I think it’s our choice if we want to be part of lgbt+ or not. But nobody should assume we aren’t November 18, 2021 at 12:06AM

I'll be honest, most days it doesn't feel like this. Had someone who's really into LGBTQ issues come up to me and try to tell me how being an ace wasn't a real issue given it wasnt based in sex... I really appreciate your comments OP, it's doesn't feel as lonely when I read this, at least for a moment. November 18, 2021 at 12:05AM

Dude that’s sad November 18, 2021 at 12:03AM

Glad someone told me I could be ace half a year ago cause like I wasnt exactly struggling with how I felt but I was confused with how other people found people attractive and how it worked :,D, I think I dodged a bullet realising I'm ace/graysexual by 14 (I think I'm too young to fully know how I feel but I definitely have at least very limited sexual attraction to people) November 18, 2021 at 12:02AM

Try r/antisex . November 17, 2021 at 11:53PM

My husband and I have recently talked about playing around with the DDLG kinks and, I am already very sure I'll enjoy it, and I think he will too. However, how the hell do we break past the awkward beginning? We already agreed we should probably drink a little to loosen us up, but that's the best we have. Neither of us have ever played around like this, so we don't have any idea where to start. Any suggestions would be amazing. Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:50AM My husband and I have recently talked about playing around with the DDLG kinks and, I am already very sure I'll enjoy it, and I think he will too. However, how the hell do we break past the awkward beginning? We already agreed we should probably drink a little to loosen us up, but that's the best we have.Neither of us have ever played around like this, so we don't have any idea where to start. Any suggestions would be amazing.

Had a shitty day today package did not come in on time, scraped a car then scarred a car again. Had intercourse though and it was nice but I noticed the condom may have had pre cum in it when he kept thrusting. Any concern it may have gotten pst the base and into me? Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:51AM Had a shitty day today package did not come in on time, scraped a car then scarred a car again. Had intercourse though and it was nice but I noticed the condom may have had pre cum in it when he kept thrusting. Any concern it may have gotten pst the base and into me?

Hello fellow members. Me (f) and my boyfriend (m) are thinking about starting an account here on reddit and perhaps OF and post sexy lingerine, maybe costumes eventually and some exclusive short clips of us both intimate doing our thing. without showing our face/tattoos and such. I'm an extremely shy person and trying to open up in general, but we both get turned on by these risky stuff. Do any of you have some tips for where to start, how to do this type of content or where to post stuff like this? Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:52AM Hello fellow members. Me (f) and my boyfriend (m) are thinking about starting an account here on reddit and perhaps OF and post sexy lingerine, maybe costumes eventually and some exclusive short clips of us both intimate doing our thing. without showing our face/tattoos and such. I'm an extremely shy person and trying to open up in general, but we both get turned on by these risky stuff.Do any of you have some tips for where to start, h...

So I know that having a sex drive and being horny at the age of 16 is normal and all, but I feel like mine is way to high. It’s basically how I feel all the time. It makes it really hard to concentrate at school. And I can go rounds and rounds of masturbating before I give up. Not to mention how long my boners last. It worries me a lot. I don’t know if my sex drive is normal or really high. Cause I tried talking to a couple of my good buddies about it, and they aren’t the same way. So should I be concerned? And if it is too high, is there a way to lower it? Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:54AM So I know that having a sex drive and being horny at the age of 16 is normal and all, but I feel like mine is way to high. It’s basically how I feel all the time. It makes it really hard to concentrate at school. And I can go rounds and rounds of masturbating before I give up. Not to mention how long my boners last. It worries me a lot. I don’t know if my sex drive is normal or really hi...

I noticed something while I was meditating and listening to a monk speak about love, he mentioned giving a gift to someone you love and said "to give a gift to him or her" when I heard this I imagined giving a girl a gift and it was a nice image, when I imagined the inverse I felt something strange. I couldn't picture the situation where a girl gives a guy a gift. I started feeling all this negative stuff like "men don't deserve gifts men are trash" now this is not something I believe, I believe that there are many good men out there. I as a man count myself among them yet here was this feeling that men don't deserve gracious kindness the same way women do- and I couldn't stop thinking to myself where is this coming from ? What is this feeling? Is this the voice of the culture I live in where men and masculinity are constantly accused of inherently being creeps or aggressive or dangerous ? I know so many good men with hearts of gold and I know myse...

I went out on three dates with this amazing girl and things only got better and better. She even started telling me about her family and started thinking about things we could’ve done together with her sisters in the near future if things continue to work out. She was shy and reserved but got more and more open. On the third date she was initiating holding hands, which was good since again she’s shy. After the first date she was still texting like normal. Then a day after that she complete ended it with “hey I need sometime to figure things out.” I asked if she wanted to end things and she replied with “I need time to figure things out. A break might be best for now.” I tried to reach out once about a week later just to check up, and then again another 2 weeks after that. She basically complete ghosted. She won’t even check my ig stories. And if she does she prevents the second one from loading as if she doesn’t want me to see that she looked at my stories. She’s a med student that ta...

I like to think of myself as average in terms of attractiveness and personality but never able to garner any sort of sex appeal. What can a guy, who isn't your typical alpha male, do? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 11:58PM I like to think of myself as average in terms of attractiveness and personality but never able to garner any sort of sex appeal. What can a guy, who isn't your typical alpha male, do?

