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/u/FaeFlie on Do most of you "come out" to your friends as ace?

I feel like coming out as Ace is unnecessary because all it is is just the lack of sexual attraction. You have better luck explaining your views of sex and relationships bluntly than coming out as asexual. But that's me though. I know people put way too much value in coming out, but to each their own. November 11, 2022 at 12:46AM

Gay dating

Hi, everyone. Just putting this out there and I would appreciate any feedback or advice! I'm 25 and have been seeing another guy who's 20 for approximately a month. We met on tinder where he said that he's not sure he wants a relationship, but is open to meeting people. I said i'm ideally looking for dates, but could be open to friendship. We went to the movies a couple times, and have held hands (which was initiated by both of us at different times) each time since then it's been a little more intimate. Most recently he slept over and we shared the bed. We cuddled but didn't engage in any sexual activity or kissing. However that was over a week ago now. Since then I've asked to hang out a couple of times, and he has said he's been busy each time with school work etc. Which I can understand, but is starting to feel like soft rejection or something. We're going to a concert tomorrow (tickets bought weeks ago) and I asked if he would like to get dinne...

Partner of 8 years [M30] is ok with me [M31] hooking up with other guys, but not with girls

I think it might be a little bi-phobic or bigoted, he says it isn’t because “he isn’t afraid of bi-people, he just doesn’t want to be with a partner where the possibility of them getting someone else pregnant exists”. He feels this way even if I take male birth control and always wear a condom. He says it’s gross and repulsive to fuck me if my Dick has been anywhere near vaginas. What should I do? TLDR: in our open relationship I can fuck guys, but not girls because he is grossed out by the cooties Submitted November 11, 2022 at 12:11AM I think it might be a little bi-phobic or bigoted, he says it isn’t because “he isn’t afraid of bi-people, he just doesn’t want to be with a partner where the possibility of them getting someone else pregnant exists”.He feels this way even if I take male birth control and always wear a condom. He says it’s gross and repulsive to fuck me if my Dick has been anywhere near vaginas.What should I do?TLDR: in our open relationship I can fuck guys, b...

does she like me?

So today I had a girl tell me that my eyes fidgets alot when I look around and when I looked at her and asked wym she was stroking her hair while she was talking to me. What does this mean also she laughs at most of the stuff I say. Submitted November 11, 2022 at 12:15AM So today I had a girl tell me that my eyes fidgets alot when I look around and when I looked at her and asked wym she was stroking her hair while she was talking to me. What does this mean also she laughs at most of the stuff I say.

/u/bassin_matt_112 on Big Mouths Episode on Asexuality Was Awesome

I watched like the first 2 seasons (I think) when I started college. Anyways, I found myself feeling EXTREMELY uncomfortable throughout the show. Only character I likes was Coach Steve and Louis Armstrong. The question is who is the show made for? November 10, 2022 at 11:19PM

/u/bigchunkofcake on My parents are the reason why I hate sex, sexual things, and just straight people/culture.

Honestly I would suggest you to just be honest and let your words out. And if you parents tell you to suck it up just tell them no, because it bothers you and that you want them to at least reflect on how they made you feel and if they choose not to then tell them that's on them, but that they can't expect you to just forget about that and accept their response, saying their excuse is plain and unsymathic or something in that direction. Communication is a very powerful and important thing, and if they choose to be not understanding towards your feelings then they are the problem not you, and their bad responses just may show them they have nothing they can defend their bad behaviour from. November 10, 2022 at 11:18PM