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How to know when you're out of the talking stage? How to bring up seeing other people if you ARE still in the talking stage?

I (F19) have been talking to a guy (21M) for about a month. We are currently long distance but we text all day and call for about 2 hours everyday... We flirt most days and vocalize missing each other during the day. A week ago we both mentioned that we really like each other and that we will be exclusively talking to each other only and upholding "loyalty". However, we never mentioned "dating" or "boyfriend/girlfriend". At this point I am thinking about just telling him that I will not be exclusively only talking to him and I will only be loyal to someone when I am officially dating them. Would this be a good way to get clarification on whether or not we are still in the talking stage or not? Or should I just be straight up and ask "are we dating?" I just don't want to be too forward. Submitted August 04, 2022 at 11:44PM I (F19) have been talking to a guy (21M) for about a month. We are currently long distance but we text all day and...

I (M20) have liked my friend (F20) for years but also rejected her last year.

I (M20) have liked my friend (F20) since I met her, but she was in a relationship when we became friends - up until maybe 2 years ago. I hadn't asked her out after this breakup because I really value our friendship plus I know we want different things from relationships (for example: I want kids but she doesn't want kids, she hates kids, and can't have any anyway for medical reasons). We have been good friends for years and last year she confessed she liked me to which I replied that I just want to be besties and don't reciprocate these feelings (even though I did). Now it's one year later and my feelings for her haven't changed and she's just broke up with her new boyfriend (this relationship had only lasted about a month) and I don't know whether I should confess my feelings or just try to move on again - because even though I feel like I love her I don't want to jeopardize our friendship with a romantic relationship that's destined to fail. ...

What’s a good flirty reply to this?

My friend and I talked about being fwb and she told me that she is down to fuck “but not in the current state I’m in rn” (aka her life is a mess atm). For context, she’s getting cut off from her parents so no more financial support from them. I flirt with her a lot and she seems to take it well and enjoys it. Anyways that’s the context for y’all. Now I sent her a meme that says “She’s a 10 but she loves being alone, takes too long to open up, has parent issues, gets jealous at every person that looks at you and uses music as therapy” It sums her up pretty well lol and she replied “Lmao are you trying to tell me something”. What’s a flirty reply to this? Submitted August 05, 2022 at 12:07AM My friend and I talked about being fwb and she told me that she is down to fuck “but not in the current state I’m in rn” (aka her life is a mess atm). For context, she’s getting cut off from her parents so no more financial support from them. I flirt with her a lot and she seems to take it w...

I am a total dating failure at the moment and I know why but I don't know how to fix the problem!

I [26/M] broke up with long-term girlfriend in late 2019, just before COVID hit. I was a wreck for a few months after and went on one date back home before the successive COVID lockdowns. Since then, I've moved to London, have a promising career and have a good social life. However, I suck at dating. Since arriving in London, I have been on over 20 dates. Most of them have ended in failure (ie no second date). A couple went to further dates but we either didn't vibe or I got ghosted and one was just purely a one-night stand situation. Anyway, last night I went on a date with this really cool, attractive girl who loves the same niche bands, movies and things as me. She is literally my double in terms of interests, however, she was a bit more edgy/hipster than me (which is where I think what is about to come stems from). Anyway, after the date, she gave me her number (I only had her Hinge profile before). I text her today saying I had a good time and would she be down to hang ...

Is this girl from work flirting with me

I just started working a new office job and there’s a cute girl that’s only 2 years older than me that keeps saying I look like I’m 13 is this flirting or is she just being a bitch? Submitted August 05, 2022 at 12:13AM I just started working a new office job and there’s a cute girl that’s only 2 years older than me that keeps saying I look like I’m 13 is this flirting or is she just being a bitch?

Advice please?

I (F23) recently matched with this amazing girl (F24) on bumble. I felt there was an instant attraction and it seemed like she felt the exact same (if not more) at the start. She was the one who came on to me also. We had two dates that went very well I thought, she seemed to feel the same. After what seemed to be two nearly perfect dates and what felt like a very strong connection, she broke things off suddenly on Sunday out of nowhere (after we already had plans for a third date). She admitted that pretty much everything was what she wanted between us physically, etc. but she didn’t “get the emotional connection she had hoped for”. I feel very strongly about her and I’m devastated after it seeming to be so good. I haven’t met someone like her before and I don’t want to never see her again. Can I possibly do something to get her to give me another chance or should I just try and move on? I have not felt this way before about someone especially only knowing them for a short time. I ju...

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I actually made a separate comment with a bunch of wholesome and non traumatic shows. Well, with the exception of one..... August 04, 2022 at 11:52PM