So I (26F) been talking to this guy (27M) and we wanna be fwb, we haven’t had sex yet, I was planning to see him last week in person but once this virus thing hit hes paranoid and so am I lol So for now he wants to facetime sex tonight basically….he said he wants me to finger myself on camera and do all this stuff..I dunno, I feel like if it was in person I would feel more comfortable getting freaky with him but I think on camera it would be awkward idk…..Does anyone have tips on how to relax and get in the mood for this type of stuff? I’m not a pro webcam girl or anything I haven’t really done anything like this and I’m scared to look dumb.. Submitted March 22, 2020 at 12:05AM So I (26F) been talking to this guy (27M) and we wanna be fwb, we haven’t had sex yet, I was planning to see him last week in person but once this virus thing hit hes paranoid and so am I lol So for now he wants to facetime sex tonight basically….he said he wants me to finger myself on camera and do all t...

Today me (f20) and my bf (m20) had sex earlier and that was great but then I smoked a bit and weed always makes me horny so I wanted to go again but he hadn’t had enough of a refractory period yet and was paranoid because our roommates are home. So I asked him to finger me and he said no because I haven’t been enjoying his fingering lately and he didn’t want me to say that again. And I didn’t say anything to that, my immediate reaction was shock and then disappointment and anger at myself for expecting too much but then I thought no I deserve this and then I just felt hurt. Is it wrong for me to feel a little upset? I always blow him if he asks even if I’m not in the mood and I don’t super enjoy them because I know he does and I like getting him off. And when we started dating (I was a Virgin when I met him) I was bad a blowing but I constantly asked for advice and tried to get better so I could give him everything and I’m much better now and he can cum easily when I blow. So I though...

Well it's taste you'd say. But I'm not so sure it is truly a 50/50 even split at who likes eye contact from their guy when receiving oral vs who doesn't. If it was 90/10 then cmon, we don't want to just say "it's just taste" It's not that often that guys think female eye contact is creepy, but I do think there are many times where women feel that male eye contact on them is creepy. Submitted March 22, 2020 at 12:17AM Well it's taste you'd say. But I'm not so sure it is truly a 50/50 even split at who likes eye contact from their guy when receiving oral vs who doesn't. If it was 90/10 then cmon, we don't want to just say "it's just taste"It's not that often that guys think female eye contact is creepy, but I do think there are many times where women feel that male eye contact on them is creepy.

Hello guys gals and non-binary pals. I have a question and am looking for some advice/input/personal anecdotes, etc. I’ve (22f) been with my partner (27m) for a year and a half. Wonderful relationship, always made sure we kept a strong foundation of friendship, and crazy perfect sexual compatibility. Like just unreal on every level. Not bragging, it’s relevant, don’t worry. 2 months ago I found out he slept with someone else in the early months of our relationship. Details are unclear as I’ve been too scared to ask, but from what I understand it went successfully once, and another 2 times he went to hookup with her and...ahem...the equipment seemed to not be working on his end. We’ve been separated from each other since January due to unforeseen circumstances and he’s due to be back around mid-April. We’re both extremely sexual people and touch is a huge part of our love language. My dilemma is trust is a HUGE part of sex for me, and I’m worried about how this will affect our sex l...

I'm in a bit of a crisis at the moment. A few days ago, my boyfriend informed me that he had been gradually losing attraction and falling out of love with me over a 6 month period. We discussed why, and a lot of it was to do with my lack of motivation in life. I'm working on that every day now, making sure I get healthy, stay positive, and try to get somewhere in life. But the attraction part... how do I work on that? I can't do 'spontaneous' little sexy surprises because he's not interested. There's nothing to spice up at the moment because it's nothing. We've been trying an open sexual relationship so we can vent our sexual frustrations, and he is very very interested in these guys (all of whom are asian.. I'm white.) And has regular encounters with a handful of them. Meanwhile he exhibits zero attraction to me. What can I do to even begin to get him to see me in that way again? Submitted March 22, 2020 at 12:21AM I'm in a bit of a...

I have a very large penis and when I penetrate my girlfriend I enjoy the tightness at the beginning and I am very careful and we enjoy it both together... but at some point I am too horny and push harder and deeper into her, touch and feel her cervix and she is in pain. What can I do even better, even though I am normally totally careful and only when just before climax i push too hard and deeply into her? Submitted March 22, 2020 at 12:22AM I have a very large penis and when I penetrate my girlfriend I enjoy the tightness at the beginning and I am very careful and we enjoy it both together... but at some point I am too horny and push harder and deeper into her, touch and feel her cervix and she is in pain. What can I do even better, even though I am normally totally careful and only when just before climax i push too hard and deeply into her?

