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When a girl says she wants to be dominated during sex. What does this to mean to you?

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Hello, so I (17M) and my friend (17F) are planning on losing our virginities together, any tips?

My parents are out for the week and she will be coming round on Thursday. Any helpful information or tips would be very much appreciated. Submitted October 21, 2019 at 11:32PM My parents are out for the week and she will be coming round on Thursday. Any helpful information or tips would be very much appreciated.

When you live in Oklahoma, US, Sexual Exploration is Finite and I think I went to the wrong place to find it.

When I was 19 (Bi-M), I went to a adult video and toy shop occasionally several different times. I was invited by somebody way older than me because he wanted to use one of the stalls there. I was in my car the first time, waiting for him until a stranger knocked on my windshield. I lowered my window and he told me, "Hey, the police are going to get you if you stay in there." I asked why and he replied, "Drug deals used to happen all the time and the owner is trying to build a good rep, you can stay there if you want but I wouldn't want you to get into that mess." I believed him, shut off my car, and decided to wait inside. The guy before I entered in asked me if I wanted a blowjob, I was confused as no one was ever forward with me ever and he didn't have a bad looking face so I said WTH, the person hasn't showed up yet anyways. With hindsight, I realize I put myself in a dangerous situation, which is why I don't come back over there anymore and

Mouth kissing - why no tongue

Hello. I've been dating ladies lately who are lip smushers. and I dont mean labia smushing. I mean mouth lips. Like kissing with zero tongue. Like sometimes I try to get my gentle and very dextrous tongue near the entrance of their mouths and I am hitting teeth. Constantly. Is this a thing? I'm a 33 year old guy with a bit of mouth experience among other things. I would throw it away as a fluke if it was 1 or 2 women but it's like at least 3 of them. recently. Please help this is my throwaway account. Submitted October 21, 2019 at 11:52PM Hello. I've been dating ladies lately who are lip smushers. and I dont mean labia smushing. I mean mouth lips. Like kissing with zero tongue. Like sometimes I try to get my gentle and very dextrous tongue near the entrance of their mouths and I am hitting teeth. Constantly. Is this a thing? I'm a 33 year old guy with a bit of mouth experience among other things. I would throw it away as a fluke if it was 1 or 2 women but it&

Being an unusual partner

Hey y'all, so I'm in a new relationship and super happy about it. Sexually things are amazing between us, but it's also a bit weird for me - I'm apparently kind of an exception to the rule for him in a lot of ways. Like, for instance he absolutely LOVES how "thicc" I am, loves my breasts, etc. Thing is, he normally doesn't care about boobs that much and his normal type is tiny girls. Then sexually he doesn't normally like blowjobs much but loves them from me. He also has an easier time actually cumming with me than anyone else. So I was just wondering if any of you guys were in a similar situation and how you feel about it. Personally, I LOVE it. Submitted October 21, 2019 at 11:55PM Hey y'all, so I'm in a new relationship and super happy about it. Sexually things are amazing between us, but it's also a bit weird for me - I'm apparently kind of an exception to the rule for him in a lot of ways.Like, for instance he absolutely

Wish I could eat out my wife more

I guess this is more of a venting post but I wish my wife would let me eat her out more. I love doing it. There are few things that feel so good as eating her out and see how she gets pleasure out of it. I wish I could do that for as long as I could. The problem is that she usually wants us to 69 which feels good of course but I wish I could just focus on her. She also usually wants PIV pretty soon. She only gets orgasms with PIV sex but I so wish we could find other ways. I succeeded once in making her orgasm by only using my tongue. Its one of my fondest sex memories. I just wish she would let me do it more and even use my hands. I wish she could let me just focus on her and make her orgasm by just using my tongue and then pleasure her with PIV. That would be the dream. I try to tell her but she usually doesnt listen and since I know getting an orgasm can be tougher for women than men I dont want to do something that could kill the mood. Being able to give her an orgasm is one of th

Permanent damaged vaginal health because of false showering in childhood?

Hello, I (f23) am struggling really often with my vaginal Flora. Sex a bit more often (2x in 2 days) stress and the pill will give me a yeast infection really fast and over all I am feeling a burn really often in that area. I overthink my hygene routes and do everything like it is written in the FAQ hygene advice in this sub. All my clothes which come in contact with that area are always getting a good wash (high temperatures etc). I were at the doctor really often as I came into puberty . Sometimes they really diagnosed a infection but on other times they just told me that I am to sensible. I have no clue about anything medical but my mind is thinking that my vaginal Flora or my natural defence isn't that strong like it should be. As I tried to look at my childhood where it could came from, I remember how my mother inserted shower gel into my vagina while she washed me. I don't know if she did it by purpose but I cried every time in pain even hours after it. I think she did

Opposite shifts , sex "Rut" , anyone else experiencing this issue?

