I (33m) met this really unique, cool girl (26f) on a dating site a couple of years ago. We've always had kind of a strange chemistry. I think there's a lot of natural attraction, but our personalities are completely different, and it's not difficult for us to tread into a conversation that gets us both in complete disagreement. Over the past couple of years we've had multiple conversations about how we are just not right for each other, but the basic sexual attraction keeps us popping back into each other's dm's and we'd end up "hanging out" again. Multiple times we'd start hooking up and hanging out again, only to get into another disagreement and not see each other again for a few months. Each time we fought, despite disagreeing, we always seem to come out of it with a bit of a mutual understanding about each other and our boundaries and stuff. Although of course the core disagreement would always remain, and it would just be another reason ...

I (25f) have been talking to a man (33) since around Christmas. We don’t live in the same city, and we matched on an app while I was visiting his city (my hometown). I’m in an intense grad school program, and he works in finance. Right when we started talking, I had to have surgery and wasn’t able to travel for a while. We stayed in touch consistently, first via text and then by phone calls that would last hours. We ended up having a lot of chemistry and would talk about work, family, relationships, what we wanted in partners, etc. After about a month, he stopped texting as often/responding. He’s gone multiple days without responding to me, but always does and apologizes at his lack of response. Once on the phone, he’s mentioned that he hates to text and sometimes forgets to write back after days. I asked him if this was any indication of his interest in someone, and he said no — if he’s not interested he’ll say he’s not interested. We finally met this past weekend, and it was wonderf...

I(24M) met this girl (27f) when I started a new job about 4 months ago. Since then we've grown pretty close and hang out and talk outside of work alot. She meets all of my preferences and needs as far as dating goes, and we've been flirting quite a bit but she also has alot of trauma from her childhood and previous relationships(including SA) as well as some other mental health issues. She takes medication and had been to therapey but the past few weeks have been pretty stressful for her and she has taken her anger out on me a few times now, but appoligized shortly after. ​ I've never dated anyone with alot of mental health issues and I do my best to be supportive of her, but her taking her anger out on me does concearn me. ​ TLDR I really like this girl but her mental health issues concern me. Submitted March 20, 2023 at 01:15AM I(24M) met this girl (27f) when I started a new job about 4 months ago. Since then we've grown pretty close and hang out and talk o...

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yeah i love finding posts like this here where i can comment about my kink. though it's a pretty hardcore one so i don't often say exactly what it is right away. March 19, 2023 at 11:33PM

We have already met up 5 times and each time she has always mentioned meeting up again. However, I’m always the one asking to meet up. I always assume she just waits for me to ask. Should I wait for her to ask this time? Submitted March 20, 2023 at 12:08AM We have already met up 5 times and each time she has always mentioned meeting up again. However, I’m always the one asking to meet up. I always assume she just waits for me to ask.Should I wait for her to ask this time?

Has this every happened to anyone? This guy was trying too hard to talk to me. We were literally texting every day for like 4 months and calling eachother before bedtime… I finally had sex with him and things have gotten weird. We’ve had sex 2 times this last week. Things just got odd. We talk less…I’m starting to think maybe I didn’t perform good or my body isn’t pretty for him. His ex had big boobs and I don’t lol…. Submitted March 20, 2023 at 12:08AM Has this every happened to anyone? This guy was trying too hard to talk to me. We were literally texting every day for like 4 months and calling eachother before bedtime…I finally had sex with him and things have gotten weird. We’ve had sex 2 times this last week. Things just got odd. We talk less…I’m starting to think maybe I didn’t perform good or my body isn’t pretty for him.His ex had big boobs and I don’t lol….