thats cute. May 11, 2020 at 12:08AM

Thank you. I have heard about the subsets of Asexuality. I think I'm more a gray ace. I have only had 2 sexual attractions. Im 29 and don't know what is the average number of sexual attractions most have experienced at 29. My first sexual attraction was on a actor. May 11, 2020 at 12:05AM

Oof May 11, 2020 at 12:02AM

I mean, I own one and wear it here and there when I want to hint at my ace status. I'd wear it more frequently, but just can't seem to get used to the whole ring thing. May 11, 2020 at 12:00AM

Even ignoring the aphobia its kinda fucked up that an 18 year old is talking to a 13 year old like that May 11, 2020 at 12:00AM

At my primary the senior part of it grade 4-6 had bars that a teacher had to go on the step to use (this was because they atisapated that students wanted the sport teacher to race them) there was a smaller one too May 10, 2020 at 11:59PM

YES May 10, 2020 at 11:56PM

You can spin on normal ones May 10, 2020 at 11:55PM

I wear a black hair tie wrapped around my finger May 10, 2020 at 11:53PM

I never thought about it like that! I expected it to be like and 40-40-20 split. But that also alines with the data that predicts that around 5% of people are ace, rather than the recorded 1%. Our society is heavily sexualized, I think this high pressure on people must keep alot of us in the closet. Plus a lot of Ace people probably live blissfully unaware of Asexuality, due to our poor representation. May 10, 2020 at 11:50PM

I (M22) and my ex-girlfriend (F21) broke up at the start of February and haven't spoken in 13 weeks (not a long time but still). To give you some background she was rather lazy; couldn't save money, be bothered to learn to drive, cook for herself or even clean up after herself (her mum literally still made her bed). The relationship was rather insane as we went on loads of holidays (NYC and Las Vegas was literally 9 months apart), eat in restaurants ranging from £30 to £80 a meal, and she was rather spoilt by me (£1050 Tag Heuer, £400 Tiffany's necklace, £200 Gucci belt, £100 MK heels and £80 Adidas trainers all in the last five months, of a three year relationship), and picking her up from nightouts and always being at her place instead of mine, etc. (First relationship for us both. She probably get a shock when this lifestyle is truly gone. Poor her). Anyway, when we broke up, I was really upset. But there was this spark inside me that thought "let's be better...

me (20f) and my ex (20m) broke up a couple of days ago. We were together for 5 years, long distant. this whole year been really rough for us. we’ve been on and off too. Things happened and I cut it off without his last words to me because he was too busy and I waited a while long for a response about what to do in our relationship because he was already suggesting a break up because of how busy he is and how it’s bad timing and he never responded and basically wanted me to do the best for me with his paragraph And I’m religious, So while I prayed I stopped in the middle of prayer and realized that I didn’t need an answer from him to know if we belong together so I cut it off. I feel relief and fine but I catch myself still thinking about him. Today I saw his other Instagram where he posts random tumblr photos after our break up about saying how much he misses me and how sad he is. idk what to do because it is my fault for looking at it but I am still in love with him regardless of ho...

[m16], [f17] I’ve a crush on one of my classmates, and I think she also has a crush on me. Recently we’ve begun working together in group projects, and she’s the one asking me most of the time. And Sometimes she just calls me up on Discord because she wants to talk. And the last party at our school when I asked my friends (including her) for advice on how to flirt with a cute girl. She then said that I probably shouldn’t do it but rather find someone to be in a real relationship with instead of just being for one night. But we’ve known each other for about year and I think she once in the beginning had a crush on me then because how she was towards me. But these signs now are stronger I think. So first of all, is it possible for a girl to become attracted to a boy even though she already had a crush on him? If she likes me, how can I also indirectly tell her that I also like her? I would also like to know what tricks I could use to attract her to fall completely in love with me. An...