A guy [M31] I'm really into lives a few hours from me [F30] but I'm planning to visit next week. We hooked up last time I was there and he expressed the desire to do so again a lot since them. However the last two times we've messaged for a few days then the line goes dead on his end until one of us posts something that sparks interest enough to message again. When we message he mentions he's into me so I don't think him not being into me is the reason he doesn't message back after a few days. However, seeing as this has happened twice now I'm embarrassed to message again to see if he wants to meet up next week, I feel like I'm coming across too eager... am I overthinking this? Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:05AM A guy [M31] I'm really into lives a few hours from me [F30] but I'm planning to visit next week. We hooked up last time I was there and he expressed the desire to do so again a lot since them. However the last two times we...

Hello everyone, I am a 24 y/o male. I've always been told I'm good looking, and I honestly believe it. But when I approach women, I'm very afraid of making them uncomfortable. I don't want to come across weird, make them feel weird, or offend. So instead of acting confident, I always have this awkward vibe. But there's this girl who works at a clothing store I shop at, and she's always very very very flirty with me. Today we were talking while I was getting clothing and we were making each other laugh A LOT. I've dated in the past, so I know the signs when someone is interested in me. I want to go ask her for her number, but I'm afraid I'll come across weird. OR maybe she'll have a boyfriend? We don't know each other at all, but there are little sparks when we do interact. Would it be weird to ask her out next time I'm shopping in there? ​ Thanks everyone :) Submitted November 18, 2021 at 12:08AM Hello everyone,I am a 24 y/o ma...

A woman I've been casually dating for the last 1.5 months has been entirely forthcoming in her disinterest in being in a relationship or "date date"ing at the moment. When she brings it up, I always ask if she'd prefer we saw each other less frequently, and if on the days we do, she'd rather I didn't stay over. She said no, but insisted on taking things slow. She's been distant, not as talkative, and I don't know what to do with it. Claiming being overwhelmed, and trying to get back to a place where she feels good. I suggested meeting up, and she said she was busy, and because of our discussion about her not wanting a relationship, I asked if things were just not what she wanted right now. I really tried not to be pushy, needy, etc. And now our conversation has come to a complete stop. I listened to her, I understood where she was coming from, even offered solutions that would make her more comfortable in the speed at which things were going. She ...

I've (f) been in a relationship with my partner (m) for about two years. I'm always shy in the beginning sexually, and so the sexual advances he made in the beginning kind of weren't received well? or rather, my response wasn't very encouraging. last year I got comfortable enough to be ready to be my normal frisky self. but by that time, I think the "rejection" I gave early on in the relationship kind of made him shut down. ever since then I've been making advances through text whether it's sexual conversation, pictures, etc., and he just never really has fed into it. So finally I kinda got fed up, communicated my feelings a few times. finally he told me last week, that I don't present myself as a "sexual being" so he isn't sure what I want from him. I mean I've sent him pictures, tried to sext him like i said. tbh I'm not sure what he wants, and he's not the type to just communicate . instead I have to read his mind. SO...

I ask here because it might be inappropriate to ask on the english learning sub and also probably most native speakers can answer, so i ask in here: Can "hot" mean being sexually attractive (as in "he's hot") and also mean to be lustful (as in "he doing that gets/makes me hot")? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 11:26PM I ask here because it might be inappropriate to ask on the english learning sub and also probably most native speakers can answer, so i ask in here:Can "hot" mean being sexually attractive (as in "he's hot") and also mean to be lustful (as in "he doing that gets/makes me hot")?

I don’t understand why? It happened earlier this year by a friend of mine. I don’t get why i feel attracted to him. I wonder if i actually enjoyed what happened to me. Although i said no, i can’t shake the feeling that it felt good. I feel like something is wrong with me for thinking like that. i have nightmares & panic attacks about the situation but whenever me and my current boyfriend is having sex i think back to that night & it’s like i start enjoying our sex more. I sometimes wish my boyfriend would do that to me.. Just be overly aggressive with me but he is a naturally soft & loving type of man. I hate when i cry about it because i feel like i’m lying to myself?? Like i’m not traumatized about what happened? idk i just feel like i’m really fucked up for thinking this way. Submitted November 17, 2021 at 11:27PM I don’t understand why? It happened earlier this year by a friend of mine. I don’t get why i feel attracted to him.I wonder if i actually enjoyed wha...

As the title says, really. I masturbate about as much as any single, horny 18m would, and once upon a time it would make me feel really good. I'm talking massive, powerful orgasms that actually had be being vocal to myself, of making my body shudder and convulse. Even the volume of cum afterwards was a good show of how good it felt. But for the past few months? That just hasn't happened anymore. I still masturbate, but they don't feel nearly as good as they used to. It's like two seconds of "Hey, there we go now it's starting to feel good" and then I cum and its over. I've tried edging and it doesn't really make things change, I'm just still limited to those two seconds each time I get closer. And again, even the volume has gone down. In the past I'd use a bunch of tissue for maybe five or ten minutes to clean up after myself but now it's like two squares of toilet roll and I'm done. I know it's probably shallow to ask this, ...

My Girlfriend of 3 months cannot of sex with me without fingering my ass. I don’t enjoy it - only occasionally. I worry I have a slippage. How can I get her to politely stop without insulting her? Submitted November 17, 2021 at 11:30PM My Girlfriend of 3 months cannot of sex with me without fingering my ass. I don’t enjoy it - only occasionally. I worry I have a slippage. How can I get her to politely stop without insulting her?