I'm a bisexual Asian guy, born and raised in an East Asian country. My family and friends back at home don't know about me having sex with men but I don't keep it a secret here (American college). However I came here only few months ago, so very few people know about me about my sexuality or anything else about me. I never had sex with a man in my country, never even thought about it, and I never felt romantic attraction to a guy. To make it clear, I've a girlfriend back home so I'm not talking out of envy or else. I'm not shy about talking how common is for Asian girls, especially the ones living in the West, to prefer White men over Asian men and how this is absolutely wrong, mainly because you should judge everyone as an individual and not because their race/ethnicity/nationality and so on. I truly hold this view and, like I wrote, I'm not shy at all to express it. That said, I confess I'm (irrationally, at least for me) aroused by the difference i...

Ok so I’m about halfway through a course of antibiotics for BV. I didn’t even know I had it until my doc tested. My only symptom was a recurring yeast infection. Today I had sex. I couldn’t help myself. My partner is so sexy. Now it burns to pee. SO BAD. during sex the entrance to the vagina was a little painful but manageable. Now I literally can’t pee because of the pain. Do we think this will go away if I sleep on it? Should I call my doctor? Have I prolonged my BV? HELP! Submitted March 22, 2020 at 12:25AM Ok so I’m about halfway through a course of antibiotics for BV. I didn’t even know I had it until my doc tested. My only symptom was a recurring yeast infection. Today I had sex. I couldn’t help myself. My partner is so sexy. Now it burns to pee. SO BAD. during sex the entrance to the vagina was a little painful but manageable. Now I literally can’t pee because of the pain. Do we think this will go away if I sleep on it? Should I call my doctor? Have I prolonged my BV? HEL...

I’m having some marriage issues and I just would like to know someone else’s thoughts about this or if anyone can offer me any advice that would be great. My husband and I got married when we were 18, we both turned 19 shortly after. We are both now 20 (married for almost 2 years) and I feel like I’ve made a mistake. We were high school sweet hearts (started dating when we were 15, together for almost 5 years) I felt like I knew him and now I feel like he’s a stranger. Everything was great when we first got married. I was so excited to be with him in our own place. About 6 months go by after getting married and I just have a gut feeling something isn’t right. I found out he had been lying to me for a very long time and it really broke me. It felt like he hid it from me until after we got married so I “couldn’t leave.” After finding out about this lie, it kind of opened my eyes that he had been lying to me pretty much the whole time we had been together. I feel like he is a completely ...

Thank you! Things will get better, just currently a bad mix. March 22, 2020 at 12:15AM

Considering that, according to Stale Mouldybread, I'm already on the brink of infertility, I would do what I have done so far: Try to build up a good life, inch by inch, learn new things, find good things and try to be a good sister to my siblings. March 22, 2020 at 12:12AM

Damn, that’s an awful week you’ve had! I’m so glad that your parents were supportive. It’s hard enough being cooped up inside; fighting with them would make it even worse. Hang in there, and I hope things look up for you soon. March 22, 2020 at 12:10AM

Yes, holy mother of god! I'm constantly questioning my sexuality because I think "oh, he/she looks interesting!" and I have to ask myself: Is this what they call attraction? Is it? Another reason I'm questioning everything constantly is my libido. I sometimes like thinking about sex. But when I imagine touching somebody sexually IN REAL LIFE, when they are 3D and real and there it completely repulsed me. Urgh. And that I'm thinking about all of this makes the voice go "hey, you are thinking a lot about sexual attraction a lot! You are probably not asexual". This is so confusing and annoying and I want it to make sense. March 22, 2020 at 12:10AM

Happy to hear that! March 22, 2020 at 12:03AM

Thank you! March 22, 2020 at 12:03AM

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Temporarily losing interest as a result of a recent bad experience is not the same thing as being asexual. That being said, nothing in your description of the situation rules out the possibility that you were actually asexual the whole time and didn't know it yet. It's probably going to take a while to sort this out. You should probably see a therapist about this if you're not already. March 21, 2020 at 11:58PM

This just described my life down to a t 😶 it's like being inside a pinball machine of attraction. March 21, 2020 at 11:56PM

That sounds very much like what I’m experiencing, thank you! March 21, 2020 at 11:55PM

Hey there, my fellow, how are ya doing? :) March 21, 2020 at 11:51PM

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I have sometimes experienced an association between sleepiness and random erections (it's probably the same biological process as what causes morning wood). But is there more to it than that in this case? Physical arousal/sex drive is one thing, but if you suddenly become interested in actually having sex with people, that's another thing. Increased sex drive by itself shouldn't normally make you less asexual overall. If it goes away when your inhibitions are down, then your disinterest in sex might indeed be more like an acquired hangup than your actual sexual orientation. You might talk to a psychiatrist about this. Just make sure to find one that actually understands asexuality and can distinguish it from other issues like social anxiety; from what I've heard some of them won't even properly consider the possibility that their patient is actually ace, and will assume that the lack of interest in sex must be caused by an underlying problem that can and should ...