usually panic attacks. You can probably guess how that affects the mood. I'll get really turned on, I'm excited for everything were going to do, I get on top, the orgasm feels incredible, probably the strongest type I have. But afterwards, i feel either anxious or just drained of any and all sexual energy. Depressed. I dont have a history of sexual violence, never been sexually abused. This only happens when I'm on top. I want to fix it because I love being on top and I love the way the orgasm feels, I'm just tired of killing the vibe after I finish. Any advice? Submitted June 07, 2019 at 12:01AM I've wanted to ask ...

Okay so i (18M) was cuddling with a friend (18f) because she was having a horrible day with her self confidence. for background, she always told me that we were just friends and made it very clear we were never going anywhere. she hadn’t even had her first kiss, let alone anything past that. she is also very innocent. she had to look up what a handjob was when someone asked her, and she (coincidentally) missed all of her sex ed classes in school due to injuries. i, on the other hand, had a gf for three years (who i broke up w a month ago) and have had sex with (pretty much all the vanilla sex stuff) also, i told her i liked her (just to let her know that when she gets close to me and tells me she doesn’t like me it hurts me emotionally) and that i hoped it wouldn’t affect our friendship because i knew she didn’t like me back. it didn’t at all, it made it closer. with that in mind, we made out while cuddling, and i ended up fingering her. she told me it was a one time thing when w...

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Do you think that androgynous persons look less "sexual" ? Yep basically June 07, 2019 at 12:08AM

She may not get it. June 07, 2019 at 12:05AM

I mean... "Pride has lost its meaning" or "it's not perfect" is literally the infighting you're tallking about. You can try to incorporate what you want into it, but decrying it because it's got issues, like every group of humans is bound to, is not helping the infighting issue. June 07, 2019 at 12:02AM

Do you mind if I talk about politics? With you? June 07, 2019 at 12:01AM

SPAAAAAAAAAAAAACE! June 07, 2019 at 12:00AM

A love for garlic bread, space, and being relatable helps a lot. June 06, 2019 at 11:56PM

to be honest, the only thing I need right now from a potential partner is cuddling or taking naps together. June 06, 2019 at 11:55PM

Happy cake day! Nice ace cake! June 06, 2019 at 11:55PM

Awesome! June 06, 2019 at 11:53PM

Want: someone taller than me, helps me express myself and is comfortable expressing themselves, honest, caring, weirdo and hopefully musician and vegan as well so we can write music together Deal breaker: being conservative (racist, transphobic, homophobic, etc), cheater, manipulative, selfish Honestly I've dated a democratic politician who I felt was way too conservative. He snidely said "gee I bet you care about Indians too". He told me he feels no guilt soliciting bribes from corporations because the reps must be defeated at all costs, even sacrificing policy which at that point wtf why even run? June 06, 2019 at 11:53PM

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Okay first of all I want to eat that, and second, this is really cool Edit: just noticed, happy cake day! June 06, 2019 at 11:52PM

Wait, does it count as WLW if you're aro? By my understanding of the the term, a female Homoromantic-Ace would be a WLW, but an Aro-Ace wouldn't. Am I mistaken? June 06, 2019 at 11:50PM