So just like the post asks , how has anyone personally gotten out of a sex rut with their long term partner while working opposite shifts. I am a 25[F] and he is a 29[M] We both work full time jobs different shifts but live together . He leaves around 7am to work and typically gets home around 7pm I work the 2nd shift and get home around 1130pm but by the time I shower and get dressed it is almost midnight and we are both pretty exhausted and we just cuddle and go to sleep . I've been having to pick up a lot of hours at the nursing home I work at and it really isn't helping the issue . We did have sex last Thursday but it wasn't like what we normally do and I felt like he was only doing it because he knows I'm upset over this , we tried again last night and it was starting off amazing we were 69ing and in the heat of the moment I jammed into his tailbone with my elbow switching positions and he snapped at me to be more careful because well it hurt and caught him off gu

I can't enter my girlfriend

I'm 24, she's 19. We've been dating about 6 months. I'm her first, I've had 4 sexual partners in the past. I've never had this problem with anyone before. We can do all sorts of sexual acts, but when it comes to sex itself, it just doesn't work. I'll try all sorts of angles, positions, what have you, but I just can't get in. She's wet and all, but no matter what I try, it feels like I'm pushing against a wall. Usually, I'll try for about 3 or 4 minutes, then I'll lose my erection at this point. It worked once, and I thought that after that it would be easier, but the next day it was right back to the same struggle. I'd appreciate any and all input or advice. Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:12AM I'm 24, she's 19. We've been dating about 6 months. I'm her first, I've had 4 sexual partners in the past.I've never had this problem with anyone before. We can do all sorts of sexual acts, but when it come

What are actual arguments FOR sex before marriage?

I did some extremely cursory research, and so far these are the arguments I've found. .Couples rarely get married in their teens anymore, so couples have to fight temptation for YEARS .sex helps to define a couples compatibility .some people never get married .people can hit puberty and be able to have kids as young as 10 years old .sex is fun What are others? Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:19AM I did some extremely cursory research, and so far these are the arguments I've found..Couples rarely get married in their teens anymore, so couples have to fight temptation for YEARS.sex helps to define a couples compatibility.some people never get married.people can hit puberty and be able to have kids as young as 10 years old.sex is funWhat are others?

31M, looking for a place to discuss and explore my uncommon fetishes

hi! i'm 31, i'm a straight guy, i'm a little lost. for a lot of reasons i'm a little behind when it comes to sex stuff in general. long, sad story. i made this throwaway account to find a place to discuss my..'unique' fetishes (nothing crazy, they're actually a little funny) but i also don't know if i want a subreddit suggested, since i'm paranoid about saying what my fetishes are publicly, even on a throwaway account i made a fetlife account a while ago but i dunno what to do with it honestly. i feel dumb. anyone have any other recommendations? thank you for reading! Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:19AM hi!i'm 31, i'm a straight guy, i'm a little lost.for a lot of reasons i'm a little behind when it comes to sex stuff in general. long, sad story.i made this throwaway account to find a place to discuss my..'unique' fetishes (nothing crazy, they're actually a little funny) but i also don't know if i want a

Ladies, how many orgasms do you have per session?

My husband and I only have sex on average once or MAYBE twice a week on the weekends. Usually once. But I usually get a good 3 orgasms during actual sex, we finish together on his, and then he assists for several more small non-penetrating ones for me after if I ask. I feel like this is pretty good, although I would like to have sex more often, like maybe less orgasms per “time” but more spread out during the week.... We’ve talked about it, but it doesn’t usually happen Edit: follow up question, if/when you do anything on your own, how many orgasms do you have? I feel like it’s possible I’m overdoing it when I’m alone... but that’s possibly because alone doesn’t happen for me very often, maybe once every 8 weeks Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:19AM My husband and I only have sex on average once or MAYBE twice a week on the weekends. Usually once. But I usually get a good 3 orgasms during actual sex, we finish together on his, and then he assists for several more small non-pene

BF (M19) is struggling with sexual confidence, what can I (F17) do to help him feel more comfortable?