Would you move cities for another girl/guy? Even if y’all click really well in person? Anyone done this and have any experience they want to share? Submitted May 11, 2020 at 12:03AM Would you move cities for another girl/guy? Even if y’all click really well in person? Anyone done this and have any experience they want to share?

I’m in a relationship I’m not happy with and I tried leaving but when I did and after I blocked they repeatedly called me from a No Caller ID number and kept saying they were gonna call the cops to find out my location cause they were worried about me and tbh it’s starting to scare me that I can’t get out of it without feeling like I did something wrong. How should I break it off and how should I keep myself safe? Submitted May 11, 2020 at 12:07AM I’m in a relationship I’m not happy with and I tried leaving but when I did and after I blocked they repeatedly called me from a No Caller ID number and kept saying they were gonna call the cops to find out my location cause they were worried about me and tbh it’s starting to scare me that I can’t get out of it without feeling like I did something wrong. How should I break it off and how should I keep myself safe?

So last night my gf went through my phone while I was asleep for the second time ever we’ve been together for a year or so, the first time she went on it she found stuff from my PAST and got mad about it and now she saw that I had googled a girls name that I fucked 3 years ago (I had a wet dream was horny she posts provocative pictures I’m sure you guys know why I looked it up) she had me unfollow her on Instagram a few months back and she’s also private on there which is why I had to google anyway I didn’t find anything and just dropped it however never deleted the browser my gf confronted me about it and said that this is disloyal that even tho I didn’t do it I acted on the thought and I would never have told her had she not gone through my phone my answer was I took a step in the wrong direction didn’t find anything and turned back before what I assumed was too late and that If I really wanted to do it I could’ve had my friends send pictures of her which I didn’t. She says that thi...

Hello, I'm a 20 year old guy. I've been in love with this girl for more than 3-4 years. I've always thought about living the rest of my life with her. We have never really officially dated but when we met( 4 years ago), we got very deeply attached to each other. We used to say I love you to each other, think about living as a family, helped each other grow as a person. This phase sadly ended after a year. We were really immature back then. (~lasted for 1.5 years) She had me blocked after that and would randomly unblock and text me whenever anything in her life would make her sad/ vulnerable. Her frequency of texting me increased over time. One in a 100 times she would actually text me to talk to me. Gradually we started talking again. She claims she has no feelings for me now, as she had been for a long while. But the thing is she would always show strong hints of mutual attraction, taking the extra steps of care that no normal friend or even a family member would make....

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So I (22F) have been single for a while now. My boyfriend of three years broke up with me about a year ago and I decided to try Tinder and Bumble. I went on a couple dates before I met this guy (24M) who's amazing. A couple months later we're talking about his buddy's kids and he asks my opinion about children. I mention that I have no desire to have kids because I don't think I have a maternal instinct, I want to travel, and I want to go further in my academic career (my ultimate goal is a PhD). After that he got really distant and broke it off. About a month later (because I forgot to delete him off Snapchat), he posted a lovey dovey picture with his "friend" who's a mother of four. I felt like crap for telling him I didn't want kids. Since then, I took my friends' advice and have been politely upfront about not wanting kids when asked about it. I was messaging someone a while back and they stopped messaging me after asking me if I wanted kids a...

me (20f) and my ex (20m) broke up a couple of days ago. We were together for 5 years, long distant. this whole year been really rough for us. we’ve been on and off too. Things happened and I cut it off without his last words to me because he was too busy and I waited a while long for a response about what to do in our relationship because he was already suggesting a break up because of how busy he is and how it’s bad timing and he never responded and basically wanted me to do the best for me with his paragraph And I’m religious, So while I prayed I stopped in the middle of prayer and realized that I didn’t need an answer from him to know if we belong together so I cut it off. I feel relief and fine but I catch myself still thinking about him. Today I saw his other Instagram where he posts random tumblr photos after our break up about saying how much he misses me and how sad he is. idk what to do because it is my fault for looking at it but I am still in love with him regardless of ho...

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