So my BF is an incredibly supportive, loving and emotional guy, he’s so sweet and we’ve supported each other through a lot of emotional turmoil. (He helped me through cutting contact with my abusive dad) now he and I both suffer from mental disorders that can make life difficult. (Myself, clinical depression, GAD, social anxiety and PTSD) he suffers from anxiety, depression and OCD and has recently fallen into a slump. He’s been dealing with intrusive thoughts specifically about our relationship and that has made intimacy difficult for us. When we do have sex it’s still great but he sometimes gets overwhelmed by the thoughts and we stop or he will finish quicker than normal (because we are having sex way less frequently) and he will get stressed about that. I still orgasm and love the sex but he recently told me he is feeling insecure and his sexual confidence is lacking since his depressive and anxious slump. I support him as best I can and I don’t pressure to have sex, but is there

What does the average hookup look like?

I've never hooked up with anyone before but I have a second date with this great girl coming up and want to make sure I'm ready in case things head that way. I realize that I can never really be prepared and that I should just go with the flow, but knowing a general average sequence of events would help me out a ton! I'm looking for as much detail as possible about the sequence of events in your average hookup. Stuff like, do you immediately undress or do you do it slowly usually. Do you touch each other under the clothes before taking them off or wait? When do you get up and turn off the light or get a condom, etc.? Do you start going at it as soon as you get through the door? I'm guessing nothing will happen since it's only the second date but I feel like I should be safe. Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:23AM I've never hooked up with anyone before but I have a second date with this great girl coming up and want to make sure I'm ready in case thin

Advice for a first relationship

Hello ! So as the title says my now boyfriend is my first bf and also he’s my first sexual partner. We’ve been together more than half a year and I have not finished yet. I know we gotta talk about it and I need to be able to explain what I like... but idk what I like I’m very new to all this and I’m uncomfortable doing new things or things I don’t know. I know sex is very important in a relationship and it’s also kind of making me a bit unhappy( both that I never finish and that I might not be good in bed for him) so does anyone have any advice ?? Submitted October 22, 2019 at 12:26AM Hello ! So as the title says my now boyfriend is my first bf and also he’s my first sexual partner. We’ve been together more than half a year and I have not finished yet. I know we gotta talk about it and I need to be able to explain what I like... but idk what I like I’m very new to all this and I’m uncomfortable doing new things or things I don’t know. I know sex is very important in a relations

/u/spicytrees97 on Think about it, dude!

We’re all invincible October 22, 2019 at 12:15AM

/u/RiquitosBanana on The Cannon with a thousand layers of paint at Tufts University. Feels good.

I live right near there! I'll have to go check it out! October 22, 2019 at 12:11AM

Need some Advice

Alright guys, help me out here. About three years ago, give or take a few months, I started dating my best friend. She was like no other woman I've ever been with, spontaneous, loving, and adventurous (both in life and sexually). She would do things all the time to let me know how special she thought I was, and she brought an energy to my life that I didn't know I needed. Setting the scene a bit, I'd just gotten through a monstrous divorce where my ex wife cheated because I had cancer and couldn't have kids (her words). I'm an emotional wreck at this point, and then here comes this girl who, with a wave of her hand, dispels all of the damage my ex had done. But she has her baggage too. Two kids, and she was in a relationship. One night she confesses to me that he's abusive. That same night we hook up after a lot of emotional exchange, and it kicks off into a full blown affair. She gets away from the abuse, and we start dating in earnest. Best year of my life.

/u/unOrdinary_Joker on I made a thing for ace week

Surprisingly my LGBT roommate was clueless too :( October 22, 2019 at 12:05AM

/u/Toxin_X on The Cannon with a thousand layers of paint at Tufts University. Feels good.

Dude it’s a cannon that the school lets you paint messages on, thats literally the point, it’s not vandalism because this is its whole purpose October 22, 2019 at 12:04AM

/u/littleb63 on How I'm tryna be

I really like this illustration. Its charming because she’s pretending he isn’t winning her over when he is actually slyly finding his way into her DMs October 21, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/starrgirl97 on I used to think I was a lesbian because I find girls attractive (It was just aesthetic attraction)

I mean I am having/had this exact same issue. So cheers to not being alone. . We'll both get through it. October 21, 2019 at 11:59PM

/u/hupsistakeikkaa on New boyfriend is super supportive

A huge congratulations! I wish you all the happiness to the relationship 😊 October 21, 2019 at 11:56PM